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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is it rude to ask outright/direct if someone your chatting you actually wants sugar in their coffee/tea ??? lol
no seriously now --- once you establish a connection and tick each others boxes personality wise - should ask if they like some of things you like sexually or does that wait until your in bed ???
NB: this NOT a personal question - just one for discussion
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We like to have frank and funny conversations with prospective play mates socially first...not as a menu of requirements or to feel that we have a tick list of things to do but more as a general judge of compatibility...it all adds to building up the overall picture...and it's fun!  |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
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You should agree everything before getting in bed apart from anal. Don't mention that until you have breached the bomb bay doors, and are displaying your brown wings. Makes the ride far more turbulent  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer establishing sexual compatibility before agreeing to meet 
I prefer to establish coffee compatibility before sgreeing to a meet! "
Fap-fap-puccino   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Luke has coffee, white with one sugar, tea for me please, white with 1 sweetener!! Many thanks
Ok we like build a rapport first then talk about likes/dislikes!! But we don't really plan what's going to happen on our meets unless I want to try something different |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I ask up front. Not planning as such but I need to know do's and dont's. "
Same here, after a few messages and if it looks like we are going to meet I tend to ask for 'dos and donts' |
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"You should agree everything before getting in bed apart from anal. Don't mention that until you have breached the bomb bay doors, and are displaying your brown wings. Makes the ride far more turbulent "
That works both ways right?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always make double sure people know what's on offer before a meet, because I have felt pressured into more at a meet, and as a single women, this can be quite off putting  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You should agree everything before getting in bed apart from anal. Don't mention that until you have breached the bomb bay doors, and are displaying your brown wings. Makes the ride far more turbulent "
Grab yer ankles and bite down on the satsuma. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"talk about it first.. im not saying plan a meet with military precision but its important to know your gonna be singing off the same hymn sheet "
Does this mean I am supposed to give them a choice of songs??  |
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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago
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No I don't think it's rude.
However, make sure they are telling the truth and not just agreeing with you just to get in your pants.
Had someone say how much he hated bum fun blah blah blah, next minute... Oops wrong hole Yeah of course Knob! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Brill response as usual
Recently i had both approches ....
"when we meet will you fuck me there and then and do.......... to me"
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"when we meet can we discuss our likes and dislikes"
My way is dead simple - chat to flirt to social meet to re arrange to bed ; all as to follow the whole inquisitiveness of conversation along the way - nothing worse in my opinion to find out the he/she likes spreading marmite on your bits to get turned on; if your a veggie ..is it lol ....you get my drift |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"talk about it first.. im not saying plan a meet with military precision but its important to know your gonna be singing off the same hymn sheet
Does this mean I am supposed to give them a choice of songs?? "
only song you sing is 'its begining to look a lot like....  '
Oh feck almost said it.. phewww |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"talk about it first.. im not saying plan a meet with military precision but its important to know your gonna be singing off the same hymn sheet
Does this mean I am supposed to give them a choice of songs??
only song you sing is 'its begining to look a lot like.... '
Oh feck almost said it.. phewww "
nooooooooooooooo that's not true ...... I sang in my bestest voice in the forum today .................. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"talk about it first.. im not saying plan a meet with military precision but its important to know your gonna be singing off the same hymn sheet "
Do you sing hymns before or after |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"talk about it first.. im not saying plan a meet with military precision but its important to know your gonna be singing off the same hymn sheet Do you sing hymns before or after "
probably best not during  |
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