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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Or do you say what you think and know others want to hear ....
Yes I know everyone will say
' I only say what I want yaddda yaddda etc etc' but I have to wonder with some things I read ...
Always one for a little controversy
Be nice and respectful and above all honest 
For the record I say ' yes you look wonderful' to people with pizza round their faces  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Depends on the person and depends on the situation and depends if my comment will tip that person over the edge... "
ooOOooo so its a bit of a yes and a bit of a no
Right in the middle - play safe |
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"Depends on the person and depends on the situation and depends if my comment will tip that person over the edge...
ooOOooo so its a bit of a yes and a bit of a no
Right in the middle - play safe "
lol...I have too as usually I say what I think and it aint always the right thing to say.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Depends on the person and depends on the situation and depends if my comment will tip that person over the edge...
ooOOooo so its a bit of a yes and a bit of a no
Right in the middle - play safe
lol...I have too as usually I say what I think and it aint always the right thing to say...."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah I say what I want gets me in trouble at work and socially, I am told I am sometimes too truthful. Well thats the way I am I say what I think or Feel so then at least theres no lies or twisting or bitching you know where your at.
Must get it from my old Mam because Im almost 30 now and I am still sh*t scared to ask her opinion |
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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago
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I try and put things politely, and not shout someone down.
As I said on another thread, I have learned a lot and have reflected on things, so feel a lot more chilled about stuff.
I don't think I have ever 'sucked up' to someone. As Roy Walker used to say "Say what you see" and that sums me up. Although I may have been a lil bit sarky on one or two posts, but I can't help it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I say what I think because if I varied from that and someone asked me again then I'd never remember what I said in the first place.  "
Ah thats the same with lying - Id be bloody useless because I don't even remember what day of the week it is |
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"I say what I think because if I varied from that and someone asked me again then I'd never remember what I said in the first place.
Ah thats the same with lying - Id be bloody useless because I don't even remember what day of the week it is"
Exactly... I'm way too honest for my own good! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yeah I say what I want gets me in trouble at work and socially, I am told I am sometimes too truthful. Well thats the way I am I say what I think or Feel so then at least theres no lies or twisting or bitching you know where your at.
Must get it from my old Mam because Im almost 30 now and I am still sh*t scared to ask her opinion"
Hmmmm interesting thank you  |
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I say what I like or wish but not necessarily all up front a little bit of tact and diplomacy goes a long way. But that doesn't mean you have to say something you don't believe in or wish to happen. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I say what I like or wish but not necessarily all up front a little bit of tact and diplomacy goes a long way. But that doesn't mean you have to say something you don't believe in or wish to happen. "
Yea I get it ... diplomacy is good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can be honest and say what I think, but sometimes that gets me in trouble.
I can also say what I think peoe want to hear, specially if it's for my personal gain, and I'm on about professionally and personal life here.
So I guess I'm guilty on both counts me Lady |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No I would have to be honest and say I could give you about 6 minutes, and work my way to longer sessions through the night lol
Or tell her I have enough blueys in my pocket to water rock hard |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's only the past 5 years I have started to say what I want rather than what I think people want to hear..... very liberating
liberating an how it should be "
Thanks... I know that now |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I say what I like or wish but not necessarily all up front a little bit of tact and diplomacy goes a long way. But that doesn't mean you have to say something you don't believe in or wish to happen.
Yea I get it ... diplomacy is good "
Diplomacy isn't always good - but it sometimes necessary!!
I'm often guilty of being quite blunt in certain aspects of my life - I don't pussy foot around at work and definately don't suffer fools gladly - in day to day life or on here.
But i'd like to think i'm a reasonably good judge of character and give people the benefit of the doubt - til that's no longer justified at which point i'll often have to bite my tongue quite hard.
I've learnt - particularly when it comes to the forums, not to rise to certain posts. It's taken a while and i've had my fair share of penalties. But the one thing I won't do is compromise my beliefs or opinions, whether they're in line with the general consensus or not! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I say what I like or wish but not necessarily all up front a little bit of tact and diplomacy goes a long way. But that doesn't mean you have to say something you don't believe in or wish to happen.
Yea I get it ... diplomacy is good
Diplomacy isn't always good - but it sometimes necessary!!
I'm often guilty of being quite blunt in certain aspects of my life - I don't pussy foot around at work and definately don't suffer fools gladly - in day to day life or on here.
But i'd like to think i'm a reasonably good judge of character and give people the benefit of the doubt - til that's no longer justified at which point i'll often have to bite my tongue quite hard.
I've learnt - particularly when it comes to the forums, not to rise to certain posts. It's taken a while and i've had my fair share of penalties. But the one thing I won't do is compromise my beliefs or opinions, whether they're in line with the general consensus or not!"
Its never a good thing if someone compromises their own beliefs in order to pacify someone else
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I may have gotten muddled up with the question sorry!
Yes, I say what I want. And sometimes I even say the right answer to the correct question  "
Hahaha excellent .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I say something if its helpful and constructive.
And....
If I have nothing nice to say I say nothing. Not because I'm too scared to. Its the way I was brought up. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I say something if its helpful and constructive.
And....
If I have nothing nice to say I say nothing. Not because I'm too scared to. Its the way I was brought up. "
Thats a good way to be brought up though |
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I tend to avoid controversy and I'm often guilty of refraining from giving my own opinion for fear of it not being popular. I tend to wait and see what others think and go along with the majority so that I fit in. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I tend to avoid controversy and I'm often guilty of refraining from giving my own opinion for fear of it not being popular. I tend to wait and see what others think and go along with the majority so that I fit in."
I don't believe you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Honesty is the best policy but sometimes you have to bend it a little
Bendable truth .... hahaha
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I pressed send before I finished ... its true though lots bend the truth |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Honesty is the best policy but sometimes you have to bend it a little
Bendable truth .... hahaha
I pressed send before I finished ... its true though lots bend the truth "
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"I tend to avoid controversy and I'm often guilty of refraining from giving my own opinion for fear of it not being popular. I tend to wait and see what others think and go along with the majority so that I fit in.
I don't believe you "
I don't believe most of the 'I'll say it coz it looks good' bollox people post on here... but hey, what can you do. |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
In Your Bush |
"I tend to avoid controversy and I'm often guilty of refraining from giving my own opinion for fear of it not being popular. I tend to wait and see what others think and go along with the majority so that I fit in."
I got the impression you were quite reserved. Don't worry, you will soon come out of your shell. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"depends what the subject is and who im talking to
sometimes I can be blunt, other times I think opinions are best kept to ones self "
Same here, I have learnt over the years that its ok to not say anything  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I tend to avoid controversy and I'm often guilty of refraining from giving my own opinion for fear of it not being popular. I tend to wait and see what others think and go along with the majority so that I fit in.
Bwahahahahaaa..!!!!
Fotsrotflmfao.....!!! Oops, a bit of wee came out....  "
Ewwwwwwwwww |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I tend to avoid controversy and I'm often guilty of refraining from giving my own opinion for fear of it not being popular. I tend to wait and see what others think and go along with the majority so that I fit in."
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Who are you trying to kid???!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a propensity towards saying what I want.....hence having served 2 bans to date from the forums! (sorry admin)
Ooo the police got you "
....do they run on a 3 strikes and you're out rule??....i'd better tread carefully... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a propensity towards saying what I want.....hence having served 2 bans to date from the forums! (sorry admin)
Ooo the police got you
....do they run on a 3 strikes and you're out rule??....i'd better tread carefully... "
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Don't think so, as I have had 2 x 48h ban for the same issue myself in the past couple of years!
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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago
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"I tend to avoid controversy and I'm often guilty of refraining from giving my own opinion for fear of it not being popular. I tend to wait and see what others think and go along with the majority so that I fit in."
I'll try and put this as politely as I can but WTF have you done to Polo?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have a propensity towards saying what I want.....hence having served 2 bans to date from the forums! (sorry admin)
Ooo the police got you
....do they run on a 3 strikes and you're out rule??....i'd better tread carefully... "
I have no idea - Im very good and havent been posting that long |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a propensity towards saying what I want.....hence having served 2 bans to date from the forums! (sorry admin)
Ooo the police got you
....do they run on a 3 strikes and you're out rule??....i'd better tread carefully...
I have no idea - Im very good and havent been posting that long "
lol.....give it time Floro....they'll get ya!! |
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