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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not too often as I see most forum comments as people being a smartarse or purposely trying to ruffle feathers just to get chatter going on the thread.
Have been turned on a number if times though. |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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Yes - a few times. But since I don't come on here hoping to hook up for meets, it doesn't particularly bother me. I see the forums as separate from the other facilities I use to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you been put off by Someone by the Comments they've made in the Forum ?
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I frequently block people because I don't like what they say in the forums. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I havent, even when ive been on the receiving end which has only been once or twice because I dont post much in here and ive probably asked for it anyway. Im a gobby cow sometimes  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have you been put off by Someone by the Comments they've made in the Forum ?
I frequently block people because I don't like what they say in the forums. "
Block so they can't contact you? Because they're not blocked in the forums. So you still see their comments  |
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not really, but not been here long and only post now & then, and when we do post, we try to be polite to everyone so if a comment we make upsets someone then it was not meant that way,
if its a subject we feel strongly about and it starts to get nasty or personal then we tend to step away from the keyboard and not re visit the post |
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"Can I ask in which context, as a person in general, as someone to meet?
General Mostly. I just find some so shockable sometimes x "
Certain people do make me roll my eyes and tend to stay away from posts they start, not necessarily because of the shock value, also for the cringworthy smarminess and suckingupiness, yes I know thats not a word.
Other comments make me want to meet someone who comes across as intelligent and articulate.
Swings and roundabouts as in everything  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you been put off by Someone by the Comments they've made in the Forum ?
I frequently block people because I don't like what they say in the forums.
Block so they can't contact you? Because they're not blocked in the forums. So you still see their comments "
Yes that is what I meant. I don't mind viewing a good old ding dong in the forums but if someone is being offensive or just a bit of a cock and they are local to us I will block them as I would rather they didn't contact us.
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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago
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Previously, yes, a lot!
After a break, not as much (saying that, I've only been back for a day or two, so ask me in a week lol).
In fact, I actually realised I may have been over sensitive about some things and have taken some things the wrong way.
I also made judgements on people's personalities which were totally wrong!
So I think I'm a lot more chilled than I was about taking notice of some things that are said (if that makes sense) or it could just be the tablets I'm on making me chilled
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Can I ask in which context, as a person in general, as someone to meet?
General Mostly. I just find some so shockable sometimes x
Certain people do make me roll my eyes and tend to stay away from posts they start, not necessarily because of the shock value, also for the cringworthy smarminess and suckingupiness, yes I know thats not a word.
Other comments make me want to meet someone who comes across as intelligent and articulate.
Swings and roundabouts as in everything "
Absolutley right! I've made some good Friends too since I've joined the Forums |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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I have always spoken my mind and always try be honest. I always try to post with honesty.
But yes I have seen comments and thought that they are clearly someone that would annoy the hell out of me when they opened their mouths. So have then blocked them from mailing me x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't block those with a different opinion to mine.
I do stop responding when I realise all they have to give is insult.
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I wouldn't block someone purely because they had a different opinion to mine. But I am sometimes staggered as to what some people's opinions are. |
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"Previously, yes, a lot!
After a break, not as much (saying that, I've only been back for a day or two, so ask me in a week lol).
In fact, I actually realised I may have been over sensitive about some things and have taken some things the wrong way.
I also made judgements on people's personalities which were totally wrong!
So I think I'm a lot more chilled than I was about taking notice of some things that are said (if that makes sense) or it could just be the tablets I'm on making me chilled
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Only really good characters can reflect and grow
Respect for bringing that to the thread. Not easy for some.
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"I don't block those with a different opinion to mine.
I do stop responding when I realise all they have to give is insult.
I wouldn't block someone purely because they had a different opinion to mine. But I am sometimes staggered as to what some people's opinions are. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've found the forums give a big insight into someones Personailty not found on Profiles. And maybe wouldn't see it in the Chat rooms either. Makes me wonder if they are like it in RL or just because they're sat behind a Keyboard. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The chat rooms are often so empty you cant blame someone for trying to chat through the forums. It also seems quite cliquey in here. What's a person to do to make new friends?  |
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I can admit that there have been times when I have had an arse on and written something which has been a spur of the moment thing. Call it PMT, call it having a bad day...
So I tend to be a little flexible with other people's writings... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The chat rooms are often so empty you cant blame someone for trying to chat through the forums. It also seems quite cliquey in here. What's a person to do to make new friends? "
Chatting via the Forums is great, You get to know people lots better. And just join in the threads and post your own . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Correction to previous post :
My answer is now yes !
Having just browsed another thread, I have found someone that I dislike (and purely on what they post, or rather what they don't) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Interesting question!!
I would say yes maybe someone's comments on the threads has put me slightly them, not anyone in paticular mind "
Have you blocked anyone though ? X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Couple of times.
Some people however are even more wonderful in real life than on the forums "
This is very true i think im less of a twat in person...or i could be more of one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After today an awful lot sadly. I've also got a lot more respect for some people.
Ooo have I missed something??
And yes I have. "
I've been avoiding political threads ... I think it could be in them somewhere |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive also thought someone was nice in the forums , and then they have mailed me and over time realised they were twats
Was it me  "
Hahahahahaha no ... as if |
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Often... but then sometimes bought back around by other comments they make in the forum/in chat.
Swings and roundabouts really. I Shouldn't judge too quickly on the odd comment but its hard not too, so I take the stance of 'everyone gets a second chance' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I stay away from the more controversial threads as some peoples opinions irk me and i swear at my lappy...but unfortunately they are entitled to it,I know some just piss me off so i tend not to read through them so much ...I am sometimes shocked at how ignorant people can be  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ive also thought someone was nice in the forums , and then they have mailed me and over time realised they were twats
Was it me
Hahahahahaha no ... as if "
No it was me |
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For me not having the greatest expectations of the UK public on an open forum I'm not often "put off" anyone as such, however I like it when the opposite occurs and I hear myself commending what has been said and the person who has said it x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive also thought someone was nice in the forums , and then they have mailed me and over time realised they were twats
Was it me
Hahahahahaha no ... as if
No it was me "
Hahahaha yes it was your overt sexiness that put me off - AS IF again !!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive also thought someone was nice in the forums , and then they have mailed me and over time realised they were twats
Was it me
Hahahahahaha no ... as if
No it was me
Hahahaha yes it was your overt sexiness that put me off - AS IF again !!!! "
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"Ive also thought someone was nice in the forums , and then they have mailed me and over time realised they were twats
Was it me
Hahahahahaha no ... as if
No it was me
Hahahaha yes it was your overt sexiness that put me off - AS IF again !!!! "
Must be me then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah christ.
3 weeks ago there was a thread running of a sexual nature (thats as much I can say without breaking forum rules)
One of the posters in that thread had my attention in a good way..until they made their antics known in the thread.
I was a couple of days away from mailing, I just wanted to get a better idea of the person before I mailed.
Thank god I didnt..lets just say that.
That person is also bolted in my blocklist. 
I was shocked at what was being posted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been out ..... Have I missed anything ..... And would anyone like to do a quick resumee please?? As I have to go again soon to find my saucepan .......  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How can something coated in teflon get stuck."
This is me we are talking about ...... Of course it will get stuck and I am gonna look a pratt catching the bus to A&E to get if off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you got a panoramic view of the road ahead of you
Nope it's raining hard here "
Well with a pot stuck on your head you dont have to worry about getting wet now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Quite often but I don't let it put me off. I am mostly misunderstood and I can't be bothered to spend time explaining myself so I figure other people are the same. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Quite often but I don't let it put me off. I am mostly misunderstood and I can't be bothered to spend time explaining myself so I figure other people are the same. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive also thought someone was nice in the forums , and then they have mailed me and over time realised they were twats
Was it me
Hahahahahaha no ... as if
No it was me
Hahahaha yes it was your overt sexiness that put me off - AS IF again !!!!
Must be me then "
Oh lord its getting worse ... NO NO NO how can it be you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah christ.
3 weeks ago there was a thread running of a sexual nature (thats as much I can say without breaking forum rules)
One of the posters in that thread had my attention in a good way..until they made their antics known in the thread.
I was a couple of days away from mailing, I just wanted to get a better idea of the person before I mailed.
Thank god I didnt..lets just say that.
That person is also bolted in my blocklist.
I was shocked at what was being posted."
Oooooo Im curious now as to what was so bad  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I try not to let those whose views and opinions that I do not share bother me, as I am unlikely to spend any of my precious time with them.
Cold shoulders apply in person as well as via the forums.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah christ.
3 weeks ago there was a thread running of a sexual nature (thats as much I can say without breaking forum rules)
One of the posters in that thread had my attention in a good way..until they made their antics known in the thread.
I was a couple of days away from mailing, I just wanted to get a better idea of the person before I mailed.
Thank god I didnt..lets just say that.
That person is also bolted in my blocklist.
I was shocked at what was being posted.
Oooooo Im curious now as to what was so bad "
Me too! |
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"I am mostly misunderstood
"Ebeneezer Goode" was one of the most controversial UK number-one hits of the 1990s, "very much aligned but misunderstood"
He was good though"
Have you got any tobacco rolling papers, if you have, that would be most splendiferous young chap |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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not by a one off comment... but they do raise eyebrows!!
at some point the thing with regards to forums is that the gloss sometimes comes down.. so even the most "sat on the fence licky arse" person drops their guard and you get to see what they are like
mind you I rather sit with the devil I know, than the devil I don't.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"p.s what the bejesus have I missed today then.... cript notes please!!"
I thing there has been sporadic outbreaks of differing opinions all over the place today - though I've hardly been on all days myself due to work and hangovers. |
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"p.s what the bejesus have I missed today then.... cript notes please!!
I thing there has been sporadic outbreaks of differing opinions all over the place today - though I've hardly been on all days myself due to work and hangovers."
You have a permenant hangover... |
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