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"If I met someone very special then I'd leave. I could never lie or cheat on anyone.
very rare qualitys indead....respect  "
Not as rare as you think. It depends on the type of person you attach yourself to. |
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"If I met someone very special then I'd leave. I could never lie or cheat on anyone.
very rare qualitys indead....respect
Not as rare as you think. It depends on the type of person you attach yourself to."
yep I agree.........thats why I no longer trust my own judgement  |
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"If I met someone very special then I'd leave. I could never lie or cheat on anyone.
What if they were a swinger on FAB ?"
I'd still want time away from Fab to see if the relationship was going anywhere. |
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"If I met someone very special then I'd leave. I could never lie or cheat on anyone.
What if they were a swinger on FAB ?
I'd still want time away from Fab to see if the relationship was going anywhere."
spooky  |
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"If I met someone very special then I'd leave. I could never lie or cheat on anyone.
What if they were a swinger on FAB ?
I'd still want time away from Fab to see if the relationship was going anywhere.
spooky "
Why spooky? |
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"If I met someone very special then I'd leave. I could never lie or cheat on anyone.
What if they were a swinger on FAB ?
I'd still want time away from Fab to see if the relationship was going anywhere.
spooky
Why spooky? "
cos thats what I was thinking |
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"If I met someone very special then I'd leave. I could never lie or cheat on anyone.
What if they were a swinger on FAB ?
I'd still want time away from Fab to see if the relationship was going anywhere.
spooky
Why spooky?
cos thats what I was thinking "
Oh lol thought you meant I was spooky  |
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"If I met someone very special then I'd leave. I could never lie or cheat on anyone.
What if they were a swinger on FAB ?
I'd still want time away from Fab to see if the relationship was going anywhere.
spooky
Why spooky?
cos thats what I was thinking
Oh lol thought you meant I was spooky "
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over a year ago
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"If I met someone very special then I'd leave. I could never lie or cheat on anyone.
What if they were a swinger on FAB ?
I'd still want time away from Fab to see if the relationship was going anywhere.
spooky
Why spooky?
cos thats what I was thinking
Oh lol thought you meant I was spooky "
That's a given.... 
You could spirit me away, anytime....  |
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We have given up, been doing it since the 90s and since hubby started his own business 8 years ago we took time out for a year and since them we have met fewer and fewer, not met anyone for about 18 month now, we still come on here as we like the crack, and at times we can still be naughty if someone caught our eye, |
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"If i met someone i liked enough to...
Yep same here
Thought you were a couple 
Fwb  "
Im confused lol.. you mean you would leave if you met a friend with benefits ?? |
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"If i met someone i liked enough to...
Yep same here
Thought you were a couple
Fwb
Im confused lol.. you mean you would leave if you met a friend with benefits ?? "
No we are fwb if I met someone who wasn't into swinging then I would stop to concentrate on the relationship x |
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"spooky
Why spooky?
cos thats what I was thinking
Oh lol thought you meant I was spooky
That's a given....
You could spirit me away, anytime.... "
lol I'm a Welsh Witch really |
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"If i met someone i liked enough to...
Yep same here
Thought you were a couple
Fwb
Im confused lol.. you mean you would leave if you met a friend with benefits ??
No we are fwb if I met someone who wasn't into swinging then I would stop to concentrate on the relationship x"
Ohhhhh I presumed you were married because of your profile  |
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"If i met someone i liked enough to...
Yep same here
Thought you were a couple
Fwb
Im confused lol.. you mean you would leave if you met a friend with benefits ??
No we are fwb if I met someone who wasn't into swinging then I would stop to concentrate on the relationship x
Ohhhhh I presumed you were married because of your profile "
We have been together five years and are good friends |
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If I met someone special and have a relationship with her, I can give up this lifestyle and walk away easy.
Would be happy to swap all the fun I had for one person to spend rest of my life happy.
Only swing because I am single, like to have fun and have some sex aswell meeting people. |
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"If i met someone i liked enough to...
Yep same here
Thought you were a couple
Fwb
Im confused lol.. you mean you would leave if you met a friend with benefits ??
No we are fwb if I met someone who wasn't into swinging then I would stop to concentrate on the relationship x
Ohhhhh I presumed you were married because of your profile
We have been together five years and are good friends "
Ahhhh .. I had no idea it doesn't mention that. Ooops |
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"If i met someone i liked enough to...
Yep same here
Thought you were a couple
Fwb
Im confused lol.. you mean you would leave if you met a friend with benefits ??
No we are fwb if I met someone who wasn't into swinging then I would stop to concentrate on the relationship x
Ohhhhh I presumed you were married because of your profile
We have been together five years and are good friends
Ahhhh .. I had no idea it doesn't mention that. Ooops "
Its fine |
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I'm on here because of my situation I can't have a conventional relationship
If I was to meet someone I really liked I wouldn't have the time to see if it developed because I have only about 8/9 times a year I have any free time.
So when the time is right and the situation changes I will leave here ....
Dont all cry at once and that will about 6/7 years down the line too |
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"I'm on here because of my situation I can't have a conventional relationship
If I was to meet someone I really liked I wouldn't have the time to see if it developed because I have only about 8/9 times a year I have any free time.
So when the time is right and the situation changes I will leave here ....
Dont all cry at once and that will about 6/7 years down the line too "
That's ages off |
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"If I met someone incredibly special
Can't wait for the 'swinging police ' to clock it "
same here, im not after a relationship but who knows how i may feel in a few years, i wouldn't want a swinging relationship so would pack up for the right guy |
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"If I went on a meet nd it turned out to be my ex wife would give this up along with life in general lol
pmsl.....yep same here god just the thought shudder "
Thonk there would be murder if that happened to me |
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"If I met someone special and we fell in Love. Weather on fab or not.
Bit controversial but I couldn't share him or myself. "
Thats not controversial thats how you feel
I wouldn't either ... |
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I couldn't be monogamous.. not for anyone.. so guess nothing as it's part of who I am.
If I ever got with someone in a serious way again.. they would have to accept me how I am. |
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"I'm on here because of my situation I can't have a conventional relationship
If I was to meet someone I really liked I wouldn't have the time to see if it developed because I have only about 8/9 times a year I have any free time.
So when the time is right and the situation changes I will leave here ....
Dont all cry at once and that will about 6/7 years down the line too
That's ages off "
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"If I met someone special and we fell in Love. Weather on fab or not.
Bit controversial but I couldn't share him or myself.
Thats not controversial thats how you feel
I wouldn't either ... "
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"I couldn't be monogamous.. not for anyone.. so guess nothing as it's part of who I am.
If I ever got with someone in a serious way again.. they would have to accept me how I am. "
can't ask for more honest than that |
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"If I met someone special and we fell in Love. Weather on fab or not.
Bit controversial but I couldn't share him or myself.
Thats not controversial thats how you feel
I wouldn't either ...
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I couldn't agree more well duble standerds I no but I could share a fem with a feb but not a male. I expect to get jumped on for that but heyho im honest at least an even then if it wasn't her thing it would be no biggie to leave that. I think the main thing is how deeply you love the said persan an how secure in that you both are..........waits for size 10s |
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"If I met someone special and we fell in Love. Weather on fab or not.
Bit controversial but I couldn't share him or myself.
Thats not controversial thats how you feel
I wouldn't either ...
I couldn't agree more well duble standerds I no but I could share a fem with a feb but not a male. I expect to get jumped on for that but heyho im honest at least an even then if it wasn't her thing it would be no biggie to leave that. I think the main thing is how deeply you love the said persan an how secure in that you both are..........waits for size 10s"
I have size 8s
It is double standards
Im not going to jump on it though as the majority of men I think think the same way. So you get pleasure from watching her with a woman so its ok ??? Just asking |
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"If I met someone special and we fell in Love. Weather on fab or not.
Bit controversial but I couldn't share him or myself.
Thats not controversial thats how you feel
I wouldn't either ...
I couldn't agree more well duble standerds I no but I could share a fem with a feb but not a male. I expect to get jumped on for that but heyho im honest at least an even then if it wasn't her thing it would be no biggie to leave that. I think the main thing is how deeply you love the said persan an how secure in that you both are..........waits for size 10s
I have size 8s
It is double standards
Im not going to jump on it though as the majority of men I think think the same way. So you get pleasure from watching her with a woman so its ok ??? Just asking "
so long as she does yes but as I said its no be all an end all. whats would be more impotant is shes happy with it. its a kink an its easy left behind if needed........hope that makes sence an yes before its said I couldn't share with a male due to my own insecurities an thats why id never push it |
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"If I met someone special and we fell in Love. Weather on fab or not.
Bit controversial but I couldn't share him or myself.
Thats not controversial thats how you feel
I wouldn't either ...
I couldn't agree more well duble standerds I no but I could share a fem with a feb but not a male. I expect to get jumped on for that but heyho im honest at least an even then if it wasn't her thing it would be no biggie to leave that. I think the main thing is how deeply you love the said persan an how secure in that you both are..........waits for size 10s"
Thing is you're a single bloke looking for single women. If you were looking for couples it would put some off, but not all. |
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"If I met someone special and we fell in Love. Weather on fab or not.
Bit controversial but I couldn't share him or myself.
Thats not controversial thats how you feel
I wouldn't either ...
I couldn't agree more well duble standerds I no but I could share a fem with a feb but not a male. I expect to get jumped on for that but heyho im honest at least an even then if it wasn't her thing it would be no biggie to leave that. I think the main thing is how deeply you love the said persan an how secure in that you both are..........waits for size 10s
Thing is you're a single bloke looking for single women. If you were looking for couples it would put some off, but not all."
paint taken but then iv not always been single an iv had my share of bi fems |
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totally agree with all the above when i was married took breaks from the scene for various reasons kept telling my ex to give it up but he kept on wi it saying you cant give it up that was b4 he left me for someone we met thru swinging.
so after the way he treated me feel cant trust men ,was seeing a guy last year he didnt know i was into this so now im all alone again here i am for now back to swinging |
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"If I met someone special and we fell in Love. Weather on fab or not.
Bit controversial but I couldn't share him or myself.
Thats not controversial thats how you feel
I wouldn't either ...
I couldn't agree more well duble standerds I no but I could share a fem with a feb but not a male. I expect to get jumped on for that but heyho im honest at least an even then if it wasn't her thing it would be no biggie to leave that. I think the main thing is how deeply you love the said persan an how secure in that you both are..........waits for size 10s
I have size 8s
It is double standards
Im not going to jump on it though as the majority of men I think think the same way. So you get pleasure from watching her with a woman so its ok ??? Just asking
so long as she does yes but as I said its no be all an end all. whats would be more impotant is shes happy with it. its a kink an its easy left behind if needed........hope that makes sence an yes before its said I couldn't share with a male due to my own insecurities an thats why id never push it"
Hmmm...would you expect to join in though?!! |
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"If I met someone special and we fell in Love. Weather on fab or not.
Bit controversial but I couldn't share him or myself.
Thats not controversial thats how you feel
I wouldn't either ...
I couldn't agree more well duble standerds I no but I could share a fem with a feb but not a male. I expect to get jumped on for that but heyho im honest at least an even then if it wasn't her thing it would be no biggie to leave that. I think the main thing is how deeply you love the said persan an how secure in that you both are..........waits for size 10s
I have size 8s
It is double standards
Im not going to jump on it though as the majority of men I think think the same way. So you get pleasure from watching her with a woman so its ok ??? Just asking
so long as she does yes but as I said its no be all an end all. whats would be more impotant is shes happy with it. its a kink an its easy left behind if needed........hope that makes sence an yes before its said I couldn't share with a male due to my own insecurities an thats why id never push it
Hmmm...would you expect to join in though?!! "
id expect nothing an rules ever way would be clear as glass before hand |
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"If I met someone special and we fell in Love. Weather on fab or not.
Bit controversial but I couldn't share him or myself. "
This or when it bores me, which it sometimes does, but I soon get past that  |
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