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Discussing people you have met
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I don't know about you out there but to me, discussing people you have met here in any thing other that generic terms is pretty low class.
Some people seem to think its ok, to me it's a sign that some people aren't trustworthy or haven't the basics in terms of manners...
It's a pity you can't pre vet people... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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providing both parties are happy with it whats the harm? They clearly arent too fussed. These forums are very social and for most of us who use them we have formed genuine friendships. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"providing both parties are happy with it whats the harm? They clearly arent too fussed. These forums are very social and for most of us who use them we have formed genuine friendships. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If its all done with both parties knowledge and permission then I see no harm its when some people for want of a better saying slag someone they have met off because its not ended the way they wanted that gets me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If they have verified the person with every detail about what happened - its not exactly secret is it ??
I won't listen to bad mouthing people thought. I did meet one man who kept saying how horrible his last meet was etc etc yet he had left her a glowing verification - I left and blocked him
God knows what he said about me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've shared funny experiences with others but would never name them. As someone else pointed out, my veris are on show so people know who I've met but I would never do into details about previous meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I received a mail the other day from a male that had been told to contact me by the male half of a couple, because I'm 'good fun'.
Wasn't happy. "
I've had this too and one guy who admitted showing the photos I'd sent him before we met to his brother who then suggested he contact me to see if he could come too - was mad that he had been showing my pics around, even madder that he chose to admit it?!!!
I decided to hide my veris when I started getting messages from other women who had seen my veris posted on guys profiles and asking what they were like and were they worth meeting? I dont write explicit veris for anyone, and how do I know whether they are worth meeting by someone else, just because we had great chemistry doesnt mean they will!!
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Discretion should be used at all times.
I don't send photos as I don't trust strangers.
It's okay someone saying they met you at a social for e.g. but talking about a meet is way out of order.
I don't talk about my meets ever. What's the point ? |
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"People can see who you met through verifications anyway. I dont see too much issue with it unless they asked you not to. "
Only if you show your veri's .... those WITH and who WANT discretion don't |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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everyone talks about everyone else , compares notes and shops the time wasters. There will always be gossip and there will always be somebody who has been let down by a failed meeting. It is human nature to want information but also to inform others if somebody is suspected of being a time waster. Swinging is a group activity by its very nature . Perhaps if people want total discretion they should ask the question is swinging really for them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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what winds me up more is friends of ours telling us that they've had messages from recent meets of ours, using us to try and get in with them!! Its extremely low rent to go through someone whome you've met verification's and then contacting people on their veri's saying 'we met your friends the other week' as if its some sort of chat up line!! What if I didn't want my friends to know we'd had a meet. Really makes me angry - PLUS its LAZY!! lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was quite annoyed the other day to be honest a good!! Fem friend of mine had been recomending me to fellow females, when I challenged her, she said oh I thought you might like them! ..maybe struggling for meets. Perhaps she was trying to ahem help!! Or am I going a little over the top!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i blocked someone i had met a couple of years ago then i got a message from his mate saying he wanted to meet me and the man i had blocked wanted to meet me, so i blocked him as well. |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
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Don't see anything wrong in recommendations. I go for a certain type of personality, if a friend knows someone I may like, why not point him or I in each others direction. You can always say no. |
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