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over a year ago
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I was cheated on so ended my 25 year marriage, yes gave lots of chances but still lied. No need for revenge he is still seeing the "other" woman and I know they are both cheating on each other, karma is wonderful and I get to see it and so so much happier now than been in a long time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"if you were ever cheated on would you give them another chance? would you get revenge??
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No more chances and no revenge.
remember, cheaters and liars never prosper and the best kind of revenge is getting on with life and showing them you dont need them.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was cheated on so ended my 25 year marriage, yes gave lots of chances but still lied. No need for revenge he is still seeing the "other" woman and I know they are both cheating on each other, karma is wonderful and I get to see it and so so much happier now than been in a long time "
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"if you were ever cheated on would you give them another chance? would you get revenge??
No more chances and no revenge.
remember, cheaters and liars never prosper and the best kind of revenge is getting on with life and showing them you dont need them. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Been cheated on by two men and gave second chances to both. Never again. It was the worst thing they could have done to me. Broke my heart and destroyed all confidence I ever had  Fab has given me back some of my confidence  but it will take a very very special man to get anywhere near my heart again, if ever! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"if you were ever cheated on would you give them another chance? would you get revenge??
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Personally not but have talked to people who have given second chances and could understand their reasons for doing so in their case.  |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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I see things more clearer now and dont listen to bullshit any more.
If someone is talking crap and my experience it is crap I will say its crap.
If you have been lied too I think you always look for the lie as if it seems too good to be true it is likely to be untrue. Cynic eh.
Second chance??...not really no. |
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"Gave her the chance to confess and apologize: she kept lying so she can off...
I am considering a revenge now though...
 Any ideas?  "
Yep! Don't do it, revenge shows you still care, indifference and moving on with your life is the best payback. |
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"if you were ever cheated on would you give them another chance? would you get revenge??
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No and no!
If I'm not enough, there's little I can do about that and why give someone the opportunity to shit on you again: they will.
Revenge? Waste energy on someone who is cavilier with my feelings? I wouldn't give them the satisfaction.
I'd have a good cry, throw myself a pity party and get on with my life. |
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Anyone who knows my.opinion of married people on here without their spouses knowledge might find this surprising....but I think.it depends on circumstances, two people are in a relationship and sometimes both need to take responsibility for one partners behaviour. Having said that.though if you choose to cheat without trying to sort out your problems then shame on you. |
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"Its very easy to say no when asked this question but not so easy to do so if it happens in reality.
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...for some!
I walked away from a 25 year marriage because my husband couldn't take away the pain of our son dying. Do you think some Johnny Come Lately would get a second chance with me?!! |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"Its very easy to say no when asked this question but not so easy to do so if it happens in reality.
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thats true...
my answer to her when it happened to me and she wanted my forgiveness was
"you certainly weren't thinking of me when you were bouncing up and down on his cock!"
and then I walked.......
no 2nd chances.... no revenge... just walked with my dignity in tack and my head held high |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Been cheated on by two men and gave second chances to both. Never again. It was the worst thing they could have done to me. Broke my heart and destroyed all confidence I ever had Fab has given me back some of my confidence but it will take a very very special man to get anywhere near my heart again, if ever! "
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