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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Are you ever totally happy? With life, with the men/women in your life? With your job?I think what I mean to say is- are you ever content?
I ask only as lots of people seem unhappy and very discontent.
Be Happy people.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In the main we are. Ok fuel prices could be lower but in the main things are pretty good for us as we are both happy with life and both enjoying work unlike many. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Uncertainty is a seed of hope, but the seed alone isn't enough, it needs perseverance, hard work and one day hope becomes what you want. Just make sure you nurture the seed you really want and be open about what makes you happy. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"I am happy with the way my life has turned out so far. I have a Beautiful family and thats all that I need. "
To me that is a large percentage of my happiness - as is the fact that OH and I are lucky to be working in fields we enjoy.  |
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I am a believer that life is what you make it. If you want the best then go and get it..Life throws shit all the time its how you deal it..My life could be a lot better for example I would like kids etc..However that will come I just concentrate on the things I have as there are so many people worse off than me... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Honestly no I'm not. I'm not going to go all woe is me but my life hasn't been a barrel of laughs, but I'm making the most of what I've got!"
Good for you many don't try to make the best of it so it shows you have the right attitude. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm happy, no point being miserable, each day I'm alive and well and awake and my family and friends r the same is a good day I believe! Yes we can always wish and hope things were different or we had more money or something but if u look at ur basics there's so much to be happy for.
I do sometimes have to remind myself if this when things feel unfair or ur a bit broke but seriously it's not that bad!
Be alive, be happy, be thankful  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Happiness isn't a right.
Some things in life are necessary and they are SHITE.
You be happy.You didn't answer the question though. 
You rolling your eyes at me ?"
No, the smiley is. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm happy with most aspects of my life, although I always strive to improve things and find enjoyable ways to spend my spare time "
Good way of looking at life - having the drive to improve! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I am a believer that life is what you make it. If you want the best then go and get it..Life throws shit all the time its how you deal it..My life could be a lot better for example I would like kids etc..However that will come I just concentrate on the things I have as there are so many people worse off than me... "
Good for you- You go girl! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm happy with most aspects of my life, although I always strive to improve things and find enjoyable ways to spend my spare time "
That's what spare time is for the more time the more fun you can have just don't overdo it! |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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Of course there is always the assumption that happiness remains the same constant throughout life where as in fact priorities and expectations change as we get older. Not necessarily a bad thing - just different. Just a thought? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you ever totally happy? With life, with the men/women in your life? With your job?I think what I mean to say is- are you ever content?
I ask only as lots of people seem unhappy and very discontent.
Be Happy people.
Were never happy and always striving to improve our working and home life like most people...totally happy with each other though
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im always happy,and find it hard to be miserable, being alive is great fun. I've very little to complain about and take any crap as a challenge rather than let it get me down.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you're not occasionally sad then how do you know that you're happy?"
Observing others who are not perhaps? Often if you feel grateful for what you have then its hard to be sad |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"If you're not occasionally sad then how do you know that you're happy?
THIS!
Content and happy aren't the same either."
Absolutely agree - content for me associates with a sense of being settled and at peace where happiness comes in acute peaks? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My life is good & I am happy very content. I have in the past known great unhappiness so I I look upon wat I have now with a smile & serenity. I wouldn't change anything. I look at wat I have rather than being unhappy about the things that I don't have....x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My life is good & I am happy very content. I have in the past known great unhappiness so I I look upon wat I have now with a smile & serenity. I wouldn't change anything. I look at wat I have rather than being unhappy about the things that I don't have....x "
How lovely. xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you ever totally happy? With life, with the men/women in your life? With your job?I think what I mean to say is- are you ever content?
I ask only as lots of people seem unhappy and very discontent.
Be Happy people.
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I am pretty happy with my lot, can you ever be totally happy? |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Are you ever totally happy? With life, with the men/women in your life? With your job?I think what I mean to say is- are you ever content?
I ask only as lots of people seem unhappy and very discontent.
Be Happy people.
I am pretty happy with my lot, can you ever be totally happy?"
I think some people can. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Are you ever totally happy? With life, with the men/women in your life? With your job?I think what I mean to say is- are you ever content?
I ask only as lots of people seem unhappy and very discontent.
Be Happy people.
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We are happy as larry
We live our lives outside of the normal society realm & we both love our own lives, our life together as one & we really are a pair of happy bunnies
If you don't wake up Dead, you've got nothing to worry about |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Life has turnt out nothing like I expected. Though being ill a few years ago. Makes me appreciate my life more now and I am content. Things could be better. But I'm thankful for my health, my son and my close friends. In some ways I feel very lucky. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Are you ever totally happy? With life, with the men/women in your life? With your job?I think what I mean to say is- are you ever content?
I ask only as lots of people seem unhappy and very discontent.
Be Happy people.
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Hell no! lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't say I was happy and I'm certainly not content,,,,,
But then again, I wouldn't say I'm unhappy or riddled with angst...
yeah, I guess that just about sums it up! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am extremely happy feel like I do have a very rich love at the moment I don't mean it as a financial statement but.
I have a girl who worships the ground I walk on why the hell that is I still don't know to this day love her to bits. Can not wait to get married to her next month.
I have a nice secure job with half decant pay. Ok it's not my dream job and we can always do with more money but I know in this world now lucky to have a job at all. If I get sacked its my own fault but don't have to worry about redundancy.
I have a strong supporting family who will always be their of I ever need them. Yes sometimes they do pester at time and can feel like they are being a pain in the ass but its better than no contact at all. They will always help me get out of any whole a get myself into.
I suppose the only thing I haven't got going for me is my health i have a heart condition from birth makes life extremely difficult but I have never let it stop me doing anything I want to do.
Plus we are swingers what more could I ask for? |
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I'm generally happy. Sometimes I get frustrated with my job but then I remember that my dad spent his working life on a shop floor working right next to a really hot kiln and I work in a nice air-conditioned office so I take a reality check.
As a massive football fan, I am truly happy when I've spent the day with my dad having a couple of beers and watching us win away |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im happy wiv my life. I hv a job i love. I dont hate getting up to go to work. I hv great friends and family. Ive seen sum amazing places and dun sum awesum things. I hv no regrets and im in a good place atm |
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"don't think we are ever totally happy, always something going wrong in life "
'we'..?
thing is that pretty much is 'life', shit happens..
firmy believe its how we deal with those things that helps to define us.. |
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By *rjeremyMan
over a year ago
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If you were ever to achieve complete contentment, would you not just stop trying to improve yourself? How long would complete contentment last before you got bored and found something else just out of grasp? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can anyone truly say they are happy with everything in their life's all of the time? There's usually always something that could do with improving, life just isn't that perfect |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can anyone truly say they are happy with everything in their life's all of the time? There's usually always something that could do with improving, life just isn't that perfect "
Not always as yesterday car turned into a lemon and had planned to take kids out , go to watch my friends band in the evening , but turned the frustrating moments into a good day by putting tents up and watching gig on you tube
Everyday has challenges , frustrations but I find that's how life goes , I have very little money , 5 children , but lots of hugs , laughter and do a brilliant impression of rolling my eyes now |
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I spend most of my time being content and as much time as possible being happy.
If I don't get what I need from my work, I change it.
If I want to do something I do my best to make it happen.
Sitting back and whinging about not liking aspects of your life which you have control over or can influence is pointless.
I tire quickly of people who complain about their lives and expect someone else to change it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Are you ever totally happy? With life, with the men/women in your life? With your job?I think what I mean to say is- are you ever content?
I ask only as lots of people seem unhappy and very discontent.
Be Happy people.
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Nope.not happy and content with my lot. things could be better ...re my love life...."non existant"
and health wise its crap but hopefully gonna get better after my operation soon.........
and then........everything else will perk up |
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