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over a year ago
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Never had a problem finding women...but i will say most of the couples approaches with me get them nowhere...a lot can be really pushy,try to be relaxed and get talking first. |
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"Never had a problem finding women...but i will say most of the couples approaches with me get them nowhere...a lot can be really pushy,try to be relaxed and get talking first."
This is where i am at ...
I've had group meets, club meets, and all sorts of m m m meets. My fear is that i end up being the entertainment for a couple, so it has put me off. However, there are plenty sexy evenings when i am with a male buddy and i am desperate for a female to join us!
So, i am a little hypocritical and need therapy, counselling, and a very understanding couple to adopt me.     |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Never had a problem finding women...but i will say most of the couples approaches with me get them nowhere...a lot can be really pushy,try to be relaxed and get talking first.
This is where i am at ...
I've had group meets, club meets, and all sorts of m m m meets. My fear is that i end up being the entertainment for a couple, so it has put me off. However, there are plenty sexy evenings when i am with a male buddy and i am desperate for a female to join us!
So, i am a little hypocritical and need therapy, counselling, and a very understanding couple to adopt me. "
No its hard i have had more bad meets with couples than men...it can be anything from them wanting a show for the male or jealous fems going off on one.
Its hard to find a decent couple where all are happy but worth it when you do 
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Have to agree with the 3rd person, we have been lucky enough to have had the company of a single fem, but we got to know her first and took things slowly!!
So just take your time get to know one or 2, go for social drinks so they can see that your a couple with no issues.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im not averse to meeting couples but the ones that contact me are all for HIS enjoyment
Us Bi women have a special radar that can suss it out you know "
" the entertainment " |
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"Attraction to both parties is important also ...and that can be hard,ive met couples where the woman is lovely the guy a knob and vice verser."
This!!! Most of the messages I get from couples for one reason or another I don't fancy/like one of them! |
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"Attraction to both parties is important also ...and that can be hard,ive met couples where the woman is lovely the guy a knob and vice verser."
I thought all guys have knobs?   |
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"Attraction to both parties is important also ...and that can be hard,ive met couples where the woman is lovely the guy a knob and vice verser.
This!!! Most of the messages I get from couples for one reason or another I don't fancy/like one of them! "
Fancy a shag hottie bottie?
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"Attraction to both parties is important also ...and that can be hard,ive met couples where the woman is lovely the guy a knob and vice verser.
This!!! Most of the messages I get from couples for one reason or another I don't fancy/like one of them!
Fancy a shag hottie bottie?
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Oooooh.... Now there's an exception |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Just as an example i have just had a message of a couple.
Tey want a meet on such a date...she wants a woman is fully bi and it goes on to tell me what they want when they want it and that they want a phone chat and so on and so on not once did they ask what i would like or am looking for or even how i am.
This is not the way to get me to meet you and im sure most the other women will agree....I will talk to someone then arrange maybe meeting  |
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"Just as an example i have just had a message of a couple.
Tey want a meet on such a date...she wants a woman is fully bi and it goes on to tell me what they want when they want it and that they want a phone chat and so on and so on not once did they ask what i would like or am looking for or even how i am.
This is not the way to get me to meet you and im sure most the other women will agree....I will talk to someone then arrange maybe meeting "
ffs I said sorry........gowd |
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"Just as an example i have just had a message of a couple.
Tey want a meet on such a date...she wants a woman is fully bi and it goes on to tell me what they want when they want it and that they want a phone chat and so on and so on not once did they ask what i would like or am looking for or even how i am.
This is not the way to get me to meet you and im sure most the other women will agree....I will talk to someone then arrange maybe meeting "
Most of the ones I get say that I won't even get to play with the guy. I've very inexperienced with women (hence the curious) so would be much more comfortable with everyone in together lol. If I wanted fem/fem fun I'd meet a fem on her own not to put on a show for the male then be left feeling like a spare part! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just as an example i have just had a message of a couple.
Tey want a meet on such a date...she wants a woman is fully bi and it goes on to tell me what they want when they want it and that they want a phone chat and so on and so on not once did they ask what i would like or am looking for or even how i am.
This is not the way to get me to meet you and im sure most the other women will agree....I will talk to someone then arrange maybe meeting
Most of the ones I get say that I won't even get to play with the guy. I've very inexperienced with women (hence the curious) so would be much more comfortable with everyone in together lol. If I wanted fem/fem fun I'd meet a fem on her own not to put on a show for the male then be left feeling like a spare part! "
That's me i wont meet unless everyone is involved im not putting on a show and i find in those cases its not what the woman really wants. |
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"Just as an example i have just had a message of a couple.
Tey want a meet on such a date...she wants a woman is fully bi and it goes on to tell me what they want when they want it and that they want a phone chat and so on and so on not once did they ask what i would like or am looking for or even how i am.
This is not the way to get me to meet you and im sure most the other women will agree....I will talk to someone then arrange maybe meeting
Most of the ones I get say that I won't even get to play with the guy. I've very inexperienced with women (hence the curious) so would be much more comfortable with everyone in together lol. If I wanted fem/fem fun I'd meet a fem on her own not to put on a show for the male then be left feeling like a spare part! "
a spare part cough splutter ye right !!!!!! |
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"Just as an example i have just had a message of a couple.
Tey want a meet on such a date...she wants a woman is fully bi and it goes on to tell me what they want when they want it and that they want a phone chat and so on and so on not once did they ask what i would like or am looking for or even how i am.
This is not the way to get me to meet you and im sure most the other women will agree....I will talk to someone then arrange maybe meeting
Most of the ones I get say that I won't even get to play with the guy. I've very inexperienced with women (hence the curious) so would be much more comfortable with everyone in together lol. If I wanted fem/fem fun I'd meet a fem on her own not to put on a show for the male then be left feeling like a spare part!
a spare part cough splutter ye right !!!!!!"
True tho!! So the girls play, then the couple play together while I do what? Make a brew? Ring for room service? Check out what's on TV? Lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just as an example i have just had a message of a couple.
Tey want a meet on such a date...she wants a woman is fully bi and it goes on to tell me what they want when they want it and that they want a phone chat and so on and so on not once did they ask what i would like or am looking for or even how i am.
This is not the way to get me to meet you and im sure most the other women will agree....I will talk to someone then arrange maybe meeting
Most of the ones I get say that I won't even get to play with the guy. I've very inexperienced with women (hence the curious) so would be much more comfortable with everyone in together lol. If I wanted fem/fem fun I'd meet a fem on her own not to put on a show for the male then be left feeling like a spare part!
That's me i wont meet unless everyone is involved im not putting on a show and i find in those cases its not what the woman really wants."
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"Just as an example i have just had a message of a couple.
Tey want a meet on such a date...she wants a woman is fully bi and it goes on to tell me what they want when they want it and that they want a phone chat and so on and so on not once did they ask what i would like or am looking for or even how i am.
This is not the way to get me to meet you and im sure most the other women will agree....I will talk to someone then arrange maybe meeting
Most of the ones I get say that I won't even get to play with the guy. I've very inexperienced with women (hence the curious) so would be much more comfortable with everyone in together lol. If I wanted fem/fem fun I'd meet a fem on her own not to put on a show for the male then be left feeling like a spare part!
a spare part cough splutter ye right !!!!!!
True tho!! So the girls play, then the couple play together while I do what? Make a brew? Ring for room service? Check out what's on TV? Lol x "
Hmmm good point an 1 that needs carfull construction I think you should pop round an find out.........purely in the interest of this thread of course |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a single fem it is more straight forward meeting a single guy than couples. As previously stated its trickier to get three people that find each other attractive. I do like to chat and get a feel for the couple too and chat to both parties to make sure they aren't doing it for each other. I want to play with both and both to play with me and this isn't always what they want.
I've been on 6 months and met four couples. When it does happen though its worth the wait. Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just as an example i have just had a message of a couple.
Tey want a meet on such a date...she wants a woman is fully bi and it goes on to tell me what they want when they want it and that they want a phone chat and so on and so on not once did they ask what i would like or am looking for or even how i am.
This is not the way to get me to meet you and im sure most the other women will agree....I will talk to someone then arrange maybe meeting
Most of the ones I get say that I won't even get to play with the guy. I've very inexperienced with women (hence the curious) so would be much more comfortable with everyone in together lol. If I wanted fem/fem fun I'd meet a fem on her own not to put on a show for the male then be left feeling like a spare part!
a spare part cough splutter ye right !!!!!!
True tho!! So the girls play, then the couple play together while I do what? Make a brew? Ring for room service? Check out what's on TV? Lol x "
I remember someone posting on a similar thread that after playing with the female part of a couple she was asked to leave so they could have sex...
We have had quite a few ffm's and are in the fortunate position of knowing a few more we could play with. We've met non of them on here though, all have been initially met at clubs or socials. And i think meeting in real life is much more likely to bring success as a single female gets a feel for the couple and is far more likely to avoid the bad experiences this thread is highlighting. |
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"Just as an example i have just had a message of a couple.
Tey want a meet on such a date...she wants a woman is fully bi and it goes on to tell me what they want when they want it and that they want a phone chat and so on and so on not once did they ask what i would like or am looking for or even how i am.
This is not the way to get me to meet you and im sure most the other women will agree....I will talk to someone then arrange maybe meeting
Most of the ones I get say that I won't even get to play with the guy. I've very inexperienced with women (hence the curious) so would be much more comfortable with everyone in together lol. If I wanted fem/fem fun I'd meet a fem on her own not to put on a show for the male then be left feeling like a spare part!
a spare part cough splutter ye right !!!!!!
True tho!! So the girls play, then the couple play together while I do what? Make a brew? Ring for room service? Check out what's on TV? Lol x
I remember someone posting on a similar thread that after playing with the female part of a couple she was asked to leave so they could have sex...
We have had quite a few ffm's and are in the fortunate position of knowing a few more we could play with. We've met non of them on here though, all have been initially met at clubs or socials. And i think meeting in real life is much more likely to bring success as a single female gets a feel for the couple and is far more likely to avoid the bad experiences this thread is highlighting."
Actually I think I remember reading that too!! I'd be fuming! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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After having a really really bad time from a couple I met I got put off meeting couples. I'm lucky that I then went on all be it a few years later to meet a couple who have reinstalled my faith in couples. Having said that I'm still not sure about meeting any others yet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Attraction to both parties is important also ...and that can be hard,ive met couples where the woman is lovely the guy a knob and vice verser.
This!!! Most of the messages I get from couples for one reason or another I don't fancy/like one of them!
Fancy a shag hottie bottie?
Oooooh.... Now there's an exception"
So is that a yes then ? Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Never had a problem finding women...but i will say most of the couples approaches with me get them nowhere...a lot can be really pushy,try to be relaxed and get talking first.
This is where i am at ...
I've had group meets, club meets, and all sorts of m m m meets. My fear is that i end up being the entertainment for a couple, so it has put me off. However, there are plenty sexy evenings when i am with a male buddy and i am desperate for a female to join us!
So, i am a little hypocritical and need therapy, counselling, and a very understanding couple to adopt me. "
well we would adopt you ?the girls are allways in control and my hubby does as he is told he likes ladies playing |
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"Never had a problem finding women...but i will say most of the couples approaches with me get them nowhere...a lot can be really pushy,try to be relaxed and get talking first."
Seems to be a common problem as I have had the same on a few occasions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How hard is it to find a female to join me and my bf in a 3some???
seems like no females do. Anyone intrested"
Rocking horse shit comes to mind. As does hens teeth. |
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"Attraction to both parties is important also ...and that can be hard,ive met couples where the woman is lovely the guy a knob and vice verser.
This!!! Most of the messages I get from couples for one reason or another I don't fancy/like one of them!
Fancy a shag hottie bottie?
Oooooh.... Now there's an exception
So is that a yes then ? Lol "
When I've hit my first diet target and then start meeting again I'm sure we can arrange something |
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