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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Who else reads profiles and writes in hopes that the message will show, that you have taken the time to read the profile and that you're not a spammer? Also for the single women and couples, what kind of message makes you interested or at least curious about the person who has written it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Reading a profile and sending an appropriate message may show that you are not a spammer.
That said, neither does it prove that your are legit and looking to meet.
Those that wish to talk the talk rather than walking the walk often have ample time to read and interpret a profile and tailor an appropriate message. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Reading a profile and sending an appropriate message may show that you are not a spammer.
That said, neither does it prove that your are legit and looking to meet.
Those that wish to talk the talk rather than walking the walk often have ample time to read and interpret a profile and tailor an appropriate message."
But that's easier said than done. I do prefer to write a decent message just because it is the right thing to do but it's not always a success. I think I do prefer the face to face interaction of being in a club and just chatting to see if you click. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do prefer to write a decent message just because it is the right thing to do but it's not always a success "
You will never please everyone, as hard as you may try
What turns one on, will turn another off
As long as you're happy and are getting some positive response, you're doing well  |
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"I do prefer to write a decent message just because it is the right thing to do but it's not always a success
You will never please everyone, as hard as you may try
What turns one on, will turn another off
As long as you're happy and are getting some positive response, you're doing well "
It does seem to be a game of chance sometimes. |
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