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Mind your own.....

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Business !!!!

This is a bit tongue in cheek lol , but do we agree that people on Fab should be less judgemental and mind their own business ??

Asking because of late there seems to be a spate of judging others actions etc and hating on people because of the way they choose to swing ?

Personally unless it impacts on our life or is personal to us it should be live and let live

Sits back and awaits the flurry lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How people go about their lives has nothing to do with me, so long as they leave me alone, and do not try and influence me to do/think/act their ways.

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By *riendly foeWoman over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

There is far too much of it....

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By *riendly foeWoman over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

BUT...if people didnt comment/judge the ones seeking the attention would be sooooo disappointed

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"BUT...if people didnt comment/judge the ones seeking the attention would be sooooo disappointed

Lol thats so true !!

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By *londeCazWoman over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I don't think it's so much the judgement as the way it's put over in writing...if my opinion differs from a poster, I try to communicate that difference in a non-offensive manner...ie the question Who likes water sports will get a variety of responses, mine would be along the lines of "Never tried it or had the inclination to" rather than "Ewwwww, disgusting...I'd never let anyone piss on me" which kinda implies (to me anyway) that the responder thinks anyone who indulges in WS is disgusting

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don't think it's so much the judgement as the way it's put over in writing...if my opinion differs from a poster, I try to communicate that difference in a non-offensive manner...ie the question Who likes water sports will get a variety of responses, mine would be along the lines of "Never tried it or had the inclination to" rather than "Ewwwww, disgusting...I'd never let anyone piss on me" which kinda implies (to me anyway) that the responder thinks anyone who indulges in WS is disgusting"

Yeh again thats true

I think because all the stuff on here is written it can easily be misread and taken the wrong way as you have no facial or body language to convey the humour or sense of emotion on the subject

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I agree

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By *illyxWoman over a year ago

Bolton

I've always been surprised that considering swingers are meant to be open minded, how judgemental some people can be. Not just on this site on others as well.

There again that could probably be classed as quite a judgmental statement so maybe I'm as bad

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I've always been surprised that considering swingers are meant to be open minded, how judgemental some people can be. Not just on this site on others as well.

There again that could probably be classed as quite a judgmental statement so maybe I'm as bad

Lol slap on the wrist for being judgemental

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Business !!!!

This is a bit tongue in cheek lol , but do we agree that people on Fab should be less judgemental and mind their own business ??

Asking because of late there seems to be a spate of judging others actions etc and hating on people because of the way they choose to swing ?

Personally unless it impacts on our life or is personal to us it should be live and let live

Sits back and awaits the flurry lol

I have used the site on n off for 4 years. Depending on where life is at, depends on what i'm after. I had nothing but abuse of men on my last account, and even ones i knew, not liking my choices! But that's the beauty of this place, EACH TO THEIR OWN! Fab is "FAB" as in my opinion, people can do as THEY please. It's not just a swinging site in honesty.... It's a complete package of sexual exploration for ppl. From simply looking at pics, to perving cams, to chatting, to only partying.. An much more! I

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By *illyxWoman over a year ago

Bolton

"I've always been surprised that considering swingers are meant to be open minded, how judgemental some people can be. Not just on this site on others as well.

There again that could probably be classed as quite a judgmental statement so maybe I'm as bad

Lol slap on the wrist for being judgemental

I'm rather have a slap on my arse thanks

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

are people being judgemental or just voicing there own opinion on a subject ?

would be pretty dam boring if in a open forum topic people were only allowed to agree ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The forums are in past experience, clicky n too quick to jump down ppls throats! Being a beef monster munch/space raiders fan, can get you into all kinds of trouble! That's not me being judgemental... It's an observation! Seems to be much more relaxed than 7 months ago mind you

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I've always been surprised that considering swingers are meant to be open minded, how judgemental some people can be. Not just on this site on others as well.

There again that could probably be classed as quite a judgmental statement so maybe I'm as bad

Lol slap on the wrist for being judgemental

I'm rather have a slap on my arse thanks

Bend over young lady ! ( raises hand ready for a good slap )

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd rather have a slap on my arse thanks

Sounds fun

Wifey recommends her riding crop for such activities tho

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By *unky monkeyMan over a year ago

in the night garden

Everybody judges to some degree. It's how all social dynamics work be you a human or a spider monkey.

We are all trying to find our place in life and sometimes when you are insecure about yourself or your position in life and are mentally weak you will avoid dealing with your own failings by hi lighting a deficiency in your neighbour.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Everybody judges to some degree. It's how all social dynamics work be you a human or a spider monkey.

couldnt of put it better myself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Everybody judges to some degree. It's how all social dynamics work be you a human or a spider monkey.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman over a year ago

Kent

I think if you start a thread on something you should be prepared for people to have an opinion that is different from your own. If every time someone started a thread everyone agreed with them it would be totally pointless having a forum in the first place IMHO. We are all judgemental in some ways even if we think we are not. The world would be boring if we all thought/acted/believed the same. It'd be like step ford wives! Lol x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Business !!!!

This is a bit tongue in cheek lol , but do we agree that people on Fab should be less judgemental and mind their own business ??

Asking because of late there seems to be a spate of judging others actions etc and hating on people because of the way they choose to swing ?

Personally unless it impacts on our life or is personal to us it should be live and let live

Sits back and awaits the flurry lol

yes, we are all too judgemental, is that gonna change? noooooo, not a chance, I love that everyone's so opinionated, makes it interesting, I'm just lucky I don't give a flying fuck what most people think of me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think if you start a thread on something you should be prepared for people to have an opinion that is different from your own. If every time someone started a thread everyone agreed with them it would be totally pointless having a forum in the first place IMHO. We are all judgemental in some ways even if we think we are not. The world would be boring if we all thought/acted/believed the same. It'd be like step ford wives! Lol x"

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By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"The forums are in past experience, clicky n too quick to jump down ppls throats! Being a beef monster munch/space raiders fan, can get you into all kinds of trouble! That's not me being judgemental... It's an observation! Seems to be much more relaxed than 7 months ago mind you

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Pickled Onion are so much better than yukky beef.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Live and let live. We all have our own opinions, morals, preferences but it certainly not my place to judge others or try and influence the way they think

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

As always, posts having to be removed as people use the question as a platform to have a pop at other posters.

To the OP...you won't always get the answers you would like as everyone is different, it is best to accept this and the forum will be enjoyable for you.

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