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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have been browsing profiles and came across one that said " no kissing , it`s too personal " in other words you can shag me but don`t kiss me lol. Each to their own and all that but ...
Personally we don`t get how you can , for us it`s all part of it.
What do you think, and would it put you off having a meet if people refrained from kissing ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have to agree on this , Sam and I have always found that a bit odd ?? You can perform oral and have sex with someone but not kiss them ??
It is a conundrum lol, If i ever kiss another woman sam knows full well it wont be close to how i kiss her its just a snog and part of the fun and vice versa for her 
Horses for courses i guess  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we went to a club last night and played with 2 other couples at the same time and there was as much snogging/kissing going on as shagging lol
each to their own and all that but for us the kissing builds on the excitment and flirting. would seem a bit mechanical and not as intense with kissing wasnt allowed
but its whatever people are comfortable with and we respect that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't kiss the opposite sex when meeting only each other and the women kiss if they want to. We see it as an intimate thing and want to keep that to ourselves. Never stopped us from having a good meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Horses for courses i guess "
This is the key point!
I've yet to meet a single woman averse to kissing - however i've met couples who insist that it's something they want to keep between themselves - and i'll always respect that!
Besides, in threesomes/moresomes - a lot of the time my mouth's busy elsewhere!   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Not disputing everyone has choices, of course they do .
The point was, that i don`t understand it....and... would it put others off meeting ?
It`s only a discussion , not a matter of respecting or disrespecting choices  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lol it is a paradox ! I can kiss and lick your pussy but not your kiss your mouth ??
Totally get that but also understand that its some peoples preference and would always respect that, i doubt that we as a couple would play with others that didnt kiss but again thats our preference |
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I wouldn't arrange a meet with non kissers, I love kissing soooo much, my partner and I often end up kissing for extended periods of time rather than being just a precursor to something else, he says we're like a pair of horny teenagers  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not disputing everyone has choices, of course they do .
The point was, that i don`t understand it....and... would it put others off meeting ?
It`s only a discussion , not a matter of respecting or disrespecting choices "
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"Not disputing everyone has choices, of course they do .
The point was, that i don`t understand it....and... would it put others off meeting ?
It`s only a discussion , not a matter of respecting or disrespecting choices "
Personally we would't meet people who weren't interested in kissing, I know exactly what your saying and agree 100%. I also agree with your comment about folk respecting or disrespecting as it's each to their own but topics on here always get negativity introduced to them at some point....it's par for the course I've noticed. Sometimes you wonder if people actually read exactly what your question/comments are about.  |
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Personally I wouldn't bother contacting a couple who listed 'no kissing'. Had an early meet with one who 'announced' it while we were having a drink, and wife later told me it was hubbie who didn't like it, not her, and promptly stuck her tongue down my throat while he was out of the room! lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not disputing everyone has choices, of course they do .
The point was, that i don`t understand it....and... would it put others off meeting ?
It`s only a discussion , not a matter of respecting or disrespecting choices Personally we would't meet people who weren't interested in kissing, I know exactly what your saying and agree 100%. I also agree with your comment about folk respecting or disrespecting as it's each to their own but topics on here always get negativity introduced to them at some point....it's par for the course I've noticed. Sometimes you wonder if people actually read exactly what your question/comments are about. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldnt meet anyone who didnt kiss, for me after flirting kissing is where it all starts. Similarly, I wouldnt play with someone who didnt kiss well as I find it a complete turn off!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont like kissing other men on meets, I have tried it and it does nothing for me, its not a "pretty woman" thing either. Mr is ok with kissing other women though so its not a "too personal" thing either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont like kissing other men on meets, I have tried it and it does nothing for me, its not a "pretty woman" thing either. Mr is ok with kissing other women though so its not a "too personal" thing either."
So it wouldnt put me off lol
Infact if a couple insisted on it that would put me off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've turned down the opportunity to meet a couple who when discussing boundaries said no kissing, I'm not a machine, kissing is a big part of getting me turned on, wouldn't have sex without it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can easily go without kissing, If the other party isn't wanting to share that then fine. I've had meets where there was no kissing, very hot and fierce, and kissing seems to be bypassed; never had comments or complaints
Now meeting with someone that just spent ages kissing wouldn't be great for me either, I have limited time for myself so loosing hours just kissing doesn't appeal to me that much |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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"I have been browsing profiles and came across one that said " no kissing , it`s too personal " in other words you can shag me but don`t kiss me lol. Each to their own and all that but ...
Personally we don`t get how you can , for us it`s all part of it.
What do you think, and would it put you off having a meet if people refrained from kissing ?"
I can take it or leave it. It's not a deal-breaker for me. I don't find it too intimate or personal, but, if the other person is a crap kisser it's not really adding anything to the meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We don't kiss the opposite sex when meeting only each other and the women kiss if they want to. We see it as an intimate thing and want to keep that to ourselves. Never stopped us from having a good meet"
Agreed, sex you can almost 'distance' yourself from and kissing is much more personal well to us it is but everyone is different that what make the world go round. |
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"I have been browsing profiles and came across one that said " no kissing , it`s too personal " in other words you can shag me but don`t kiss me lol. Each to their own and all that but ...
Personally we don`t get how you can , for us it`s all part of it.
What do you think, and would it put you off having a meet if people refrained from kissing ?"
may be they have really bad breath 
and don't want you to find out and call off the meet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've had 1 meet where the couple didnt allow kissing and it almost killed us !! .... the kissing is the biggest turn on ever and we wouldnt entertain any couple that didint kiss ....its the best part |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We don't kiss the opposite sex when meeting only each other and the women kiss if they want to. We see it as an intimate thing and want to keep that to ourselves. Never stopped us from having a good meet
Agreed, sex you can almost 'distance' yourself from and kissing is much more personal well to us it is but everyone is different that what make the world go round."
Yeah when we have sex together obviously a lot of kissing as we are intimate with each other but on meets its sex and that's it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We don't kiss the opposite sex when meeting only each other and the women kiss if they want to. We see it as an intimate thing and want to keep that to ourselves. Never stopped us from having a good meet"
I dont understand the 'we' thing as you are a single male profile...sorry am i missing something?  |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
I like kissing and have changed my mind on it from when I first started when I felt kissing was more intimate than sex. That said kissing somebody means I really have to be very comfortable with them. |
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I (f) won't kiss another man, im only interested in other women or my other half but I've no aversion to him kissing another female, however he's said he would rather not.
Its a very intimate thing but no kissing wouldnt stop us meeting, each to their own. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"Got to have s snog
Don't understand - you can stick your willy in my mouth, but not your tongue?  "
Maybe it is a cultural thing, not sure. WHere I come from it is generally regarded as more intimate than a BJ
Am willing to experiment |
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By * Jay69Man
over a year ago
Bridgwater - Somerset |
"Got to have s snog
Don't understand - you can stick your willy in my mouth, but not your tongue? Maybe it is a cultural thing, not sure. WHere I come from it is generally regarded as more intimate than a BJ
Am willing to experiment "
I'm available, purely for serious scientific research |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Got to have s snog
Don't understand - you can stick your willy in my mouth, but not your tongue? Maybe it is a cultural thing, not sure. WHere I come from it is generally regarded as more intimate than a BJ
Am willing to experiment
I'm available, purely for serious scientific research "
But of course - we would not be doing this for enjoyment. In fact we d be sacrificing our precious time all in the call of research |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We don't kiss the opposite sex when meeting only each other and the women kiss if they want to. We see it as an intimate thing and want to keep that to ourselves. Never stopped us from having a good meet
I dont understand the 'we' thing as you are a single male profile...sorry am i missing something? "
I've got a couples profile with my wife aswell |
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By * Jay69Man
over a year ago
Bridgwater - Somerset |
"Got to have s snog
Don't understand - you can stick your willy in my mouth, but not your tongue? Maybe it is a cultural thing, not sure. WHere I come from it is generally regarded as more intimate than a BJ
Am willing to experiment
I'm available, purely for serious scientific research But of course - we would not be doing this for enjoyment. In fact we d be sacrificing our precious time all in the call of research "
Hours and hours of research is obviously called for
I'd willingly make the personal sacrifice to further the knowledge of mankind (Womankind too).
What are our chances of getting a research grant? Just to cover the kleenex, chap-sticks etc. |
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We like kissing, its all part of the fun for us.
However, if we liked someone enough to play with them, them not wanting to kiss wouldn't be a deal-breaker, although Jayne does love to kiss ladies! |
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I don't always kiss, it depends how "extreme" I'm playing. However, all playmates must be kissable.
I always meet socially first, and one of the things I look for is nice teeth. One playmate had been on medication that had discoloured his teeth and they were also chipped. Unfortunately he bared them to me just as I was taking a sip of Peroni: nearly choked to death plus narrowly avoided a second opportunity of seeing the Moroccan cous cous I'd eaten earlier!
I don't meet people with yukky teeth! |
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By *efreeMan
over a year ago
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I saw a couple's profile on here that said, "no kissing, no oral and no penetration!" I messaged them and asked. "What do you do?" They replied saying, "you obviously don't understand the finer points of swinging." HUH!!!!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's a line that Julia Roberts says in Pretty Woman "I do everything, bit I don't kiss on the lips" lol
Me personally, I adore kissing and wouldn't want to meet anyone who doesn't like kissing, push me up the wall and kiss me like you mean it mmmmmmmm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's a line that Julia Roberts says in Pretty Woman "I do everything, bit I don't kiss on the lips" lol
Me personally, I adore kissing and wouldn't want to meet anyone who doesn't like kissing, push me up the wall and kiss me like you mean it mmmmmmmm"
Here here lol kissing gets me going every time xx |
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By *scariMan
over a year ago
Taunton |
"I have been browsing profiles and came across one that said " no kissing , it`s too personal " in other words you can shag me but don`t kiss me lol. Each to their own and all that but ...
Personally we don`t get how you can , for us it`s all part of it.
What do you think, and would it put you off having a meet if people refrained from kissing ?"
I consider Kissing as part of foreplay and can be just as erotic as any oral etc.
If "no Kissing" was on a profile i would not meet! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's a line that Julia Roberts says in Pretty Woman "I do everything, bit I don't kiss on the lips" lol
Me personally, I adore kissing and wouldn't want to meet anyone who doesn't like kissing, push me up the wall and kiss me like you mean it mmmmmmmm"
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"I don't always kiss, it depends how "extreme" I'm playing. However, all playmates must be kissable.
I always meet socially first, and one of the things I look for is nice teeth. One playmate had been on medication that had discoloured his teeth and they were also chipped. Unfortunately he bared them to me just as I was taking a sip of Peroni: nearly choked to death plus narrowly avoided a second opportunity of seeing the Moroccan cous cous I'd eaten earlier!
I don't meet people with yukky teeth! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No kissing = no sex
Far too cold without x"
I think you've just hit the nail on the head for me there, that's precisely why I dislike kissing on meets, I like the emotional distance!
I dont fancy you, im not dating you, I don't want to be emotionally close to you.
All I do want is to have fun and fuck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am a kissin lover from little pecks to long drawn out deep passionate explosive snogs, saying that met a guy a few weeks ago who messaged me on the day saying he had developed a cold sore, we still met for a drink and ended up in his hotel room as we had teased and chatted for ages, obviously there was no kissing or oral given by him, it was one of the hottest horniest things wanting to but not being able too, saying that, I couldn't do it by choice it was only for the reason stated and on that note I doubt I could specifically meet knowing there was no kissing!
That said many people I have played with at the club kissing hasn't come into the equation but then they seem less intimate that meets pre planned via here! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's all a matter of what works for the couple
When I played in 3sums with my ex-FB, the discussions beforehand were quite interesting.
He said it was too intimate and wouldn't like to see me kissing someone else, but by the same token he would have gladly let a random stranger stick their cock in him and not see that as intimate.
Now to me, kissing is all part of the fun, but from a mans perspective, having another man inside you is the most intimate thing possible.
To him tho, it was just part of the play, not given a second thought.
That is really the best example I can provide, that intimacy is a perception.
How one perceives it, will not be how another does. |
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"I saw a couple's profile on here that said, "no kissing, no oral and no penetration!" I messaged them and asked. "What do you do?" They replied saying, "you obviously don't understand the finer points of swinging." HUH!!!!!! "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Kissing is perceived by many as being very intimate. It's also associated with romance, feelings, closeness, etc. Many don't want that level of intimacy with strangers.
It's face to face for a start, it brings all the body close and touching. Having sex from behind for example does not bring that level of closeness even though genitals are interlocking.
It's a simple act but it's very powerful. All those great romantic films we see, where the hero grabs hold of the heroine and kisses her with great gusto, signifying the start of an earth shattering love affair, kissing is seen as a very erotic powerful exchange between two people that goes far deeper in effect than a cock into a pussy. Strange as that may seem.
Some couples may view this in the same way and the single person that joins them will be excluded from a level of intimacy they may have. They are just strangers being invited to join into a couples sexual play but that does not guarantee them the same level of intimacy the couple will share, because, being blunt about it, the single is only there for a few hours play, nothing else, a plaything if you like. Of course the couple are also playthings to indulge the singleton.
With single people meeting for sex then some again just don't want kissing as part of the deal, it may mean something a little more intimate and they just want sex without romance.
It isn't odd or bizarre at all, respect others' rules and if the rules are not acceptable by all, then it's no biggie, plenty more choice for all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We don't kiss the opposite sex when meeting only each other and the women kiss if they want to. We see it as an intimate thing and want to keep that to ourselves. Never stopped us from having a good meet"
its as intimate as you make it, sex is intimate as well just depends on who you do it with! |
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"Kissing is perceived by many as being very intimate. It's also associated with romance, feelings, closeness, etc. Many don't want that level of intimacy with strangers.
It's face to face for a start, it brings all the body close and touching. Having sex from behind for example does not bring that level of closeness even though genitals are interlocking.
It's a simple act but it's very powerful. All those great romantic films we see, where the hero grabs hold of the heroine and kisses her with great gusto, signifying the start of an earth shattering love affair, kissing is seen as a very erotic powerful exchange between two people that goes far deeper in effect than a cock into a pussy. Strange as that may seem.
Some couples may view this in the same way and the single person that joins them will be excluded from a level of intimacy they may have. They are just strangers being invited to join into a couples sexual play but that does not guarantee them the same level of intimacy the couple will share, because, being blunt about it, the single is only there for a few hours play, nothing else, a plaything if you like. Of course the couple are also playthings to indulge the singleton.
With single people meeting for sex then some again just don't want kissing as part of the deal, it may mean something a little more intimate and they just want sex without romance."
Pretty much hit the nail on the head.
(Warning, the following statement contains cheesey sentiments and/or what may be percieved as childish romance It may sound corny but when Vince kisses me, the Earth moves and that's probably more down to the love and intimacy behind it.
I just don't feel that desire or explosion in kissing someone else.
- Amy. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We don't kiss the opposite sex when meeting only each other and the women kiss if they want to. We see it as an intimate thing and want to keep that to ourselves. Never stopped us from having a good meet
its as intimate as you make it, sex is intimate as well just depends on who you do it with!"
But sex with others isn't intimate to us because its just sex not making "love" and to us kissing comes with the latter |
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"How can u not kiss the person ur shagging I find that an impossible thing to do"
Even when I go into animal mode my natural instincts don't make me want to kiss. If my mouth isn't already pre-occupied with another cock, I'm more likely to sink my teeth into their neck or chest.
- Amy. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How can u not kiss the person ur shagging I find that an impossible thing to do
Even when I go into animal mode my natural instincts don't make me want to kiss. If my mouth isn't already pre-occupied with another cock, I'm more likely to sink my teeth into their neck or chest.
- Amy. x"
this is very much like me... It takes a different kind of connection to make me want to kiss... I like kisses on my body though.. |
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I adore kissing, so it's an important part of play for me, but have got used to some people not wanting it.
There are guys who'll take cock in their mouth or ass, but not kiss, as it's 'too gay', so I generally meet those who're just relaxed and on my wavelength. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Kissing is perceived by many as being very intimate. It's also associated with romance, feelings, closeness, etc. Many don't want that level of intimacy with strangers.
It's face to face for a start, it brings all the body close and touching. Having sex from behind for example does not bring that level of closeness even though genitals are interlocking.
It's a simple act but it's very powerful. All those great romantic films we see, where the hero grabs hold of the heroine and kisses her with great gusto, signifying the start of an earth shattering love affair, kissing is seen as a very erotic powerful exchange between two people that goes far deeper in effect than a cock into a pussy. Strange as that may seem.
Some couples may view this in the same way and the single person that joins them will be excluded from a level of intimacy they may have. They are just strangers being invited to join into a couples sexual play but that does not guarantee them the same level of intimacy the couple will share, because, being blunt about it, the single is only there for a few hours play, nothing else, a plaything if you like. Of course the couple are also playthings to indulge the singleton.
With single people meeting for sex then some again just don't want kissing as part of the deal, it may mean something a little more intimate and they just want sex without romance.
It isn't odd or bizarre at all, respect others' rules and if the rules are not acceptable by all, then it's no biggie, plenty more choice for all "
This !!
We dont or wont kiss the opposite sex on meets, everyone in here has their own thing, some wont do anal, no bi guys, no dp etc.
People saying kissing is a part of sex, so are all of the aforementioned so if someone has a no go it should be respected as much as much as if someone didnt want to have anal sex.
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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago
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"Kissing is perceived by many as being very intimate. It's also associated with romance, feelings, closeness, etc. Many don't want that level of intimacy with strangers.
It's face to face for a start, it brings all the body close and touching. Having sex from behind for example does not bring that level of closeness even though genitals are interlocking.
It's a simple act but it's very powerful. All those great romantic films we see, where the hero grabs hold of the heroine and kisses her with great gusto, signifying the start of an earth shattering love affair, kissing is seen as a very erotic powerful exchange between two people that goes far deeper in effect than a cock into a pussy. Strange as that may seem.
Some couples may view this in the same way and the single person that joins them will be excluded from a level of intimacy they may have. They are just strangers being invited to join into a couples sexual play but that does not guarantee them the same level of intimacy the couple will share, because, being blunt about it, the single is only there for a few hours play, nothing else, a plaything if you like. Of course the couple are also playthings to indulge the singleton.
With single people meeting for sex then some again just don't want kissing as part of the deal, it may mean something a little more intimate and they just want sex without romance.
It isn't odd or bizarre at all, respect others' rules and if the rules are not acceptable by all, then it's no biggie, plenty more choice for all "
Perfectly put, as always.
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"Kissing is perceived by many as being very intimate. It's also associated with romance, feelings, closeness, etc. Many don't want that level of intimacy with strangers.
It's face to face for a start, it brings all the body close and touching. Having sex from behind for example does not bring that level of closeness even though genitals are interlocking.
It's a simple act but it's very powerful. All those great romantic films we see, where the hero grabs hold of the heroine and kisses her with great gusto, signifying the start of an earth shattering love affair, kissing is seen as a very erotic powerful exchange between two people that goes far deeper in effect than a cock into a pussy. Strange as that may seem.
Some couples may view this in the same way and the single person that joins them will be excluded from a level of intimacy they may have. They are just strangers being invited to join into a couples sexual play but that does not guarantee them the same level of intimacy the couple will share, because, being blunt about it, the single is only there for a few hours play, nothing else, a plaything if you like. Of course the couple are also playthings to indulge the singleton.
With single people meeting for sex then some again just don't want kissing as part of the deal, it may mean something a little more intimate and they just want sex without romance.
It isn't odd or bizarre at all, respect others' rules and if the rules are not acceptable by all, then it's no biggie, plenty more choice for all "
Nothing more needs to be said! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Definitely what Iconic said, kissing is an intimate act emotionally and physically for me, connecting two people that love each other and that connection is never going to be there with a stranger.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Definitely what Iconic said, kissing is an intimate act emotionally and physically for me, connecting two people that love each other and that connection is never going to be there with a stranger.
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Fancy a snog, babe? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Definitely what Iconic said, kissing is an intimate act emotionally and physically for me, connecting two people that love each other and that connection is never going to be there with a stranger.
Fancy a snog, babe?"
Can you get the bit of bacon stuck in my teeth out while you are there?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely what Iconic said, kissing is an intimate act emotionally and physically for me, connecting two people that love each other and that connection is never going to be there with a stranger.
Fancy a snog, babe?
Can you get the bit of bacon stuck in my teeth out while you are there? "
Only if it's unsmoked, organic bacon. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me if they dont kiss me they aint playing with me...kissing is a big part of the turn on x"
Agree totally. A minute spent kissing and you know them. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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We don't have a no kissing rule....if I want to I would.
BUT....I view having a MFM with a virtual stranger as simply sex, no emotion etc and I associate full on snogging with emotion.....so kissing isn't a must for me.
I am quite happy for single men who love a snog to pass us by |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't have no kissing on my profile and I have kissed guys, as Chris has also kissed women. But we don't do it the same. It's emotionless, an act because they've initiated it etc.
It's rather flat and meaningless to be honest which makes me feel 'why are we bothering'
I just don't feel the same butteflies flipping over in my stomach as I do with Chris so no point really. I never initiated kissing and I always pull away first  |
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We dont kiss, I kiss women but not other men. We only soft swap no full swap. So we dont feel the need to be kissing others as long as the women are kissing each other and i kiss my man when im with him wer happy. We had a meet and the man tried to kiss me. I pulled away. I didnt like it! I wasnt sleeping with him so no need to kiss him. Each to their own tho. If we were full swapping then wed prob kiss cause sex without a kiss is weird |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been browsing profiles and came across one that said " no kissing , it`s too personal " in other words you can shag me but don`t kiss me lol. Each to their own and all that but ...
Personally we don`t get how you can , for us it`s all part of it.
What do you think, and would it put you off having a meet if people refrained from kissing ?"
Totally agree. Ridiculous idea, meeting for fun but no kissing allowed. Surely its all a part of the build up. Foreplay etc. Basically if someone didn't want to kiss us, then I'm damn sure we don't want full on sex with them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We don't kiss the opposite sex when meeting only each other and the women kiss if they want to. We see it as an intimate thing and want to keep that to ourselves. Never stopped us from having a good meet"
we the same still have loads of fun
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