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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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so....I have a vanilla date today, my first in over 5 years!!!! 
To say I'm a tad nervous would be an understatement! Am meeting him in an hour, so thought I'd come and release my nerves on here....omg omg omg omg omg omg!!!!!! and breathe......
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just treat it as if you were meeting him socially on here ..... smile, flirt relax & enjoy
(Tho maybe leave out the sex talk, it is a first date after all!)
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so....I have a vanilla date today, my first in over 5 years!!!!
To say I'm a tad nervous would be an understatement! Am meeting him in an hour, so thought I'd come and release my nerves on here....omg omg omg omg omg omg!!!!!! and breathe......
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Good luck and enjoy!
And if it's a 'vanilla date' - i'd suggest keeping 'the girls' under wraps!
Else it will either go one of two ways - there'll be sod all eye contact - or it will very quickly become 'non-vanilla'!!!
Have fun!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have a nice shift dress on, knee length and not low cut, they still look massive, cos they are lol but they're covered (my boobies) There will be NO sex talk and I promise I won't jump on him 
just choosing which shoes to wear and finishing off my hair.... |
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"I have a nice shift dress on, knee length and not low cut, they still look massive, cos they are lol but they're covered (my boobies) There will be NO sex talk and I promise I won't jump on him
just choosing which shoes to wear and finishing off my hair...."
Recommend no thigh boots or stilettos from the kinky cupboard |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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give him a hint at how sexual you are. if you get on well and fancy him you can play as a couple. otherwise in a few months you will be craving a bit of strange!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"give him a hint at how sexual you are. if you get on well and fancy him you can play as a couple. otherwise in a few months you will be craving a bit of strange!!"
I dont play whilst in a relationship....may sound hypocritical, but I don't like to share, the swinging scene is something I enjoy alone, when single |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"was gonna wear heels...not quite stilettos mind
yeah make an effort and put stockings on and your matching underwear, blow him away"
He won't get to see what's underneath my dress with it being a "vanilla" date, I'm a lady!
do have stockings on though, and always wear nice undies  for me though, not for him... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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well....I made my excuses and left after half a drink! He was gorgeous but arrogant and just kept talking about my body and boasting about how great he is....what an epic fail!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"back at home with a sarnie wondering if I should arrange another date (clearly nit with him) or give up :-/ "
Sounds like a twat! Was it a meet from here? Or somewhere like POF?
Even with 'social meets' set up on here - some find it difficult to act as if it's anything other than a warm up to some bedroom action - and i've heard POF is even worse!
Better luck next time! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"no dating website...a friend I wont be trusting again set us up on a bit of a blind date....feel a bit deflated now tho "
What kind of Sarnie is it?
I'm peckish! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"no dating website...a friend I wont be trusting again set us up on a bit of a blind date....feel a bit deflated now tho "
Aw never mind and good for you for making your excuses and leaving.
I gave up on pof and oasis for dating |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"no dating website...a friend I wont be trusting again set us up on a bit of a blind date....feel a bit deflated now tho
What kind of Sarnie is it?
I'm peckish! "
chicken salad with mayo want one? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"no dating website...a friend I wont be trusting again set us up on a bit of a blind date....feel a bit deflated now tho
Aw never mind and good for you for making your excuses and leaving.
I gave up on pof and oasis for dating"
I wasn't about to sit and listen to him for two hours!! lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"glad ur back safe now get flirting and forget the jerk"
I needed a good date to boost me I think....that shambles has just made me question if its worth it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"well....I made my excuses and left after half a drink! He was gorgeous but arrogant and just kept talking about my body and boasting about how great he is....what an epic fail! "
Yeah sounds like a fucktard.
Dont worry im having a chicken sandwich at work.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"well....I made my excuses and left after half a drink! He was gorgeous but arrogant and just kept talking about my body and boasting about how great he is....what an epic fail!
Yeah sounds like a fucktard.
Dont worry im having a chicken sandwich at work.
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he was exactly that!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"glad ur back safe now get flirting and forget the jerk
I needed a good date to boost me I think....that shambles has just made me question if its worth it? "
It is worth it.. Trust me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"no dating website...a friend I wont be trusting again set us up on a bit of a blind date....feel a bit deflated now tho
What kind of Sarnie is it?
I'm peckish!
chicken salad with mayo want one? "
Take the evil salad out and chuck in some cake? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"no dating website...a friend I wont be trusting again set us up on a bit of a blind date....feel a bit deflated now tho
What kind of Sarnie is it?
I'm peckish!
chicken salad with mayo want one?
Take the evil salad out and chuck in some cake? "
do I look like I need more cake?!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"no dating website...a friend I wont be trusting again set us up on a bit of a blind date....feel a bit deflated now tho
What kind of Sarnie is it?
I'm peckish!
chicken salad with mayo want one?
Take the evil salad out and chuck in some cake?
do I look like I need more cake?! "
Nooooooooooooo! For me! |
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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago
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"Sorry it went the way it did. And like they say POF gorgeous
I know...just a bummer after so long, have been single almost a year and lost a lot of confidence, being back here had helped build it back a bit but that shambles of a date has knocked it...I seem to attract assholes!!!  "
some have cute asses  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry it went the way it did. And like they say POF gorgeous
I know...just a bummer after so long, have been single almost a year and lost a lot of confidence, being back here had helped build it back a bit but that shambles of a date has knocked it...I seem to attract assholes!!! "
Been there done that.. But the that's what Social are for. That was a blind date, so you can blame your friend lol. Choose them for yourself on here. There are some really nice Genuine ones to choose from.
Good Luck! And have fun xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sorry it went the way it did. And like they say POF gorgeous
I know...just a bummer after so long, have been single almost a year and lost a lot of confidence, being back here had helped build it back a bit but that shambles of a date has knocked it...I seem to attract assholes!!!
Been there done that.. But the that's what Social are for. That was a blind date, so you can blame your friend lol. Choose them for yourself on here. There are some really nice Genuine ones to choose from.
Good Luck! And have fun xx "
most people on here aren't looking to date tho...otherwise I would just stick to arranging dates with fellow fabsters |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My favorite date so far was the lady who was 3 weeks out of an LTR and who just kept bursting into tears.
Normally I have to take my kit off to make them cry like that!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My favorite date so far was the lady who was 3 weeks out of an LTR and who just kept bursting into tears.
Normally I have to take my kit off to make them cry like that!
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"My favorite date so far was the lady who was 3 weeks out of an LTR and who just kept bursting into tears.
Normally I have to take my kit off to make them cry like that!
oh dear!! "
Hey don't give up, it was a wee outing and got you to dip your toe in the water..That is never a bad thing. In a few days you will laugh about it.
Dating from any source is always a bit of a chance thing whether it be fab pof or wherever. The only difference is expectation....
You had the buzz of getting all dressed up, not your fault he was a fucktard..
Next! xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My favorite date so far was the lady who was 3 weeks out of an LTR and who just kept bursting into tears.
Normally I have to take my kit off to make them cry like that!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My favorite date so far was the lady who was 3 weeks out of an LTR and who just kept bursting into tears.
Normally I have to take my kit off to make them cry like that!
oh dear!!
Hey don't give up, it was a wee outing and got you to dip your toe in the water..That is never a bad thing. In a few days you will laugh about it.
Dating from any source is always a bit of a chance thing whether it be fab pof or wherever. The only difference is expectation....
You had the buzz of getting all dressed up, not your fault he was a fucktard..
Next! xxxx"
great advice! thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry it went the way it did. And like they say POF gorgeous
I know...just a bummer after so long, have been single almost a year and lost a lot of confidence, being back here had helped build it back a bit but that shambles of a date has knocked it...I seem to attract assholes!!!
Been there done that.. But the that's what Social are for. That was a blind date, so you can blame your friend lol. Choose them for yourself on here. There are some really nice Genuine ones to choose from.
Good Luck! And have fun xx
most people on here aren't looking to date tho...otherwise I would just stick to arranging dates with fellow fabsters "
You would be surprised sweetie. Some don't and some do. Some don't admit it in the Forums or on Profile |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sorry it went the way it did. And like they say POF gorgeous
I know...just a bummer after so long, have been single almost a year and lost a lot of confidence, being back here had helped build it back a bit but that shambles of a date has knocked it...I seem to attract assholes!!!
Been there done that.. But the that's what Social are for. That was a blind date, so you can blame your friend lol. Choose them for yourself on here. There are some really nice Genuine ones to choose from.
Good Luck! And have fun xx
most people on here aren't looking to date tho...otherwise I would just stick to arranging dates with fellow fabsters
You would be surprised sweetie. Some don't and some do. Some don't admit it in the Forums or on Profile "
well I have, so maybe some will get in touch? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't give up on the real world... You should have had a fab lunch elsewhere and tried out a but of real life flirting...much better for what U are after...
Proud of you for pulling the plug... Hate Monologues  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't give up on the real world... You should have had a fab lunch elsewhere and tried out a bit of real life flirting...much better for what U are after...
Proud of you for pulling the plug... Hate Monologues |
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"Don't give up on the real world... You should have had a fab lunch elsewhere and tried out a but of real life flirting...much better for what U are after...
Proud of you for pulling the plug... Hate Monologues "
I dont tend to meet a lot of people in the real world and certainly don't have the confidence to ask someone out....maybe I'm just not dating material? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Of course you are dating material.... Id suggest improving your confidence.. In real world find out who is available via friends... Any other interests hobbies etc are a way to meet people...
Step away from web for a bit... It all starts with a glance, coffee at a shared table in a coffee shop.... Go girl... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"back at home with a sarnie wondering if I should arrange another date (clearly nit with him) or give up :-/ "
Don't give up! Sounds as if you were far too nice for him anyway. X |
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"back at home with a sarnie wondering if I should arrange another date (clearly nit with him) or give up :-/
Don't give up! Sounds as if you were far too nice for him anyway. X"
thanks hun x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Awww sorry it didnt work out hun, but one bad apple don't make the crop as they say, you come over as level headed and lovely, so up and at em girl - there is someone out there for everyone ....... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Awww sorry it didnt work out hun, but one bad apple don't make the crop as they say, you come over as level headed and lovely, so up and at em girl - there is someone out there for everyone ....... "
thanks lovely xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Awww sorry it didnt work out hun, but one bad apple don't make the crop as they say, you come over as level headed and lovely, so up and at em girl - there is someone out there for everyone ....... "
Agree with minxie xx |
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