"Being the best I can be as often as I can.....I never strive for always, it is an unrealistic expectation...Wow, that is such a cool summmary - I really really like that!  "
I don't think it is a bad philosophy... |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
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"Being the best I can be as often as I can.....I never strive for always, it is an unrealistic expectation...Wow, that is such a cool summmary - I really really like that!
I don't think it is a bad philosophy..."
You know what I really like a bout it? It is the implied taking responsibility for oneself, for one's actions and the positive aspiration to do something good. |
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"To achieve my goals and to be true to myself always.I can really see that being "you" - sounds very genuine! "
Thank you, I am indeed very genuine..that is definitely very important to me... |
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"Being the best I can be as often as I can.....I never strive for always, it is an unrealistic expectation...Wow, that is such a cool summmary - I really really like that!
I don't think it is a bad philosophy...You know what I really like a bout it? It is the implied taking responsibility for oneself, for one's actions and the positive aspiration to do something good. "
Thankyou....  |
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Self ...Putting me first may seem selfish. But it’s not. To get the right life balance we need to be our best. If not, our relationships are likely strained, our health neglected and our performance below par. If we can’t take care of ourselves how can we take care of anyone else?
When I’m busy and neglect my health I’m more likely to be sick. I’m no use to my family . If I don’t get sufficient sleep, I get grumpy And take it out on everyone ..
And The single most important thing in my life is my family. I draw strength from those I love. They are the ones that share my triumphs and successes. When things don’t work out they are there to pick up the pieces. And my animals are my priority too .. As I owe it to them to give them the very best . |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
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" Self ...Putting me first may seem selfish. But it’s not. To get the right life balance we need to be our best. If not, our relationships are likely strained, our health neglected and our performance below par. If we can’t take care of ourselves how can we take care of anyone else?
When I’m busy and neglect my health I’m more likely to be sick. I’m no use to my family . If I don’t get sufficient sleep, I get grumpy And take it out on everyone ..
And The single most important thing in my life is my family. I draw strength from those I love. They are the ones that share my triumphs and successes. When things don’t work out they are there to pick up the pieces. And my animals are my priority too .. As I owe it to them to give them the very best ."
That is such a good point, Jo - you are absolutely right that if you are not right in whatever sense of the word, you cannot be of much hlpe and support to others. I think as mums we sometimes forget that when putting our families first! |
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"At present, contemplating what happens if I see a certain lady in my local Tesco again. What are the options;-) ?"
Mostly that I will make a prat of myself - so I shall do nothing! |
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To continue taking myself as seriously as I presently do. To sample as much cake as humanly possible. To actually take a proper holiday this year. To get outside and grab some lunch whilst the sun is shining! |
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priority right now is to find my bf a job  his a self employed electrician and has no work at moment his looking into doing different work now its that bad |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"What are your priorities in life, besides the obvious of partner or family or friends? (light-hearted "
Vodka
Chocolate
Sex
Chocolate
Vodka
Sex
Vodka
Sex
Chugolate
Vodak
Sex
Wudkar
Chuglit
Shex
Not necessarily in that order. |
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..actually my immediate priority is to discover where my confidence went to - it seems to have slipped out of my grasp while I wasn't looking - my own fault for trying to be clever with a camera. |
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"priority right now is to find my bf a job his a self employed electrician and has no work at moment his looking into doing different work now its that bad "
now that's bad eleccie with no work domestic or commercial ? |
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To try to give myself more credit than I do.I think I give myself unrealistic ideas of how well I am doing in life(for example with my kids),really being hard on myself when those around me keep telling me I am doing so well,how they don't know how I deal with it on my own...my kids are healthy,happy and well mannered(in public anyway...LOL) and that is down to me...so yes,well done me...LOL |
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