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 I think you have given extremely good advice on what you do. I do meet people to go walking with as great way to get to know someone before you go further. | |||
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"I also meant to say that if there is any alcohol in the room i insist on being mother lol and pouring it myself to ensure nothing is slipped in. " slipped in where betty? | |||
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"I am always very carefull when meeting single girls and make sure Sasha knows exactly where I am and telephone her as soon as the meet takes place. I then telephone her again after half an hour, I meet in a public place first so that there is less likelihood of her being violent towards me and I carry an AK47 into the hotel room." I'm with you on that....you must be mad to meet a single girl off here without an AK or a decent pair of Nike trainers for the quick escape.....  | |||
"I am always very carefull when meeting single girls and make sure Sasha knows exactly where I am and telephone her as soon as the meet takes place. I then telephone her again after half an hour, I meet in a public place first so that there is less likelihood of her being violent towards me and I carry an AK47 into the hotel room. I'm with you on that....you must be mad to meet a single girl off here without an AK or a decent pair of Nike trainers for the quick escape..... "lol actually men should take precautions other than just thinking women are docile meets | |||
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"I am always very carefull when meeting single girls and make sure Sasha knows exactly where I am and telephone her as soon as the meet takes place. I then telephone her again after half an hour, I meet in a public place first so that there is less likelihood of her being violent towards me and I carry an AK47 into the hotel room. I'm with you on that....you must be mad to meet a single girl off here without an AK or a decent pair of Nike trainers for the quick escape..... "cheeky bugga lol!!!! | |||
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"I am always very carefull when meeting single girls and make sure Sasha knows exactly where I am and telephone her as soon as the meet takes place. I then telephone her again after half an hour, I meet in a public place first so that there is less likelihood of her being violent towards me and I carry an AK47 into the hotel room. I'm with you on that....you must be mad to meet a single girl off here without an AK or a decent pair of Nike trainers for the quick escape..... "Wimp, yet to see anything on here that would make me go armed to a meet | |||
"I am always very carefull when meeting single girls and make sure Sasha knows exactly where I am and telephone her as soon as the meet takes place. I then telephone her again after half an hour, I meet in a public place first so that there is less likelihood of her being violent towards me and I carry an AK47 into the hotel room. I'm with you on that....you must be mad to meet a single girl off here without an AK or a decent pair of Nike trainers for the quick escape.....
Wimp, yet to see anything on here that would make me go armed to a meet "Some girls like to see a big gun... | |||
"christ how big is your handbag lol "A girl has to be prepared - shagged enough scouts to know that! | |||
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"Years ago, before I met Jackie, I had a date with a single lady from a dating site. We met at a pub, i came in my car, she in a Taxi. After a cpl of drinks we decided to go into town, We went out to my car, i opened the Boot to put the coats away and revealed my Chansaw, Axe, Shovel and black garden waste bags. (I had been cutting trees honest) She screamed aloud...and Ran back into the pub! Took me an hour to convince her I wasnt a Murderer! Poor Girl.....horny tart tho! lol
R X"omg pissed myself at that | |||
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"...guys much more abusive when i say no now im alone, and i dont just mean on here i mean in real life too, ive met a few guys over a drink who had turned a bit stroppy when ive said 'thanks for the drink but im going to leave the playing thanks' got back hoek to nasty mails etc, ..." I've met you and your ex-hubby socially (didn't know you guys had split) and it explains why you never got abuse of any guys while you were with him... he'd have nutted them one if he ever saw them at a social lol Wishy x | |||
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" ....... If he has a desire to hurt me, he will come undone as I have firefighters living opposite and I am an excellent screamer, .......... " If someone has the desire to hurt another pesron the chances are they'll be able to do it and no amount of vigilant neighbours, CCTV, leaving licence plate details etc will stop it happening. All that'll do is make the culprit easier to apprehend. | |||
" ....... If he has a desire to hurt me, he will come undone as I have firefighters living opposite and I am an excellent screamer, .......... If someone has the desire to hurt another pesron the chances are they'll be able to do it and no amount of vigilant neighbours, CCTV, leaving licence plate details etc will stop it happening. All that'll do is make the culprit easier to apprehend." ok well said He will get caught | |||
It was my first contact after joining this paid site for NSA fun.
He sounded intellegent, sophisticated, and could string words together to form proper sentances etc...
Luckily I survived the meet to tell the tale. However, I have not done that again since!
I have since insisted on meeting in a public place first for a drink to see if the gentleman and I tickle each other's fancy.
If we do, then we would agree the time, date and location of our next meet.
The location is usually a Travelodge or similar away from home, as my house is always messy, and it stresses me out big time having to tidy it.
I would only allow peeps I feel comfortable with back to my home.
So far, only 2 people have visited me at home, Mr Hot Date that I met via the paid site, and a gent from here, whom I consider as a friend.
I chatted to Mr Hot Date a quite a few times over the phone, and felt I knew him well and comfortable enough to invite him into my house.
The gent from here I met at a pub 5min from home first. Felt comfortable enough to invite him back for a meal. I only did that as the house was still relatively tidy after a recent visit by Mr Hot Date. Otherwise, I might not have invited him back.
In short, nowadays, I would insist on meeting in a public place first before agreeing to meet at hotels.
I would only meet at someone's house when I know the person well and comfortable enough.
I ensure I am personally protected from the risk of pregnancy without having to rely on the use of condoms (in case of the unfortunate event of sex against my will), even though I am officially a fossil at my age - there is still a risk of me getting pregnant, and that is the last thing I want!!!
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"After reading a few different threads about meets going wrong with single girls etc, i wondered what safety practises other single girls have to ensure there personal safety on a one to one meet. I personally would never have a single guy back to my house but that is my preference and always have meets at hotels where i make sure others whom i trust know who i am meeting, what time, etc and when i arrive i always text the room number and expect a phone call at least an hour into the meet, ( i do explain this to the gent prior to play) so what else can a single girl do to ensure there personal safety. " wot about us single guys ??? i personally dont tell my mum , or the folks next door ,,, a few pals who do know of my lifestyle woory about my safety ,, but hey ho ,,, i,m still in one piece ( just ) so what precautions do other guys take ??? i use my intuition and so far ,, all is good | |||
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" 1)Insist on calling the guy on his home tel number (no mobile)for a quick chat. 2) I would inists the first meet be only for a chat and the meet would be in a public place such as a pub or a coffee bar. 3) I would only have further meets in a hotel until I was sure he was safe. 4) When having a meet I would always tell a good friend about it and where the meet is taking place and who with. " All good advice but with me number 1 would be difficult, I'm a trucker and so don't have a landline number as its a little redundant. I'd suggest asking when you meet to borrow his mobile to let your friend know you'd arrived safely, then they would have his number too even if you are carrying your own mobile. | |||
"I agree intuition is a biggy I meet often with no real notice at my place but I could just as easily have some fool follow me back from the pub one night and stab me " Valid point. When I told my friend I met men on the internet, not adult sites granted, she thought I was mad and gave me a list of scenarios of what could happen, all ending with my mutilated corpse tossed some where. I told her I never met without telling someone where I was but she still thought I was nuts. She went to a friends birthday party at a restaurant and got chatting to one of the other guests. After the dinner he asked her back to his. She parked her car outside her dad's house nearby, got in this guys car and drove with him to his house in west London and stayed the night! No one knew she'd left with him, she didnt know where he was taking her, within 4 hours of meeting she was in his bed. Now out of the two of us, who's the nut? I dont think many of us single ladies on this site would do that! | |||
"I agree intuition is a biggy I meet often with no real notice at my place but I could just as easily have some fool follow me back from the pub one night and stab me Valid point. When I told my friend I met men on the internet, not adult sites granted, she thought I was mad and gave me a list of scenarios of what could happen, all ending with my mutilated corpse tossed some where. I told her I never met without telling someone where I was but she still thought I was nuts. She went to a friends birthday party at a restaurant and got chatting to one of the other guests. After the dinner he asked her back to his. She parked her car outside her dad's house nearby, got in this guys car and drove with him to his house in west London and stayed the night! No one knew she'd left with him, she didnt know where he was taking her, within 4 hours of meeting she was in his bed. Now out of the two of us, who's the nut? I dont think many of us single ladies on this site would do that!" hell no I wont get into anyones car unless I've met them a few times I tend to meet guys at the club I go to I agree, your friend was careless | |||
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" Put me off for quite some time. " I'm not suprised it put you off. Some guys give single men a bad reputation with plainly unwanted actions like that. It's a sad fact of this world that some people can't respect common decency. Just because someone has a lifestyle that differs from the "norm" doesn't mean others should be allowed disrespect them. All the best and safe swinging for the future. x | |||
