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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all just a quick one not sure if this is ment to happen in swingers clubs but been going club now for a little while and seen a ladie I liked so we chatted then moved upstairs to be alone were we had a great night so arrange to meet again but this time back at my place wow is all I can say one of the best nights ever won't bor you all with to much info but to cut a long story short I think we have fallen in love with each other I was wondering if this has happened before at swingers clubs  ps if we do end up getting married then they will be a few invites going out   |
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"I hope it works out but don't pin your hopes on it....it can work and has worked for many people but make sure she feels the same and it wasn't just post coital elation."
I get pre coitus inflation and post coitus deflation and mid coitus fellation (if I'm lucky). |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ooo yes sorry to add we been texting each other everyday and told each other everything plus chatting on the phone ect we met up 4 times now and each time is better n better I thought I would never find my soul mate from ever going to swinging clubs but I'm sure she the one thks for your nice comments everyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all just a quick one not sure if this is ment to happen in swingers clubs but been going club now for a little while and seen a ladie I liked so we chatted then moved upstairs to be alone were we had a great night so arrange to meet again but this time back at my place wow is all I can say one of the best nights ever won't bor you all with to much info but to cut a long story short I think we have fallen in love with each other I was wondering if this has happened before at swingers clubs ps if we do end up getting married then they will be a few invites going out "
I know who ya talking about lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all just a quick one not sure if this is ment to happen in swingers clubs but been going club now for a little while and seen a ladie I liked so we chatted then moved upstairs to be alone were we had a great night so arrange to meet again but this time back at my place wow is all I can say one of the best nights ever won't bor you all with to much info but to cut a long story short I think we have fallen in love with each other I was wondering if this has happened before at swingers clubs ps if we do end up getting married then they will be a few invites going out "
aw how sweet, I know how you feel and its a lovely feeling x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So you met a chick from here once and your in love, second meet it's back at yours and third it's till death do us part.
Like someone else mentioned above..make sure she feels the same way because that reads a little bit full on.
It's kind of gooey and lovey dovey if you do, but don't sort of expect the "mutual-ness"...wait...is that even a word?
Good luck chap though!
Ben
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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female half to the couple :D 5 months later thought it was time for an update . When i first saw this post on here could quite happily have killed a certain someone lol whilst the swinging is a fantastic part of our relationship we find it is by no means the reason we are together in fact we recently went nearly 2 months without any play meets , just as happy snuggled up watching crappy tv sometimes who knows where the future will lead but happy to ride this one out and see where we end up |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"female half to the couple :D 5 months later thought it was time for an update . When i first saw this post on here could quite happily have killed a certain someone lol whilst the swinging is a fantastic part of our relationship we find it is by no means the reason we are together in fact we recently went nearly 2 months without any play meets , just as happy snuggled up watching crappy tv sometimes who knows where the future will lead but happy to ride this one out and see where we end up "
all the best to you both be happy |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
When I read the OP's first post (originally thought was a recent thread) alarm bells went off in my head and I wanted to yell out "Nooooo... don't do it!!".
I've known women on the scene not just on Fabs and not any one club in particular) who start off with "fussy" as the theme on their profile, as soon as they meet "one guy" then the theme on the profile becomes "no longer meeting".
Likewise I've heard of women that "do do multiple meets" ie "meet only one person".. then keeps it going until it fizzles out before meeting anyone different,... or women that are not as subtle and are blatant they only meet people who are interested in building a relationship (with them).
Whilst is their lives I still feel its not what the scene is for (ie, actively looking for a life partner) so I was concerned for the OP. Yes, am a skeptic that way - I can admit it.
However, if 5 months on and they've built around and outside swinging then that can only be a good thing, good luck to you both. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nice story and hope it works out.
Out if interest, what's your story for how you met when people ask ? I'm guessing it pretty rare for a relationship to flourish after meeting in a swingers club but I guess it means you have no secrets from the start. Communication is everything |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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communication is definately the key along with setting boundaries that both of you are happy to work with. Friends and family that just wouldnt understand this lifestyle believe we met through an online dating site . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont/wont do the "love" thing......
ever ever ever....
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but all the best for the future 
Ditto
Although I am currently 'In lust' "
Oh i dont mind being "in lust"  |
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By *irtyDee33Woman
over a year ago
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"communication is definately the key along with setting boundaries that both of you are happy to work with. Friends and family that just wouldnt understand this lifestyle believe we met through an online dating site . "
Good luck to u both, think it's wonderful x |
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" That's sweet xxx Is it love or lust ? Love takes time ... lust is a powerful feeling too. But good luck and hope things work out. xx"
What about love at first sight? Perhaps all this focus on sex actually confuses the issue. I am not on here for sex at all, only for love. I know that is paradoxical but it works for me! |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
" That's sweet xxx Is it love or lust ? Love takes time ... lust is a powerful feeling too. But good luck and hope things work out. xx
What about love at first sight? Perhaps all this focus on sex actually confuses the issue. I am not on here for sex at all, only for love. I know that is paradoxical but it works for me!"
Here's the question though - do you walk into a meet asking yourself "Is this the one?".. and after the meet, then what? And when you meet "the one" does the other person feel the same?
Or to complicate it, you meet someone similar (ie looking for love) but you don't feel the same about them, what do you do? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" That's sweet xxx Is it love or lust ? Love takes time ... lust is a powerful feeling too. But good luck and hope things work out. xx
What about love at first sight? Perhaps all this focus on sex actually confuses the issue. I am not on here for sex at all, only for love. I know that is paradoxical but it works for me!"
yes lust at first sight too. I am sure a lot think lust is love .. The Love I feel for things will never go its very deep .. I know when its lust. But maybe you can have love at first sight I don't know . |
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