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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

i am being verbally threatened by sumbody i have met, had a good time with and now changed my mind about meetin g him to meet couples...hes threatened to come round to my house ....and says he doesnt take being made fool of lightly...wot am i to do

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Report his profile in the first instance

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By *etitesaraTV/TS over a year ago

rochdale

Then contact the police. They won't do owt right away but it will be held on file.

Tell him you have sent his details to the police and that you will not hesitate to call them should he contact you in any way again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

thanx both of you i have reported him ..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is why, even tho im a single woman and can accommodate i dont, even if you think someone is a friend you never know when its going to turn nasty.

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By *ig badMan over a year ago

Up North :-)

I would send him a message saying that this is unacceptable behaviour and you are contacting admin and the police regarding this matter. If he offers an apology and dissapears then its a judgement call for you to take things as far as you think or not.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you have any messages from him on here or txt then save them and take them to the police,if not would still report it to them,

It don't sound as if you can talk it out with him but maybe try it if you hav'nt already,

There is no need for that sort of behaviour,

Hope things get sorted for you love,

Take care, Gary

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That's good self security, maybe better to meet at a Hotel or somewhere else

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ive had it a few times where men i have met have got really possesive and once they have met a single woman some dont like to give you up lightly because your the ticket they need to get into swinging properly, clubs, meeting other couples etc, whats happened to you is not un common of some men on here, i would seriously suggest any single women do not give out their address to anyone, no matter how many times you have met them.

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By *riendlyfunfemWoman over a year ago

A world of my own

Thats really bad, hope hes all mouth, he should be ousted from the site permanently.

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By *aravancoupleMan over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love

You need to report the scumbag to the police and admin.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Here's what ya do:

Invite the guy round again. Have a few drinks, let him fall asleep and then wake him up to the sound of knives sharpening with a mad glint in your eye and a devilish voice rasping, "I've been reading about Elena Bobbit, she sounds really cool!"

I bet you never see him again.

p.s. I am joking btw, follow the advice given in posts before mine and hope he gets the message.

Be careful out there, as they used to say in Hill Street Blues. (I miss that prog)

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

thanx evryone, ive blocked him, reported him, wot more can i do , if he turns up on my door step i shall cal the police....can i just add all i did was ave a gud meet wiv him , said we wud meet again and i meant it and maybge meet a few couples, but he became a bit to pushy and controlling so i chganged my mind.....simple..if i feel insecure im not guna meet sum1 any single woman wud do the same ....

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