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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Its coming up to Dad's anniversary which is the day after Father's Day. Last year it was on Father's Day. I'm feeling a bit meh. Its not fair that his anniversary is so close to Father's Day, I'm currently at the point of doing my food shopping all online because supermarkets are just too difficult to go into.
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i know its hard but think of all the good times you had with him. Thats what Fathers day is for and it makes it more significant for you.
go to his favourite place, have his favourite meal. remember him, dont mourn him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It will be hard specially the first couple of years my dads is on my sisters birthday and we make a point of celebrating it to take our minds off things.
It never goes away but it does get easier with time xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My mum died a long time ago now .. I was young , and she was young.
It took a while but you get there and it gets easier and you end up replacing the tears with smiles. I promise you that you do.
I still remember - I still cry but you know what its with fondness and loving memories
Much love |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry, I'm not trying to attention seek, I'm just having a night where I feel very lonely... There's going to be lots of them coming up."
No one would think you were xxx
You get through these times the way you need to - you don't have to explain yourself |
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over a year ago
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"He is watching, he will be with you....celebrate the love you shared. he isn't in pain any more, he is at peace.."
I just want one more minute, one more hug |
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"He is watching, he will be with you....celebrate the love you shared. he isn't in pain any more, he is at peace..
I just want one more minute, one more hug "
Of course you do.....I am sending you a consolation hug......xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry, I'm not trying to attention seek, I'm just having a night where I feel very lonely... There's going to be lots of them coming up."
I had one of those nights last night, there are some lovely ppl here in the forums...((hugs)) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"He is watching, he will be with you....celebrate the love you shared. he isn't in pain any more, he is at peace..
I just want one more minute, one more hug
Of course you do.....I am sending you a consolation hug......xxx"
Thank you xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sorry, I'm not trying to attention seek, I'm just having a night where I feel very lonely... There's going to be lots of them coming up.
I had one of those nights last night, there are some lovely ppl here in the forums...((hugs))"
Yes there are - I count some of them amongst my best friends who I would do anything for |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry, I'm not trying to attention seek, I'm just having a night where I feel very lonely... There's going to be lots of them coming up.
I had one of those nights last night, there are some lovely ppl here in the forums...((hugs))
Yes there are - I count some of them amongst my best friends who I would do anything for"
I'm sure you would, as would I |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sorry, I'm not trying to attention seek, I'm just having a night where I feel very lonely... There's going to be lots of them coming up.
I had one of those nights last night, there are some lovely ppl here in the forums...((hugs))
Yes there are - I count some of them amongst my best friends who I would do anything for
I'm sure you would, as would I"
Though its too late for a lot of them as they're in bed |
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"Sorry, I'm not trying to attention seek, I'm just having a night where I feel very lonely... There's going to be lots of them coming up.
I had one of those nights last night, there are some lovely ppl here in the forums...((hugs))
Yes there are - I count some of them amongst my best friends who I would do anything for
I'm sure you would, as would I
Though its too late for a lot of them as they're in bed "
Some of us aren't...lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sorry, I'm not trying to attention seek, I'm just having a night where I feel very lonely... There's going to be lots of them coming up.
I had one of those nights last night, there are some lovely ppl here in the forums...((hugs))
Yes there are - I count some of them amongst my best friends who I would do anything for
I'm sure you would, as would I
Though its too late for a lot of them as they're in bed
Some of us aren't...lol"
I know - just spoken to Mum, going to try and get myself under control! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Big hugs rubes, try to celebrate his life, my dad died almost eight years ago, on fathers day light a candle in his memory. There are times when it floors me, like when my last three grandchildren were born and he didnt get to see them..
Xx |
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