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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I am very confident sexually, I know what I like and I am not afraid to get it!
How sexually confident are you? And has your confidence grown since being on fab?  |
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Before I joined I was very reserved stuck to one man never dreamt of anything more.
Then I broke up with last fella and thought there gas to be more I'm highly sexed and wanna play then I read an article about swinging and thought why not.
I happened across this site in the millions which came up on my google search and its been an adventure and eye opener I'm growing more confident with every meet.
I've gone from a 1 man woman to variety is the spice if life i have been in the site just over 2 months and meet 17 times!!!!
I even played outdoors in the woods and car I totally didn't think I'd go there but I loved it. Fab has helped me come out if my shell just hope I'm able to tame the slut if I ever decide to go back to the 'norm' .......... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP, are you asking how confident we are in asking what we want? "
Both really, are you confident sexually and confident in asking for what you want? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, I am now sexually confident. It may have taken x number of men to make me realise that I'm good but it was a fun journey.
Before swinging and then joining fab I'd had it put into my head by 2 exes that I couldn't suck cock for toffees and that I was a shit shag. But now I know that one of them was a cheating shit bag and the other was not a very nice person! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i think i have been sexually confident since i was 17, certainly compared to a lot of people.
since being on fab, in some ways i have become more confident, in some ways less confident. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I definitely think ive got more sexually confident since i first joined here but i still have plenty of time to grow in confidence, as others have said it comes with time and age.... |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"OP, are you asking how confident we are in asking what we want?
Both really, are you confident sexually and confident in asking for what you want? "
I am confident because of who I am as a "whole" person. I personally find it sexier and more engaging when a man "knows" or works out what I like rather than having to tell him. Having to tell takes some of the excitment away for me if this makes sense? |
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By *essiCouple
over a year ago
suffolk |
"OP, are you asking how confident we are in asking what we want?
Both really, are you confident sexually and confident in asking for what you want?
I am confident because of who I am as a "whole" person. I personally find it sexier and more engaging when a man "knows" or works out what I like rather than having to tell him. Having to tell takes some of the excitment away for me if this makes sense? "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP, are you asking how confident we are in asking what we want?
Both really, are you confident sexually and confident in asking for what you want?
I am confident because of who I am as a "whole" person. I personally find it sexier and more engaging when a man "knows" or works out what I like rather than having to tell him. Having to tell takes some of the excitment away for me if this makes sense? "
Yes that makes perfect sense!
And agree with some of that! Yes it is great when it all falls in to place! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am quite confident in the bedroom, or any other room come to that lol im not dominant but I do like to take control, im more than happy to ask for what I like and go for what I want, and I do ,like men who are willing to try new things  |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"OP, are you asking how confident we are in asking what we want?
Both really, are you confident sexually and confident in asking for what you want?
I am confident because of who I am as a "whole" person. I personally find it sexier and more engaging when a man "knows" or works out what I like rather than having to tell him. Having to tell takes some of the excitment away for me if this makes sense?
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I can sense the love in teh air between us - ever since I tried to get between you and surrey last night   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having been monogamous for 16 yrs , I'm not sure how or why I got here .
I guess I wanted to know how other guys made love and also fulfil my bi curiosity .
Since being here and meeting others I am far more confident in myself , about my body etc .
Now I think if x doesn't like curves , there will always be someone who does |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've always been pretty confident sexually in vanilla relationships & quite like being watched when I'm playing with my partner, but have yet to loose the swinging cherry, so not very confident about that yet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP, are you asking how confident we are in asking what we want?
Both really, are you confident sexually and confident in asking for what you want?
I am confident because of who I am as a "whole" person. I personally find it sexier and more engaging when a man "knows" or works out what I like rather than having to tell him. Having to tell takes some of the excitment away for me if this makes sense? "
So many women lack confidence as the result of the cruel words of the men who claim to "love" them.
My sexual confidence has grown in leaps and bounds since I started swinging with my partner a year ago and more so still since I started playing solo but like Aphrodite for me half the thrill is having a guy discover for himself what works best! Fat/frigid/ugly to sex goddess - who'd have thought?!!!!!! |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"OP, are you asking how confident we are in asking what we want?
Both really, are you confident sexually and confident in asking for what you want?
I am confident because of who I am as a "whole" person. I personally find it sexier and more engaging when a man "knows" or works out what I like rather than having to tell him. Having to tell takes some of the excitment away for me if this makes sense?
So many women lack confidence as the result of the cruel words of the men who claim to "love" them.
My sexual confidence has grown in leaps and bounds since I started swinging with my partner a year ago and more so still since I started playing solo but like Aphrodite for me half the thrill is having a guy discover for himself what works best! Fat/frigid/ugly to sex goddess - who'd have thought?!!!!!!"
That is such a great journey from being a bit down to celebrating your sexuality - fantastic achievement! |
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After 15 years of a monogamous marriage then a further ten of another in which we started swinging as a couple after 5 yrs, I now in a single role am mature and grown in confidence with age and experience . I love to spend time in foreplay learning what gets the woman's heart racing and think nothing of spending an hour or more just getting things warmed up. Not much talking during the fun but not afraid to fully discuss likes limits and fantasies beforehand. As a young 19 year old I was like a rabbit in headlights not really able to approach women but now hope I at least compliment the use of a rabbit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm getting there - its been a long journey of self discovery and of becoming confident with who I am and also which my own body / looks.
Now, if I just get my powers of seduction to work on that checkout lady in Tesco with the pneumatic cleavage..... |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I'm getting there - its been a long journey of self discovery and of becoming confident with who I am and also which my own body / looks.
Now, if I just get my powers of seduction to work on that checkout lady in Tesco with the pneumatic cleavage....."
Your avatars have certainly become more revealing over the last few months. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me now I don't want commitment , I just want to be adored and desired for the hours I spend with someone , then go home with a twinkle in my eye
Friends ask why am I so happy and laughing , I just tell them I take a special drug called Lustful  xx
Ps am not taking the piss out of people with depression btw as I suffer to and take meds for mine , but this lifestyle is doing wonders for me |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
"I'm getting there - its been a long journey of self discovery and of becoming confident with who I am and also which my own body / looks.
Now, if I just get my powers of seduction to work on that checkout lady in Tesco with the pneumatic cleavage....."
Love your new Avatar Prof!
I've always been pretty confident sexually, though have a few body issues (as with most women)...still have the issues, but don't bother me so much anymore |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm getting there - its been a long journey of self discovery and of becoming confident with who I am and also which my own body / looks.
Now, if I just get my powers of seduction to work on that checkout lady in Tesco with the pneumatic cleavage....."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm getting there - its been a long journey of self discovery and of becoming confident with who I am and also which my own body / looks.
Now, if I just get my powers of seduction to work on that checkout lady in Tesco with the pneumatic cleavage.....
Love your new Avatar Prof!
I've always been pretty confident sexually, though have a few body issues (as with most women)...still have the issues, but don't bother me so much anymore"
Thank you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am sexually confident
That doesn't equate to thinking I am good at it
There is a difference
I also don't talk myself up.
I am confident in an understated way I guess. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I am sexually confident
That doesn't equate to thinking I am good at it
There is a difference
I also don't talk myself up.
I am confident in an understated way I guess."
I like this comment! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am very confident sexually, I know what I like and I am not afraid to get it!
How sexually confident are you? And has your confidence grown since being on fab? "
Enough to not give it a second thought unless the question is asked of me. I am very happy in my own skin and that's how I like it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am sexually confident
That doesn't equate to thinking I am good at it
There is a difference
I also don't talk myself up.
I am confident in an understated way I guess."
Thinking about it, I am possibly more confident sexually than I am socially, certainly in group situations |
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