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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
It's a bit of give and take.
I have had people come into my life, particularly at work, where I was there at the right time to be of help.
It has taken me a long time to allow people to help me but they are there. |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I attract people with problems. Even if I'm sitting quietly waiting for a bus someone will start talking to me about a problem  "
You probably give off vibes of being a good listener.  |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"It's a bit of give and take.
I have had people come into my life, particularly at work, where I was there at the right time to be of help.
It has taken me a long time to allow people to help me but they are there."
I think it is so much harder to receive than to give. For me anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a bit of give and take.
I have had people come into my life, particularly at work, where I was there at the right time to be of help.
It has taken me a long time to allow people to help me but they are there.I think it is so much harder to receive than to give. For me anyway "
speak for yourself lovey ......... oh u did   |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"It's a bit of give and take.
I have had people come into my life, particularly at work, where I was there at the right time to be of help.
It has taken me a long time to allow people to help me but they are there.I think it is so much harder to receive than to give. For me anyway
speak for yourself lovey ......... oh u did "
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I have learned the hard way, now I don't and can be quite cold about it... I wish the people no ill will but I don't want to be central to any solution"
And at the end of teh day you cannot make decisions for anybody - they have to find what is right for them themselves, dont they.
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"I attract people with problems. Even if I'm sitting quietly waiting for a bus someone will start talking to me about a problem You probably give off vibes of being a good listener. "
I've got the kind of face that people want to talk at (or smack lol) and I will chat to just about anybody.
But I don't mind listening and offereing the occasional word of advice if asked.
Slightly at a tangent. I was in a shop with my parents (86, 79) and an elderly gent commented on the biscuits I was putting in my basket, we exchanged a few good humoured words and I moved on. I looked back and my father was chatting to him , they were laughing and were there for about ten minutes. On the way home my dad said that the man was recently widowed, in his eighties and very lonely and that brief chat with both of us had made him feel less so.
That's why I don't really mind people chatting to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've spent many many years fixing people, problems and things.
Sadly, it took many years to realise that I never took time to fix the things wrong in my life - because I was too busy finding solutions for everyone else. |
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