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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Talk about rock bottom ! You send out nice friendly messages to people ! You match what there looking for ! And you just get deleted ! Arhhhhhh ! Not even a polite no thank you 
I understand the game but where along the line did people's manners disappear ?
No wonder sooooo many men on here fake couple profiles ! Totally sad |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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It happens, it isn't nice when it does but it is part of the game...and won't change.
The good times are worth the effort most of the time.
You have been here a short time and had fun so you are doing it the right way for you... Continue to have fun.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Single guys seem to think they are the under dogs on here. It happens to us as a couple too.
Your point on faking profile to be a couple though; one thing that makes us delete and block are guys who do this, so I wouldn't advise.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You think you match their profile, they clearly didnt think you matched their profile.
Even if you fit into a category they are looking for they may not have liked your profile/pics etc.
Site rules, It is NOT rude, not to reply.
I respond to most of mine but not always.
Just like everyone else I get fed up of repeating myself so just delete sometimes  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Whilst I can't see you face pic properly it doesn't look the best and no that's not saying you're not attractive. I'd try again on that one as that's a first image that flashes up.
Also putting negative comments on your profile is a turn off. If you can't say anything nice dont say anything at all lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Arrgghhh
Look Ill be honest if you want
Your pictures - no cock pictures and if you do have them maybe leave them for ' friends only'
Add something more to your profile - a little about yourself without being all ' woe is me'
Oh and most of all - don't let it bother you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whilst I can't see you face pic properly it doesn't look the best and no that's not saying you're not attractive. I'd try again on that one as that's a first image that flashes up.
Also putting negative comments on your profile is a turn off. If you can't say anything nice dont say anything at all lol. "
You said it better  |
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"Talk about rock bottom ! You send out nice friendly messages to people ! You match what there looking for ! And you just get deleted ! Arhhhhhh ! Not even a polite no thank you
I understand the game but where along the line did people's manners disappear ?
No wonder sooooo many men on here fake couple profiles ! Totally sad "
The thing is YOU might think you match what they're looking for, they don't. You also have to realise if people take time to write profiles setting out what they're looking for, if they receive a message, look at the profile and there's nothing there or boring generic content, they'll delete without reading: I do.
Sadly, a lot of men join sites like this with the assumption it's full of raging nymphomaniacs, ready and raring to go, so they don't have to fill out a profile, just post pictures of their cocks from various angles, and send messages along the lines: "well?!! It's not gonna suck itself!!!
As an aside: your moan is longer than your profile text: need I say more?!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you tess I appreciate that I may not meet their criteria ! But surely by the law of averages lol !
Your comment regarding my profile text is noted x ill try and be more imaginative |
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You've been here a week had 2 replies and a meet. That's more than some get in a year.
I agree with the profile comments tho.
And like others have said just because I have age criteria etc on my profile doesn't mean I'm gonna meet everyone within those criteria. There may not be an attraction there or something you have or don't have in the profile/pics they find off putting. Single guys outnumber couples/single fems massively on here. If your getting despondent after a week your gonna find life on here tough!!
And site rules state it's not rude not to reply just take a no reply as a no and move on x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You've been here a week had 2 replies and a meet. That's more than some get in a year.
I agree with the profile comments tho.
And like others have said just because I have age criteria etc on my profile doesn't mean I'm gonna meet everyone within those criteria. There may not be an attraction there or something you have or don't have in the profile/pics they find off putting. Single guys outnumber couples/single fems massively on here. If your getting despondent after a week your gonna find life on here tough!!
And site rules state it's not rude not to reply just take a no reply as a no and move on x"
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"Thank you tess I appreciate that I may not meet their criteria ! But surely by the law of averages lol !
Your comment regarding my profile text is noted x ill try and be more imaginative "
Just be yourself. People ask for help, everyone gives their tuppence worth, which results in a generic borefest!
You are unique, let members see you. Remember don't try and appeal to everyone: you can't!
If you prefer Amazonian women, say it. If you like playing in custard, shout it loud. You'll stand out and attract the kind of people for YOU!
Good luck! |
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"Thank you tess I appreciate that I may not meet their criteria ! But surely by the law of averages lol !
Your comment regarding my profile text is noted x ill try and be more imaginative
Just be yourself. People ask for help, everyone gives their tuppence worth, which results in a generic borefest!
You are unique, let members see you. Remember don't try and appeal to everyone: you can't!
If you prefer Amazonian women, say it. If you like playing in custard, shout it loud. You'll stand out and attract the kind of people for YOU!
Good luck!"
Excellent advice!! I love custard  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you tess I appreciate that I may not meet their criteria ! But surely by the law of averages lol !
Your comment regarding my profile text is noted x ill try and be more imaginative
Just be yourself. People ask for help, everyone gives their tuppence worth, which results in a generic borefest!
You are unique, let members see you. Remember don't try and appeal to everyone: you can't!
If you prefer Amazonian women, say it. If you like playing in custard, shout it loud. You'll stand out and attract the kind of people for YOU!
Good luck!
Thank you sooo much x think I've been approaching this all wrong 
It's tricky trying to appeal to most people x I know what I like (love to please) and custard is a favourite of mine but only on apple pie lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mate, your profile is your most important asset, sell yourself. Say what you like and what you are looking for. Make it a little personal so folks get a feel for who you are.
Before I met my OH I was never short of meets, and was told my profile attracted them as I came across as friendly, sincere and trustworthy. My pics showed I was a dirty bastard  |
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Custard only on apple pie? So if a lady said 'I'd like to lick custard off your huge throbbing cock'...you'd say 'nah, forget it'? Hmmmm.
Also, be more selective with your age group. Would you really like a 99 year old sitting on your face?
Lay out your profile like a market stall - your likes/dislikes/what you have to offer/what ladies can expect when they meet you - be imaginative. I prefer the tattoo pic as an avatar. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cheers Ben ill check yours out and see how the pro's do it. Cheers for the advice Ben much appricated "
You won't get much info off my current profile as I am not really looking for meets anymore. Good luck anyway. |
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I can sympathise.
I knew a window cleaner that cried every time the chamois didn't clean the windows by itself.
He wasn't too sensitive for window cleaning tho you understand.
It was everyone else. Rude Chamois! rude! |
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"Custard only on apple pie? So if a lady said 'I'd like to lick custard off your huge throbbing cock'...you'd say 'nah, forget it'? Hmmmm.
Also, be more selective with your age group. Would you really like a 99 year old sitting on your face?
Lay out your profile like a market stall - your likes/dislikes/what you have to offer/what ladies can expect when they meet you - be imaginative. I prefer the tattoo pic as an avatar. "
I'm nearly 99 ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Custard only on apple pie? So if a lady said 'I'd like to lick custard off your huge throbbing cock'...you'd say 'nah, forget it'? Hmmmm.
Also, be more selective with your age group. Would you really like a 99 year old sitting on your face?
Lay out your profile like a market stall - your likes/dislikes/what you have to offer/what ladies can expect when they meet you - be imaginative. I prefer the tattoo pic as an avatar.
I'm nearly 99 ! "
When you are 99 give me a call |
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"Thank you tess I appreciate that I may not meet their criteria ! But surely by the law of averages lol !
Your comment regarding my profile text is noted x ill try and be more imaginative
Just be yourself. People ask for help, everyone gives their tuppence worth, which results in a generic borefest!
You are unique, let members see you. Remember don't try and appeal to everyone: you can't!
If you prefer Amazonian women, say it. If you like playing in custard, shout it loud. You'll stand out and attract the kind of people for YOU!
Good luck!
Thank you sooo much x think I've been approaching this all wrong
It's tricky trying to appeal to most people x I know what I like (love to please) and custard is a favourite of mine but only on apple pie lol
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I think the mistake usually made by men is trying to please everyone: you can't, why would you want to?
Be honest with yourself: why are you here? What do you want?
I like confident men. Saying what you want without insulting those outwith your preferences impress me. Even if I'm excluded, therefore the target market would be too: impressed that is. |
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"Custard only on apple pie? So if a lady said 'I'd like to lick custard off your huge throbbing cock'...you'd say 'nah, forget it'? Hmmmm.
Also, be more selective with your age group. Would you really like a 99 year old sitting on your face?
Lay out your profile like a market stall - your likes/dislikes/what you have to offer/what ladies can expect when they meet you - be imaginative. I prefer the tattoo pic as an avatar.
I'm nearly 99 !
When you are 99 give me a call "
Hey, You are my favourite flake :P |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Custard only on apple pie? So if a lady said 'I'd like to lick custard off your huge throbbing cock'...you'd say 'nah, forget it'? Hmmmm.
Also, be more selective with your age group. Would you really like a 99 year old sitting on your face?
Lay out your profile like a market stall - your likes/dislikes/what you have to offer/what ladies can expect when they meet you - be imaginative. I prefer the tattoo pic as an avatar.
I'm nearly 99 !
When you are 99 give me a call
Hey, You are my favourite flake :P"
Change your name to Granny Cornet and you can have my flake |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why is it sole destroying? If they're not interested then their not interested if they say no thanks or not..
There are a lot of people who can't handle the rejection of being told no thanks
No pleasing everyone |
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"OMG ! It's all going off lol my profile has lit up after all your advice x thank you soooo much "
Except my advice about the pic
Maybe it was the flake comment
Maybe it should have been Brighton Rock |
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