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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Can any of you lovely people tell us what the difference is between oraly bi, bi-curious obviously Bisexual is as it is.
Oraly and curious are the same to us, or are we missing something?
Is it becasue guys are affraid to actually admit they are bi?  |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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I heard a friend use teh term "situationally bi" the other day and I thought that was a really good way of describing those who are not quite bi but can, in the right circumstances, enjoy some same sex interaction. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My understanding is...
Orally bi, means they will give/receive head but want no part in the anal.
Bi curious is just curious/aroused by/ limited experience with
and bi is enjoys it all with both 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah I think I've put it on mine as Bi curious because I wanted to differentiate between that and Botty stuff which I really don't want to do. My attitude is I love having my cock sucked and if I close my eyes I don't care who is doing it LOL.
Happy to return the favour and it's such a turn on for the girls. They have a giggle about it as it sort of returns the favour of us blokes oggling them doing things for our entertainment. Don't be selfish, Give a bit back I say. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I heard a friend use teh term "situationally bi" the other day and I thought that was a really good way of describing those who are not quite bi but can, in the right circumstances, enjoy some same sex interaction."
That is a really good way of putting it thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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to me Bi means someone who plays with same sex(no matter if oral or fully) as well as opposite sex.
many threads on this which people know the answers.
some say why label..well reality is they are 3 types of peeps sexualy. Straight..Bi..Gay.
it dont matter which anyone is but so many deny or justify what they are...no one cares whos what...but fact is fact we are either 1 of the 3!!!!
and bi curious just means someone whos never done anything sexualy with same sex..and thinks about it and may try it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If we can't agree on differentiating on a site like this, god only knows what vanillas think!
Mind you I think bi doesn't really exist on vanilla street. You're either straight or gay lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"to me Bi means someone who plays with same sex(no matter if oral or fully) as well as opposite sex.
many threads on this which people know the answers.
some say why label..well reality is they are 3 types of peeps sexualy. Straight..Bi..Gay.
it dont matter which anyone is but so many deny or justify what they are...no one cares whos what...but fact is fact we are either 1 of the 3!!!!
and bi curious just means someone whos never done anything sexualy with same sex..and thinks about it and may try it"
Thanks for that and you are right we see it you put it 1 of 3 sexualy but it seems you then in the bi catergory little sub-sections. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If we can't agree on differentiating on a site like this, god only knows what vanillas think!
Mind you I think bi doesn't really exist on vanilla street. You're either straight or gay lol"
Yes you either like both so bi or you don't straingt to me its simple but obviously not to some. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"many ladies have no issues with saying they Bisexual..seems many guys do! they more Bisexual guys on this site than straight!"
So why do they make it so difficult for you to find them!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"to me Bi means someone who plays with same sex(no matter if oral or fully) as well as opposite sex.
many threads on this which people know the answers.
some say why label..well reality is they are 3 types of peeps sexualy. Straight..Bi..Gay.
it dont matter which anyone is but so many deny or justify what they are...no one cares whos what...but fact is fact we are either 1 of the 3!!!!
and bi curious just means someone whos never done anything sexualy with same sex..and thinks about it and may try it
Thanks for that and you are right we see it you put it 1 of 3 sexualy but it seems you then in the bi catergory little sub-sections."
but they only 3 options sexualy a person is, common sense really and if peeps in denial thats up to them. i only play with men so class myself as gay.. if i do ever do anything sexualy with a woman then id be bi i wonder if i wanted do something with a woman..would i then be classed as straight-curious  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"to me Bi means someone who plays with same sex(no matter if oral or fully) as well as opposite sex.
many threads on this which people know the answers.
some say why label..well reality is they are 3 types of peeps sexualy. Straight..Bi..Gay.
it dont matter which anyone is but so many deny or justify what they are...no one cares whos what...but fact is fact we are either 1 of the 3!!!!
and bi curious just means someone whos never done anything sexualy with same sex..and thinks about it and may try it
Thanks for that and you are right we see it you put it 1 of 3 sexualy but it seems you then in the bi catergory little sub-sections.
but they only 3 options sexualy a person is, common sense really and if peeps in denial thats up to them. i only play with men so class myself as gay.. if i do ever do anything sexualy with a woman then id be bi i wonder if i wanted do something with a woman..would i then be classed as straight-curious "
LOL very very good point I like that |
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"My understanding is...
Orally bi, means they will give/receive head but want no part in the anal.
Bi curious is just curious/aroused by/ limited experience with
and bi is enjoys it all with both
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you enjoy giving oral then you are bi...simple."
But I don't think it is. We used to put John as bisexual but he doesn't do anal and some assumed he did. In fact another thread about bi men / couples shows some people avoid bi men because they assume no means they indulge in anal activity and all the increased risks associated with that. So these labels are kind of important to us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you enjoy giving oral then you are bi...simple.
But I don't think it is. We used to put John as bisexual but he doesn't do anal and some assumed he did. In fact another thread about bi men / couples shows some people avoid bi men because they assume no means they indulge in anal activity and all the increased risks associated with that. So these labels are kind of important to us. "
just because he doesnt have anal, dont mean he isnt bisexual. if guy plays with both men and women they are bisexual.
there are actualy Gay guys who dont do anal..and some gay guys only fuck and some dont..so does this make them not gay???
u say labels are important..well if thats case and he plays with men and women..erm...sorry hes NOT straight then |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you enjoy giving oral then you are bi...simple.
But I don't think it is. We used to put John as bisexual but he doesn't do anal and some assumed he did. In fact another thread about bi men / couples shows some people avoid bi men because they assume no means they indulge in anal activity and all the increased risks associated with that. So these labels are kind of important to us.
just because he doesnt have anal, dont mean he isnt bisexual. if guy plays with both men and women they are bisexual.
there are actualy Gay guys who dont do anal..and some gay guys only fuck and some dont..so does this make them not gay???
u say labels are important..well if thats case and he plays with men and women..erm...sorry hes NOT straight then"
Our profile says bicurious as some people view that as bi oral. Yes fully aware my man is NOT straight thank you. I think I figured that while we've been sharing cocks over the years..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The ignorance of some people in here of the way sexual diseases are spread is truly gobsmackingly worrying!!
Virtually EVERY sexual disease can b spread via vagina,anal or oral
You only have to observe the statistics of 3rd world African countries where women have contracted HIV thro vaginal intercourse n nothing to do with anal activity or bi men
Talk about folks with the blinkers on ugh. Heterosexuals are just as 'at risk ' as ANY other sexual subculture!! All it takes is having unprotected sex with an infected person. END OF |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you enjoy giving oral then you are bi...simple.
But I don't think it is. We used to put John as bisexual but he doesn't do anal and some assumed he did. In fact another thread about bi men / couples shows some people avoid bi men because they assume no means they indulge in anal activity and all the increased risks associated with that. So these labels are kind of important to us.
just because he doesnt have anal, dont mean he isnt bisexual. if guy plays with both men and women they are bisexual.
there are actualy Gay guys who dont do anal..and some gay guys only fuck and some dont..so does this make them not gay???
u say labels are important..well if thats case and he plays with men and women..erm...sorry hes NOT straight then
Our profile says bicurious as some people view that as bi oral. Yes fully aware my man is NOT straight thank you. I think I figured that while we've been sharing cocks over the years....."
so u just answered your own question then..hes BISEXUAL curious is when not had cock hahaha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If you enjoy giving oral then you are bi...simple.
But I don't think it is. We used to put John as bisexual but he doesn't do anal and some assumed he did. In fact another thread about bi men / couples shows some people avoid bi men because they assume no means they indulge in anal activity and all the increased risks associated with that. So these labels are kind of important to us.
just because he doesnt have anal, dont mean he isnt bisexual. if guy plays with both men and women they are bisexual.
there are actualy Gay guys who dont do anal..and some gay guys only fuck and some dont..so does this make them not gay???
u say labels are important..well if thats case and he plays with men and women..erm...sorry hes NOT straight then"
I agree with you on that one even if he sucks or likes sucking ar anything else to us that is Bi! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The ignorance of some people in here of the way sexual diseases are spread is truly gobsmackingly worrying!!
Virtually EVERY sexual disease can b spread via vagina,anal or oral
You only have to observe the statistics of 3rd world African countries where women have contracted HIV thro vaginal intercourse n nothing to do with anal activity or bi men
Talk about folks with the blinkers on ugh. Heterosexuals are just as 'at risk ' as ANY other sexual subculture!! All it takes is having unprotected sex with an infected person. END OF "
But there are groups that are viewed as higher risk. Yes in theory if you have sex in whatever form you are just as at risk as anyone else who does, but there are some groups like gay or sex workers who are statistically in higher risk groups. Anyone who gives blood gets asked if they in these groups / or at least they used to years ago when I gave myself. If you were in these groups you were declined. Now are you saying that the NHS turn donations away because they are ignorant? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The ignorance of some people in here of the way sexual diseases are spread is truly gobsmackingly worrying!!
Virtually EVERY sexual disease can b spread via vagina,anal or oral
You only have to observe the statistics of 3rd world African countries where women have contracted HIV thro vaginal intercourse n nothing to do with anal activity or bi men
Talk about folks with the blinkers on ugh. Heterosexuals are just as 'at risk ' as ANY other sexual subculture!! All it takes is having unprotected sex with an infected person. END OF
But there are groups that are viewed as higher risk. Yes in theory if you have sex in whatever form you are just as at risk as anyone else who does, but there are some groups like gay or sex workers who are statistically in higher risk groups. Anyone who gives blood gets asked if they in these groups / or at least they used to years ago when I gave myself. If you were in these groups you were declined. Now are you saying that the NHS turn donations away because they are ignorant?"
Anyone who has sex unprotected or not is at risk of various things how many times do you hear I was in the pill and used condoms but still fell pregnant never mind anything else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Which is the whole point of the thread isn't it the confusion!
In the past we have put John as bisexual. People have then assumed he did anal sex.
Now we put bicurious because some people say that is bi oral.
Everyone interpreted these labels to mean different things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The ignorance of some people in here of the way sexual diseases are spread is truly gobsmackingly worrying!!
Virtually EVERY sexual disease can b spread via vagina,anal or oral
You only have to observe the statistics of 3rd world African countries where women have contracted HIV thro vaginal intercourse n nothing to do with anal activity or bi men
Talk about folks with the blinkers on ugh. Heterosexuals are just as 'at risk ' as ANY other sexual subculture!! All it takes is having unprotected sex with an infected person. END OF
But there are groups that are viewed as higher risk. Yes in theory if you have sex in whatever form you are just as at risk as anyone else who does, but there are some groups like gay or sex workers who are statistically in higher risk groups. Anyone who gives blood gets asked if they in these groups / or at least they used to years ago when I gave myself. If you were in these groups you were declined. Now are you saying that the NHS turn donations away because they are ignorant?"
HIGHEST RISK GROUP are people who have multiple partners - therefore all if us on here who have frequent meets n with 'new ' partners should consider ourselves a high risk group |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The ignorance of some people in here of the way sexual diseases are spread is truly gobsmackingly worrying!!
Virtually EVERY sexual disease can b spread via vagina,anal or oral
You only have to observe the statistics of 3rd world African countries where women have contracted HIV thro vaginal intercourse n nothing to do with anal activity or bi men
Talk about folks with the blinkers on ugh. Heterosexuals are just as 'at risk ' as ANY other sexual subculture!! All it takes is having unprotected sex with an infected person. END OF
But there are groups that are viewed as higher risk. Yes in theory if you have sex in whatever form you are just as at risk as anyone else who does, but there are some groups like gay or sex workers who are statistically in higher risk groups. Anyone who gives blood gets asked if they in these groups / or at least they used to years ago when I gave myself. If you were in these groups you were declined. Now are you saying that the NHS turn donations away because they are ignorant? Anyone who has sex unprotected or not is at risk of various things how many times do you hear I was in the pill and used condoms but still fell pregnant never mind anything else. "
Yes of course we all are. That's what I said. But the fact remains some of us and I'm putting both myself and John as examples are in higher risk categories. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There's an easy solution to this anyway. Bi is too ambiguous. I suggest as far as guys are concerned you're either a cocksucker or a bottombandit. Ladies can be Girlygropers if they just like a bit of kissing and fondling or full on rugmunchers.
Me and John would be rugmuncher and cocksucker then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There's an easy solution to this anyway. Bi is too ambiguous. I suggest as far as guys are concerned you're either a cocksucker or a bottombandit. Ladies can be Girlygropers if they just like a bit of kissing and fondling or full on rugmunchers.
Me and John would be rugmuncher and cocksucker then. "
Hahahahahaha very witty |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No it's still not right. I was assuming the bottombandits would automatically be cocksuckers. But I've just seen a profile where the guy has done anal but never oral!! Back to the drawing board again doh! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The ignorance of some people in here of the way sexual diseases are spread is truly gobsmackingly worrying!!
Virtually EVERY sexual disease can b spread via vagina,anal or oral
You only have to observe the statistics of 3rd world African countries where women have contracted HIV thro vaginal intercourse n nothing to do with anal activity or bi men
Talk about folks with the blinkers on ugh. Heterosexuals are just as 'at risk ' as ANY other sexual subculture!! All it takes is having unprotected sex with an infected person. END OF "
In answer to the op, everyone sees labels differently. There is no definitive answer. Best way is to ask people. Or describe what you do and don't do on your profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The ignorance of some people in here of the way sexual diseases are spread is truly gobsmackingly worrying!!
Virtually EVERY sexual disease can b spread via vagina,anal or oral
You only have to observe the statistics of 3rd world African countries where women have contracted HIV thro vaginal intercourse n nothing to do with anal activity or bi men
Talk about folks with the blinkers on ugh. Heterosexuals are just as 'at risk ' as ANY other sexual subculture!! All it takes is having unprotected sex with an infected person. END OF
But there are groups that are viewed as higher risk. Yes in theory if you have sex in whatever form you are just as at risk as anyone else who does, but there are some groups like gay or sex workers who are statistically in higher risk groups. Anyone who gives blood gets asked if they in these groups / or at least they used to years ago when I gave myself. If you were in these groups you were declined. Now are you saying that the NHS turn donations away because they are ignorant?"
In my opinion, statistics are useless. The statistic is 50/50, simple as that. The other person has an std.... Or they don't.
Assuming that a straight woman is 'safe' because she isn't in an at risk group (according to skewed statistics!) well....   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well there's always going to be the unlucky person who loses their virginity to a person who has only had one sexual partner themselves and uses condoms but they still get a std.
But the blood service have to try to identify the groups in some way to make their output more productive, I totally get that.
I was surprised to read that they won't accept men who have done oral with condoms until 12 months have passed |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We both class ourselves as bi, well past the curious stage,F is fully bi and loves taking the ladies all the way to orgasm and recieve the same,unlike some ladies who just seem to play a bit just to'fluff up' there partner.M is orally bi no anal at all and it states that on our profile,
Although we won't play one on one with same sex,have been told that makes us curious,but each to there own views. |
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