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1st club experience.. Single man
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Morning all... I have my 1st club event on 30th april in cosham.. Greedy girls
Dont know what to expect or how to initiate something
How does it work in the clubs and what are the do's and donts
Do you just join in or wait and sit about to be invited |
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How to initiate? The same way you would in a regular pub or club, just with, probably, less clothes on. Just because it's a Greedy Girls event, it doesn't mean it's going to be "free for all", unless that's the style of the event, the kind that previous poster described (though I guess that's very rare). |
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Also, a lot is going to depend on the kind of club it is. Cosham doesn't ring a bell to me but that doesn't mean much as I have not been to every single club in UK. But because I never visited, or even heard about it, I am unable to give club specific advice. I'd check any FAQs/website for the club, and maybe, if there is club chat group available, ask questions there |
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"I think for me its not knowing how to act or what to do as being my 1st i dont wanna fuck up my chances lol"
Imagine you're on your own at a friends wedding reception (weird take on things granted), act as you would do there. Be polite, courteous and engaging. Talk to people and have zero expectations of sex, treat it as social networking and people will appreciate the good ettiquette and be more engaging back to you and hopefully lead to more. |
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"I think for me its not knowing how to act or what to do as being my 1st i dont wanna fuck up my chances lol"
Treat it the same as a normal night out. Chat to people, talk to them like human beings not pieces of meat, be engaging, funny, flirty but not pushy or overly sexual from the off. Don't stare at people aggressively or follow them round (I've had this and it does nothing except make me feel intimidated and turn me off) |
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OP; I’ve never been to a GG event (although I plan to very soon  ), so I’ll be interested to hear how you get on?
I’ve been to several clubs as a solo guy, and while 90% of those experiences were less than positive, going to an event where solo guys are actually welcome, is probably a better idea.
If you’ve never been to a swinger club before, don’t build it up in your head beforehand! You’re more likely to be underwhelmed when you actually get in there, it’s really not much different to going to a new pub or bar you know nobody at, only there will be less clothing on display…. 
As with any club, or club event, it all comes down to WHO is there when you are, and how friendly/attentive the hosts are of course….
Hope you have a great time!  |
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By *teve321Man 3 weeks ago
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I'd say go there not expecting anything to happen, but to engage with conversation and see how the night pans out...if anything does happen, that's a bonus...but remember the golden rule..no means no.... |
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Go with no expectations of playing. Just because it’s a gg event doesn’t mean you’re guaranteed anything.
Be sociable, friendly and chatty.
Dress to impress and I hope you have a great time.
Donna
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"Not got a website. Thinks its an event at a couples house with multiple rooms "
The rules are going to be different than in a club, and there may be some grey areas. Hope you're not going to get stung by the entry fees as I have seen forum posts about men being invited to gang bangs/greedy girls parties and asked to pay extortionate amount of money for it. With long lines of men waiting to fuck lady/ladies. But it may be nothing like that. |
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