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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey there folks, I don't know if this thread has been done to death, if so...apologies!
When you meet somebody from this site or any other, would it bother you if they had a job or not?(not including disabilities/illnesses, just pure dole folks)
If so, why? And is it a turn off?
For me, If it was a one off meet I guess I wouldn't be really bothered, but if it was going to be someone I meet regularly I'd rather they'd be employed so it wasn't me paying for everything like I have done in the past. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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same views as you. ive worked hard in the past.. took 3yrs out and now back in work.
i felt like i had to prove to people in those 3yrs that i wasnt a scrounger and i had self worth. i saved up if i wanted to go places. i was never the type to tag along for a free ride.
even though i felt like that when i wasnt working id still prefer a man to have genuine ambition and drive. the desire to want to work.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why would job or no job play any part in meeting up for NSA sex for a few hours unless you're having to give them bus fare?
I would image that something like employment would matter if you were looking to strike up a friendship / relationship with someone?
When did employment status and financial liquidity become a make/break issue in the lifestyle? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well funnily enough some people do come on here for a fuck buddy etc etc, not everyone comes on this site for NSA for a few hours and fucks off home.
Some yes, but not all.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It wouldn't bother me if someone had a job or not unless they expected me to pay for everything. But the same goes for someone that had a high paying job. I go halves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ive survived being on the dole for ages and had a good successful lot of meets(not just in and out shags lol)..rarely do i discuss work past/future when opn meets as we are too busy NOT talking about work...so we have stuck to the FUN
fair enough , might not be able to wine n dine too much..but I dont and never have use the site like that..which works for me and those I meet
Now that Iam working I can get around more, however...I wont really change how I meet cos Ive a few more quid |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im not working at the moment but wouldn't ever expect anyone to pay my way nor would I want them to. Dont spend that much anyway so always have it just can't afford to drive while im not working.  |
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