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By *hallas OP   Man 2 weeks ago

do you care?

This may cause people to get knickers in a twist however it's not meant to .

Do TV'S/TS put more effort into looking good than most women?

I'd imagine that to get dressed to go out it must be a military operation planned meticulously ensure that everything looks perfect.

I'm not saying women don't make the effort far from it but just based on most TVs you see on here they really make the effort to look great.

Btw

Both parties are beautiful xx

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By *oveToPlay.Couple 2 weeks ago

Yorkshire

I think you answered your own question 🤔

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By *icecouple561Couple 2 weeks ago
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East Sussex

I imagine that one will need to make more effort than the other for reasons that are obvious.

For myself I rub myself down with a copy of the Sporting Life, spray myself liberally with Estée Lauder Youth Dew and hope for the best.

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By *_Mia_XTV/TS 2 weeks ago

Ilkeston

I disagree that one would put more effort in

I would say however it does take a lot especially if someone who isnt on HRT or had some sort of medical transition to “pass” (yes i know some dont want to or aim to and no im not saying medical transition is the only way). As unfortunately masculine features are hard to deal with for some i know for me my gender dysphoria was insane about my body.

Before i started my transition i always went for makeup, nails done and focused on trying really hard to be perceived more as feminine. But as my transition progresses ive found more comfort in how i look and how my body is changing too. I dont feel the need to have to put layers of make up on if i dont want to and go through the excessive routines and as my journey progressed i learnt less is more as its really easy to fall into the trap of looking too made up if that makes sense.

Plus then theres the whole enjoyment of tucking! (That is always very fun 😭😭)

By no means can i comment on what a cis persons routine may be as i unfortunately dont live that life (as much as it would be amazing too!)

Everyone is beautiful in there own ways 🥰

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman 2 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I can't really answer the question but I've met some stunning tvs in better lingerie than me. I wouldn't say they were better but I would think it takes them longer to get ready

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 2 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

It depends entirely on the person.

There are women who value comfort and practicality over aesthetics. And there are both women and T girls who really do make an effort, whether just for photos, or meets, or just as an everyday thing.

The people who are looking to enhance their femininity and put the effort in are the people you're thinking of. And those born with more masculine features who need to put extra work in to get there will do so if that's an aesthetic they value.

There are plenty of CDs who just chuck on a cheap nylon wig and some laddered tights and call it a day.

If you're more attracted to T girls than women (and it's not about the penis), then that's likely related to the sort of women who happen to casually exist around you on a day to day basis Vs the sort of tgirls you actively seek online in a selection of photos they've curated specifically to look their best.

Some of us women make an effort too 💜

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By *onus!Man 2 weeks ago

Bath

I’ve known some pretty high maintenance women…

I guess it depends on on the individual and what look they’re aiming for in that day, right? (says a man who lives in blissful ignorance)

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By *lowupdollTV/TS 2 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

Don’t thinks it’s contentious, just a perspective.

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By *ellinever70Woman 2 weeks ago

Ayrshire

By effort, do you mean really glammed up...make up, hair, outfit?

If women, or others don't go for this look, is it perceived they've made no effort or don't care?

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By *orphia2003Woman 2 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

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By *orphia2003Woman 2 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

As an occasional cross dresser, I can assure you I put far more time and effort into my male side. Orpheus takes at least 90 mins to get ready (apply stubble, strap chest, soft pack, make up to change features, 3 piece suit and formal polished shoes)

Morphia takes 20 mins.

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