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I’m a bit of a cold fish, I forget about whatever it was/is that broke my heart pretty damned quickly. I can’t be arsed with all that crying malarkey.
It/they become a distance memory in very short order. |
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"I’m a bit of a cold fish, I forget about whatever it was/is that broke my heart pretty damned quickly. I can’t be arsed with all that crying malarkey.
It/they become a distance memory in very short order. "
Same for me, took exactly three weeks for me to get over the end of my marriage. |
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"Time and masturbation. Or finding someone new to fuck. Or lots of new people.
(This is not an offer.)
Ya fuck her best m8 or get a massive loan and pretend uve won the lottery her loss m8
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I took 2 of her best mates at different times to quest and fucked a third |
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I get introspective and examine mistakes made and choices on my part.
A lot of the time I conclude I shouldn't have indulged in the first place.
Ideally, therapy would be useful to iron out childhood issues and avoid repeating patterns. (For me.) |
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chalk it up to life experience and take the knowledge from that as an advantage ... one door shuts more doors present themselves going forward in life ..
its a frame of mind if you choose to allow yourself to be mournful for too long over things that have passed / happened .
Choose going forwards in life its much better than dwelling on the past  |
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By *a LunaWoman 1 week ago
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Depends on the reason for the heartbreak.
Romantic heartbreak? Have a good cry, listen to sad songs, cry some more, indulge in self pitying behaviour for a bit, then start playing strong women music (like Lizzo!) and raise yourself (and your broken heart) from those ashes like a majestic phoenix and fly high once more!
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"Time and masturbation. Or finding someone new to fuck. Or lots of new people.
(This is not an offer.)"
That's actually a good one too unfortunately you can't do that 24/7
Clean your phone of reminders...photos, messages, delete phone numbers, calender reminders.... |
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Crying is such a useful response. It turns out the body creates different tears for different reasons. The ones for upset contain diferrent chemicals than those for something in your eye. So if you feel the need to cry, lean into it.
Also music. I didn't feel like eating when I was heartbroken. I lost a stone in three weeks 😬 |
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We all come into this world through pain, and it is pain not happiness which build us. Why does anyone need to ‘get over it’? Feel it. Sit with it. It is building you and you will be a new, bigger version of yourself when it subsides |
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I never get over it. Even when I instigated it. I leave a piece of myself in every one and take a piece with me. But hold no grudge and cherish what you had.
That's why it's easier to engage here than in the vanilla world.
Be happy with yourself always. |
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"Crying is such a useful response. It turns out the body creates different tears for different reasons. The ones for upset contain diferrent chemicals than those for something in your eye. So if you feel the need to cry, lean into it.
Also music. I didn't feel like eating when I was heartbroken. I lost a stone in three weeks 😬"
Same 🤣
One benefit at least 🙄 |
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Thank goodness he's poly and non committal. I'm sure they will all rally round. It's hard to know someone we all know is in dreadful dreadful pain. "
It's really hard to read tone on the internet. I hope this was sincere as he's really hurting right now. |
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Thank goodness he's poly and non committal. I'm sure they will all rally round. It's hard to know someone we all know is in dreadful dreadful pain.
It's really hard to read tone on the internet. I hope this was sincere as he's really hurting right now. "
You know, I know and like Pickles … our friendship was a slow burner but I really grew to like him a lot.
I am truly flabbergasted at the comments that some forumites who are popular on here and apparently who always come up as “kind” and “nice” are making -such passive aggressive comments. I am truly gobsmacked. |
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Thank goodness he's poly and non committal. I'm sure they will all rally round. It's hard to know someone we all know is in dreadful dreadful pain.
It's really hard to read tone on the internet. I hope this was sincere as he's really hurting right now.
You know, I know and like Pickles … our friendship was a slow burner but I really grew to like him a lot.
I am truly flabbergasted at the comments that some forumites who are popular on here and apparently who always come up as “kind” and “nice” are making -such passive aggressive comments. I am truly gobsmacked. "
🫶 Agreed! 👏 Frankly, I haven't known how to articulate it. Maybe I shouldn't be, because it's Fab, but I am shocked. |
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Thank goodness he's poly and non committal. I'm sure they will all rally round. It's hard to know someone we all know is in dreadful dreadful pain.
It's really hard to read tone on the internet. I hope this was sincere as he's really hurting right now.
You know, I know and like Pickles … our friendship was a slow burner but I really grew to like him a lot.
I am truly flabbergasted at the comments that some forumites who are popular on here and apparently who always come up as “kind” and “nice” are making -such passive aggressive comments. I am truly gobsmacked.
🫶 Agreed! 👏 Frankly, I haven't known how to articulate it. Maybe I shouldn't be, because it's Fab, but I am shocked."
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