"Just wandering if its our looks or if its because we are not full swap.
Just looking for bi fem within a couple, We know its not for everyone.
Thanks
Rockchick x"
You look great so it’s definitely not that I’d say it’s what your looking for that will take time also maybe include some pictures of your partner for a couples profile |
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"What do you want the man in the other couple to do while you are soft swinging with his partner ?"
We had kind of a similar thing a few years ago.
Met a couple ( no longer on here)
Who wanted a couple with a bi gem, but the hubby wanted to join in but I wasn't allowed to and only wanted to meet up as a couple.
So yeah basically I was expected to sit in the corner twiddling my thumbs whilst they had a good old time AND they wanted us to pay for the hotel!!! |
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The profile is a weird combination of talking about yourselves in the 1st and 3rd person. Makes it look a little suspect despite the verifications.
People will also wonder why there are no photos of him if you are a couple.
Oh and the 'fab is a publicly traded entity' shite is a filter for some people so maybe lose that too |
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Op it's nothing to do with how you look nor the type of play your into..
It's the scenario as others have rightly said which will limit the pool of other couples who want that too..
As Doughman said maybe look for a bi fem..
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You look fantastic in your pics - stunning figure.
Not having pics of Mr on your profile would mean that we’d walk on by so maybe others think like us too.
If we are all going in a room together to get naked, we’d want to see each person regardless of who was playing together.
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Hi op, not all couples will just want girl on girl fun, followed by play with their own partner only. So yes, I think that will be impacting your chances.
You're leaving one partner out really for a bit, so unless they really get off on watching 2 fems, it probably won't appeal.
As someone else said, why not look for a woman to join you, that way you'd all be involved. |
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Hmmmmmmmm the women seem to be doing an awful lot .....
Soft swap = touchy feely the other bloke
F on F = All the stuff with another Fem - men sit it out.
M on F = has to be back with your own partner.
Seems to me the bi fem bit is always for male entertainment ...
How about the women get it on and orgasm all night in a private room..... sounds a better deal to me.
I don't think you are doing anything wrong - Just not offering much at all except for a bi woman who woman who wants sex with another woman and we don't need men for that. |
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