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By *S74 OP   Man 4 weeks ago

Bury

So there’s a lass I first met 20 odd years ago has popped up on my FB feed (not spoken to her for years) and people you may know- she’s single and thinking of messaging her but very rusty on the etiquette of this.

Erring on the side of an unsolicited message is going to come across as creepy so not done it, but had a thing for her years ago.

So asking the fab massive should i let it slide or give it a go and if yes- how so?

If this was fabs/tind/Bumb id not give it a second thought but as stated vanilla is a very different thing.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan 4 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

If it takes a man in his 50s to tell a man in his 40s to message and say "Hi, how are you?" We are all fucked.

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By *inkyLips2.0Woman 4 weeks ago

Debauchery

I think you should go for it, it’s that old cliche life’s to short. There is nothing creepy about showing your interest

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By *issmorganWoman 4 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Hi, I don't think theres any harm in saying hi & seeing how it goes op.

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By *vaRose43Woman 4 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

“Hi, you popped up on my people you may know list! How the devil are you?”

There you go OP feel free to copy it as you wish

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By *allySlinkyWoman 4 weeks ago

Leeds

If she popped up on who you might know you must have a friend in common so maybe you could mention them ?

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By *ai Hard 2 - Dai HarderMan 4 weeks ago

Manchester / Cardiff

Your best moments will come from taking the risks you thought you were scared to take...

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple 4 weeks ago

Swansea

I think a generic message as suggested above is suitable. By taking this approach the worst that can happen is the chat remains an exchange of pleasantries and a nice stroll down memory lane, which is nice.

Mrs

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By *S74 OP   Man 4 weeks ago

Bury

Thank you all for constructive responses, was just a bit vulnerable last night after grinding all week as usual and coming home late to a still and empty house with no one to interact with.

Weirdly risks are something Ive never shied away from but maybe best to pick and choose those risks to aim for more reward.

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By *icecouple561Couple 4 weeks ago
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East Sussex


"Thank you all for constructive responses, was just a bit vulnerable last night after grinding all week as usual and coming home late to a still and empty house with no one to interact with.

Weirdly risks are something Ive never shied away from but maybe best to pick and choose those risks to aim for more reward."

No harm in asking.

Are you going to contact the person? A friend of mine had a relationship with a guy she contacted after around 25 years in the old Friends Reunited days

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By *S74 OP   Man 4 weeks ago

Bury

Might do later, will update

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By *icecouple561Couple 4 weeks ago
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East Sussex


"Might do later, will update "

Go for it. Just keep it light and casual and don't set too much store by it

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By *ron100Man 4 weeks ago

leyland

Send her a dick pic m8👍

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By *S74 OP   Man 4 weeks ago

Bury

First thing i did

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By *ron100Man 4 weeks ago

leyland

🤣🤣🤣

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