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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"dont u think its exciting cheeting a little"
Not in the slightest! Only causes pain and destruction...if you respect someone and love someone that is not something you would do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Couldn't imagine the guilt I would feel if I was to start that kind of nonsense, relationships are no good once they've been tainted with lies and deciept. My hubby and I are best friends we don't have jealousy issues so no need to keep things from eachother.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The whole point of swinging whether as a couple or single surely is to be open and honest - that should be the foundation of any good swinging relationship.
If you are looking for cheaters perhaps you should try the extra marital sites, there are plenty of them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love it when guys message me asking to meet alone and 'he' won't find out about it. The stupidity of messaging a couple account really makes me laugh.
My OH has responded on a few occasions to the 'do you meet alone' question and readily agreed to meet them. It's only when they ask what filthy things are gonna happen, and my OH informs them exactly where he's gonna take them, that we find we are blocked. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love it when guys message me asking to meet alone and 'he' won't find out about it. The stupidity of messaging a couple account really makes me laugh.
My OH has responded on a few occasions to the 'do you meet alone' question and readily agreed to meet them. It's only when they ask what filthy things are gonna happen, and my OH informs them exactly where he's gonna take them, that we find we are blocked. "
Yeah done that before!  |
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"ur probly wright but i have to cheet is that bad"
No one "has to" do anything: a gun isn't being held against your head! You choose to, which is entirely your choice, but please, why the need to seek allies in support of your duplicity?!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ur probly wright but i have to cheet is that bad
No one "has to" do anything: a gun isn't being held against your head! You choose to, which is entirely your choice, but please, why the need to seek allies in support of your duplicity?!! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ur all making me feel really bad my wife cheets so y can i"
How do you know your wife cheats?
So what is good for the goose is good for the gander?
I would rather be single than in a relationship based on lies and deceit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"wow im getting a battering about this may be i should lie and say im single"
No problem being honest and saying you are married but you seem to seek approval of your extra martial affairs.
Why not just separate and do what you want? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ur all making me feel really bad my wife cheets so y can i"
That would suggest that there is something seriously wrong/lacking in your relationship - maybe you should focus on fixing it or going your separate ways - two wrongs don't make a right and if you weren't together neither of you would have to cheat! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yes she wont devorse me cos of kids and buisiness ess so im stuck ste says if i leave she will make me pennyless"
Maybe it is time then to move on, cut your losses and be happy! She can't stop you seeing the kids! |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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I have no objection to married men/women cheating on here...
But to ask an open forum for people to tell their cheating little secrets and ask if they get excited about cheating...
"She is doing it so why cant I"?...
Please!!! WTF did the OP expect?? |
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"ur all making me feel really bad my wife cheets so y can i
That would suggest that there is something seriously wrong/lacking in your relationship - maybe you should focus on fixing it or going your separate ways - two wrongs don't make a right and if you weren't together neither of you would have to cheat! "
exactly what I was going to say. R |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If she cheats and you have evidence of her doing so, and you refrain from cheating, then you would have the upper hand and grounds for a divorce in your favour, just need a good lawyer.  |
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"I have no objection to married men/women cheating on here...
But to ask an open forum for people to tell their cheating little secrets and ask if they get excited about cheating...
"She is doing it so why cant I"?...
Please!!! WTF did the OP expect??"
Exactly! Not my business if they cheat, I don't meet them, and I'd never start a thread demonising cheats, but why they feel the need to whine about their lot and seek justification is beyond me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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op, cheating is nothing to do with swinging they are 2 very different things, there are plenty extra marital affair sites out there that condone this selfish wrong behavour, but this is a swinging site cheating has no place here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yes she wont devorse me cos of kids and buisiness ess so im stuck ste says if i leave she will make me pennyless"
I am in this situation , both me and ex live in same house to bring kids up . BUT we both agreed that we could play with others and so we are not cheating . We have got to stage where he looks after children while I go out and vice versa . It's complicated but can be done with massive talking . We can't afford to live separately with 5 kids and sell house etc .
Talk to your wife , suggest open marriage so that she is free to play as well , with or without you .
It takes so much stress away when you are being " unfaithful" and both can have fun and live in same house to bring children up . Sounds daunting , agreements don't happen overnight and I always tell him I won't leave one domestic disaster for another 
Also if you can agree that neither will leave family home until kids are grown then in my situation it is win win ...
But you need to talk to your wife and be open with her about your needs x
Jan x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i bet most nawty women on here have loads of secret moment that there partner doesnt know about xx"
We have a couples profile that we both use. He knows I have my own profile but he doesn't know the name of it.
Sometimes I tell him who I've met... Sometimes I don't..... |
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