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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I said no to one man who had complimented me so nicely
He then replied
' you shouldn't show pictures of your saggy boobs and you may get more fucks'
Damn wish I hadn't said no now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I said no to one man who had complimented me so nicely
He then replied
' you shouldn't show pictures of your saggy boobs and you may get more fucks'
Damn wish I hadn't said no now "
If I rephrase my message, will you say yes this time....  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I said no to one man who had complimented me so nicely
He then replied
' you shouldn't show pictures of your saggy boobs and you may get more fucks'
Damn wish I hadn't said no now
If I rephrase my message, will you say yes this time.... "
Put please in their too lol |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"It's funny that folks message you then when they don't get the response they wanted from you then turn it around saying we were too "hot" to play with you anyway
Oh please "
How very dare you turn them down!!
I don't get many of these messages luckily. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I said no to one man who had complimented me so nicely
He then replied
' you shouldn't show pictures of your saggy boobs and you may get more fucks'
Damn wish I hadn't said no now
If I rephrase my message, will you say yes this time.... "
NO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Pah |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I said no to one man who had complimented me so nicely
He then replied
' you shouldn't show pictures of your saggy boobs and you may get more fucks'
Damn wish I hadn't said no now
If I rephrase my message, will you say yes this time....
Put please in their too lol"
Some men JUST don't get it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I said no to one man who had complimented me so nicely
He then replied
' you shouldn't show pictures of your saggy boobs and you may get more fucks'
Damn wish I hadn't said no now "
Bet he would've been a great meet (not) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After I said no yesterday i was told I 'was hardly Miss Fab' lol
same guy the messaged today, I said no again and was called a 'spunk bucket'
Damn...missed out on quite a catch there then lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I said no to one man who had complimented me so nicely
He then replied
' you shouldn't show pictures of your saggy boobs and you may get more fucks'
Damn wish I hadn't said no now
If I rephrase my message, will you say yes this time....
Put please in their too lol"
Ok... Please dont show pictures with saggy boobs....   |
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some people don't handle rejection well do they
On another site I was once referred to as a "ginger pensioner" because I wouldn't chat privately with a guy.
What made me laugh the most is that he thought "ginger" was an insult. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I said no to one man who had complimented me so nicely
He then replied
' you shouldn't show pictures of your saggy boobs and you may get more fucks'
Damn wish I hadn't said no now
Bet he would've been a great meet (not)"
He would have been awesome - Im sure he told me that too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I said no to one man who had complimented me so nicely
He then replied
' you shouldn't show pictures of your saggy boobs and you may get more fucks'
Damn wish I hadn't said no now
If I rephrase my message, will you say yes this time....
NO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Pah "
But I can breathe through my ears.... Honest...
Ho hum.... Your loss....  |
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"lol I've had a few 'your loss' but I've survived "
lol ! yes heard that afew times .never could get my head round how saying no to something you dont want is any loss lol !
as for being a slag or slapper when turn them down ..errmm if anyone was a slag or slapper theyd not turning any offer down pmsl !! doh! gotta love the dummy spitter logic hehe! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I said no to one man who had complimented me so nicely
He then replied
' you shouldn't show pictures of your saggy boobs and you may get more fucks'
Damn wish I hadn't said no now
If I rephrase my message, will you say yes this time....
NO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Pah
But I can breathe through my ears.... Honest...
Ho hum.... Your loss.... "
Ill live with it Im sure |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just convince myself that any woman who doesn't want to meet me is a lesbian.
Makes the two dozen rejections I receive every day a lot easier to handle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Guys rarely get a chance to call me anything after being turned down the block button normally follows that way we know that there will be no further contact with someone we're not interested in and saves their time messaging again a week later. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On the other hand:
I have had women who I have initiated contact with, messaged for a bit etc suddenly accuse me of not finding them attractive...is odd. "
Ah thats a womans mind
They want you to reassure them that they are - complex weird creature we are |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I said no to one man who had complimented me so nicely
He then replied
' you shouldn't show pictures of your saggy boobs and you may get more fucks' to
Damn wish I hadn't said no now
Bet he would've been a great meet (not)
He would have been awesome - Im sure he told me that too "
Probably the best you could've had lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I said no to one man who had complimented me so nicely
He then replied
' you shouldn't show pictures of your saggy boobs and you may get more fucks'
Damn wish I hadn't said no now
If I rephrase my message, will you say yes this time....
Put please in their too lol
Ok... Please dont show pictures with saggy boobs.... "
The saggy boobs are hot this season |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd be happy with a reply lol. I don't send one liner messages, always attach a picture, the odd one I give my number to, yet only one has replied, and in all honesty she had the personality of sloth.
Maybe I'm not hot enough for anyone to want to play with? Hahahahahahahaha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I just convince myself that any woman who doesn't want to meet me is a lesbian.
Makes the two dozen rejections I receive every day a lot easier to handle."
I'd let you off for that
I'd be your lesbian anyway swoon |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I said no to one man who had complimented me so nicely
He then replied
' you shouldn't show pictures of your saggy boobs and you may get more fucks' to
Damn wish I hadn't said no now
Bet he would've been a great meet (not)
He would have been awesome - Im sure he told me that too
Probably the best you could've had lol"
I know I know lol ... he blocked me too so no way I can beg him to reconsider my saggy boobs |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd be happy with a reply lol. I don't send one liner messages, always attach a picture, the odd one I give my number to, yet only one has replied, and in all honesty she had the personality of sloth.
Maybe I'm not hot enough for anyone to want to play with? Hahahahahahahaha "
What's a personality of a sloth lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I said no to one man who had complimented me so nicely
He then replied
' you shouldn't show pictures of your saggy boobs and you may get more fucks'
Damn wish I hadn't said no now
If I rephrase my message, will you say yes this time....
Put please in their too lol
Ok... Please dont show pictures with saggy boobs....
The saggy boobs are hot this season "
Woooot !!! Im hot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've always thought things like that were a bit of an urban legend on FAB - the sort of thing that people hyperbolise when then tell other people about it - but after having started to read the forums...
Do some single guys really respond like that when they get turned down?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I said no to one man who had complimented me so nicely
He then replied
' you shouldn't show pictures of your saggy boobs and you may get more fucks' to
Damn wish I hadn't said no now
Bet he would've been a great meet (not)
He would have been awesome - Im sure he told me that too
Probably the best you could've had lol
I know I know lol ... he blocked me too so no way I can beg him to reconsider my saggy boobs "
Oh well his loss |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've always thought things like that were a bit of an urban legend on FAB - the sort of thing that people hyperbolise when then tell other people about it - but after having started to read the forums...
Do some single guys really respond like that when they get turned down? "
YES !!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd be happy with a reply lol. I don't send one liner messages, always attach a picture, the odd one I give my number to, yet only one has replied, and in all honesty she had the personality of sloth.
Maybe I'm not hot enough for anyone to want to play with? Hahahahahahahaha
What's a personality of a sloth lol"
No conversation, pretty lazy with every replys, seemed a bit brain dead TBH. If you could see the messages back and forth it was pretty much a one side conversation, lol.
As for the rest I'm not pushy so if I don't get a reply or my message gets deleted I just move on. No point hounding or name calling I'll leave that for the Sleazy McCheesy types. Hahahaha
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was told by a guy I turned down that I look like a bloke who has had a sex change op ...... reply, yep and you want to fuck me so what does that say about you - BLOCK! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I said no to one man who had complimented me so nicely
He then replied
' you shouldn't show pictures of your saggy boobs and you may get more fucks' to
Damn wish I hadn't said no now
Bet he would've been a great meet (not)
He would have been awesome - Im sure he told me that too
Probably the best you could've had lol
I know I know lol ... he blocked me too so no way I can beg him to reconsider my saggy boobs
Oh well his loss "
 damn right my saggy boobs are awesome |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I said no to one man who had complimented me so nicely
He then replied
' you shouldn't show pictures of your saggy boobs and you may get more fucks' to
Damn wish I hadn't said no now
Bet he would've been a great meet (not)
He would have been awesome - Im sure he told me that too
Probably the best you could've had lol
I know I know lol ... he blocked me too so no way I can beg him to reconsider my saggy boobs
Oh well his loss
damn right my saggy boobs are awesome"
You tell em girl lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was told by a guy I turned down that I look like a bloke who has had a sex change op ...... reply, yep and you want to fuck me so what does that say about you - BLOCK! "
nice answer! |
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"Oh yes I get this from single guys.
"Shame, I would have given you the best fuck you've ever had"
Okkkkkk"
I'd reply the best fuck you can give me is to fuck off 
I get way anxious showing my face pic... Im not exactly an Angelina Jolie lmao |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh yes I get this from single guys.
"Shame, I would have given you the best fuck you've ever had"
Okkkkkk
I'd reply the best fuck you can give me is to fuck off
I get way anxious showing my face pic... Im not exactly an Angelina Jolie lmao"
Will be stealing that one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've always thought things like that were a bit of an urban legend on FAB - the sort of thing that people hyperbolise when then tell other people about it - but after having started to read the forums...
Do some single guys really respond like that when they get turned down? "
A big YES!! One of the reasons some people block after sending a thanks but no thanks reply. It's not meant to be harsh. Just saves getting a load of abuse or the start of a negotiation. |
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"I said no to one man who had complimented me so nicely
He then replied
' you shouldn't show pictures of your saggy boobs and you may get more fucks'
Damn wish I hadn't said no now "
You should have been immensely grateful he even bothered to contact you. This is a swingers site and you should be commando and lubed up at all times. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i get called a slag/slapper when i turn guys down
Take it as a compliment, I love sluts and so do soo many more men hunni haha "
Last guy to call me a slut got kneaded in bollocks vile word |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i get called a slag/slapper when i turn guys down
Take it as a compliment, I love sluts and so do soo many more men hunni haha
Last guy to call me a slut got kneaded in bollocks vile word "
Ms |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've always thought things like that were a bit of an urban legend on FAB - the sort of thing that people hyperbolise when then tell other people about it - but after having started to read the forums...
Do some single guys really respond like that when they get turned down?
A big YES!! One of the reasons some people block after sending a thanks but no thanks reply. It's not meant to be harsh. Just saves getting a load of abuse or the start of a negotiation."
You send replies saying "no thanks" you must be one of the only women who reply even when not intreasted, good to see some on here are capable of being polite.
Why just block guys that are inconsiderate and respond poorly to rejection, can't you report them and have the ban hammer fall on their heads, save the next women having to deal with it and clear some space for the respectful lads. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do you know in all my time here I think it 4/5 years .. just had one nasty man ... it was because I was 5 miles away and would not meet and that was over 3/4 years ago ... x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Max, it's not considered impolite on here to not to reply to messages from people you're not interested in. See the FAQs or one of the many forum threads about it. Single ladies in particular get bombarded with messages on a daily basis. I saw a status update of a new female near me and she'd had 97 messages in 3 minutes! It's just impossible to reply to every single one so many just reply to the ones they're interested in. I always report an abusive message or one that breaks site rules such as offering money. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you know in all my time here I think it 4/5 years .. just had one nasty man ... it was because I was 5 miles away and would not meet and that was over 3/4 years ago ... x "
I've noticed from my own experiences that single ladies get far more abuse from men than mf couples do. Pleased you haven't had many nasty replies x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you know in all my time here I think it 4/5 years .. just had one nasty man ... it was because I was 5 miles away and would not meet and that was over 3/4 years ago ... x
I've noticed from my own experiences that single ladies get far more abuse from men than mf couples do. Pleased you haven't had many nasty replies x"
I get a lot of mail here and have not one in my bock list ... so maybe just lucky as I meet singles alone now and again .. so my mail box can go mad at times. Just happy don't get them . |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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My initial numpty filter means any messages without a joke in them get deleted and blocked - I think that's why my "thanks but no thanks" messages to guys/couples who have actually read my profile only ever get a thanks for replying type response...the only time I had a slightly dodgy response was a guy who didn't send a joke and when I relaxed my rules and sent back asking him to read the profile and try again, he said he didn't want to read War & Peace to get a shag - block list grew by one after that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Max, it's not considered impolite on here to not to reply to messages from people you're not interested in. See the FAQs or one of the many forum threads about it. Single ladies in particular get bombarded with messages on a daily basis. I saw a status update of a new female near me and she'd had 97 messages in 3 minutes! It's just impossible to reply to every single one so many just reply to the ones they're interested in. I always report an abusive message or one that breaks site rules such as offering money."
Sorry, I've never been one for excuses, lol. Only takes a second to say no thanks, think of how long it takes the guy to write a message (not the one liner types either) just to have it read and never replied to or just deleted, I understand some of the women get a lot of message put I'm also sure it pretty easy for you to see who has read your profile properly and taken the time to send a decent first message instead of just "wanna Fuck" LOL
Now if you instantly disregard a "wanna Fuck" message that's different, some guys are just TOOLS. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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someone I met for coffee ages ago who I said no thanks , then blocked , just sent me a text saying he got a parking fine in service car park and was peeved that he didn't get to shag me for the trouble  |
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So, is it not a guy's eternal right to get a meet from everyone he sends a message to? I think some women on here must be too uptight lol
Seriously, it never ceases to amaze me the way some guys react - ladies, you start a thread adding the responses you receive, no need to name and shame, just the content of the response. Call it enlightenment for male of the species.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So, is it not a guy's eternal right to get a meet from everyone he sends a message to? I think some women on here must be too uptight lol
Seriously, it never ceases to amaze me the way some guys react - ladies, you start a thread adding the responses you receive, no need to name and shame, just the content of the response. Call it enlightenment for male of the species.
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I recognise that torso |
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"So, is it not a guy's eternal right to get a meet from everyone he sends a message to? I think some women on here must be too uptight lol
Seriously, it never ceases to amaze me the way some guys react - ladies, you start a thread adding the responses you receive, no need to name and shame, just the content of the response. Call it enlightenment for male of the species.
I recognise that torso "
As long as its not from crimewatch!!
Guilty as charged though, it is I |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Haha, this whole thread genuinely baffles me! 
If you abuse a woman who's turned you down, especially if you're derogatory about her physical appearance, surely you're just making a fool of yourself for contacting her in the first place? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So, is it not a guy's eternal right to get a meet from everyone he sends a message to? I think some women on here must be too uptight lol
Seriously, it never ceases to amaze me the way some guys react - ladies, you start a thread adding the responses you receive, no need to name and shame, just the content of the response. Call it enlightenment for male of the species.
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Check the rules - posting of the content of messages is a big breach! |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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Yeap latest block for me (and I don't block that often) was sent a boring message about wanna chat?
So I responded along the lines of 'what about? (yes I was in a sarcastic mood) I then received 4 x cock pics, so I responded, you obviously have not read my profile, only to receive a heap of abuse along with the usual, 'this is a sex site you know', so guys, yes, there are some twats on here who think sending you a message entitles them to an instant shag |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've always thought things like that were a bit of an urban legend on FAB - the sort of thing that people hyperbolise when then tell other people about it - but after having started to read the forums...
Do some single guys really respond like that when they get turned down? "
Yep, which is why I stopped replying even with a 'thanks, but no thanks' type message...it was getting annoying. One of the best called me something along the lines of a fat, ugly, smelly slag...he blocked me when I asked how much he must have spent on a computer that could smell me. I was just curious as it could come in handy for vetting meets! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Blimey. Ya know, it wouldn't even occur to me to insult just because of a turndown.. Surely it just warrants an ex shrug and carry on?
I've had a few "no's", and one no that had me in giggles for the reason, but surely it's just good fab - karma to just understand it's a no, and you can't win em all!
Who knows, maybe one day I'll be powers flooded with requests from women, and I'll just have to be ruthless with the All Powerful No
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive been told I'm fat so should shag anything when I replied a polite no thanks and had a guy call me racist for again a polite no thanks, lol one day they will learn, lol "
Had that too...wasn't overly happy when I pointed out it had nothing to do with his race, just the fact he was 20yrs older than my age range, not what I see as attractive and about 80miles away! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeap latest block for me (and I don't block that often) was sent a boring message about wanna chat?
So I responded along the lines of 'what about? (yes I was in a sarcastic mood) I then received 4 x cock pics, so I responded, you obviously have not read my profile, only to receive a heap of abuse along with the usual, 'this is a sex site you know', so guys, yes, there are some twats on here who think sending you a message entitles them to an instant shag "
I was feeling a bit nostalgic then reading that. Answering 'hi' mails with 'hi', or basically just sticking to the same number of syllables that they used.
But then I remembered that's why I took myself off the searches... so I don't get mail like that anymore. Phew! |
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