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Does it exist anymore ?
Seriously - All that seems to get posted here is ....
How can I get her to :-
Let me shove it up her ass?
Force huge things up her gaping vag?
Take my nine inch fat cock in her throat till she gags , chokes and cries?
Tie her tits with cable ties till they go blue ?
Let six guys fuck her one after the other?
Fake fancying a woman for me ?
Do it with her sister ?
Does anyone here actually like pleasure or is everyone so jaded they need something nasty ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ahhh... But when some people say that they are looking for this... The consensus of replies is that this is an NSA site...
Me.... I love pleasurable leisureable....  |
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"Ahhh... But when some people say that they are looking for this... The consensus of replies is that this is an NSA site...
Me.... I love pleasurable leisureable.... "
Correct me if im wrong Euro .... N.S.A refers to ' don't get clingy' or ' I owe you nothing' or ' it's fuck and run time.'
N.S.A does not mean any act will be performed.
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over a year ago
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nicey nicey sex doesnt cut it for me..
if im honest id only ever do the sensual caring 'lurve making' stuff with someone i cared about.
the rampant lustful aggressive raw stuff i can emotionally detach from.
its my own issue that i cant do slow sensual without reading into it whats actually not there.. but thats why i dont do it and also have a 3 meet rule |
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Why does Swinging HAVE to be all about N.S.A? Why can't it be about finding good friends which whom to have great sex?
Why can't emotion play its part? Or Friendship. Or should everything be 'Fuck N Go' or its not swinging?
If you look up "Swinging" in the dictionary, you will find one of its definitions is "Contradictory states of Play"
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"nicey nicey sex doesnt cut it for me..
if im honest id only ever do the sensual caring 'lurve making' stuff with someone i cared about.
the rampant lustful aggressive raw stuff i can emotionally detach from.
its my own issue that i cant do slow sensual without reading into it whats actually not there.. but thats why i dont do it and also have a 3 meet rule"
I agree with everything you say except 'nicey nicey'
Sex without depravity doesn't have to be dull or slow. |
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"Why does Swinging HAVE to be all about N.S.A? Why can't it be about finding good friends which whom to have great sex?
Why can't emotion play its part? Or Friendship. Or should everything be 'Fuck N Go' or its not swinging?
If you look up "Swinging" in the dictionary, you will find one of its definitions is "Contradictory states of Play"
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Good point.... To my understanding swinging is supposedly an attitude or mind set toward sex... |
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over a year ago
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ive only ever had slow sensual encounters with men i had feelings for.. i enjoyed it and was probably the best but i think thats because strings were attached.
for me i doubt i could reach those heights of enjoyment without the emotional attachment and sexual chemistry. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do you have to be in Love to 'make love'?
One of my best ever meets was 8 hours of pure pleasurable slow and very orgasmic sex 
With me though it totally depends what mood I'm in. |
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"ive only ever had slow sensual encounters with men i had feelings for.. i enjoyed it and was probably the best but i think thats because strings were attached.
for me i doubt i could reach those heights of enjoyment without the emotional attachment and sexual chemistry."
I hear you and understand. We are still talking about two different things though.
I'm not talking about having feelings for someone. I'm talking about physical pleasure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ahhh... But when some people say that they are looking for this... The consensus of replies is that this is an NSA site...
Me.... I love pleasurable leisureable....
Correct me if im wrong Euro .... N.S.A refers to ' don't get clingy' or ' I owe you nothing' or ' it's fuck and run time.'
N.S.A does not mean any act will be performed.
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No correction required Granny.... (Unless you want me to...  )
NSA is as you say... And not about seeing how hard I can whip an arse crammed with aubergines....
Yet, I get the impression after years of residence in the lounge, that a number if forumites dont understand this.... And when someone comes on here looking for the type of leisurable sex, which I enjoy, there is a tendency in some replies to accuse the poster of being clingy... and to remind them that this is an NSA site.... As if NSA is only about a fast fuck and forget em....
Me.... Anyone who wants a hug, or some real physical contact, is preferable to an FFF...
I won't travel long distances for an emotionless shag, then drive home again...
For me there has to be a level of intimacy, even if it's only for the duration... Otherwise, I may as well peel one off the wrist, end save myself the expenses...
NSA can be leisurable and pleasurable... And I for one am all for it....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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sex is an education and im constantly learning and expanding.
it all depends on my mood. 90% of the time im having a pleasurable experience.. sometimes it might involve being spanked and getting a bruise and other times it might involve slow lingering kisses and crazy amounts of teasing.
i go through phases of what i crave.. used to love being choked and slapped round the face oh and even spat on. totally disrespected. recently ive changed and now i enjoy different things but i still get the same pleasure levels from the activities |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ahhh... But when some people say that they are looking for this... The consensus of replies is that this is an NSA site...
Me.... I love pleasurable leisureable....
Correct me if im wrong Euro .... N.S.A refers to ' don't get clingy' or ' I owe you nothing' or ' it's fuck and run time.'
N.S.A does not mean any act will be performed.
No correction required Granny.... (Unless you want me to... )
NSA is as you say... And not about seeing how hard I can whip an arse crammed with aubergines....
Yet, I get the impression after years of residence in the lounge, that a number if forumites dont understand this.... And when someone comes on here looking for the type of leisurable sex, which I enjoy, there is a tendency in some replies to accuse the poster of being clingy... and to remind them that this is an NSA site.... As if NSA is only about a fast fuck and forget em....
Me.... Anyone who wants a hug, or some real physical contact, is preferable to an FFF...
I won't travel long distances for an emotionless shag, then drive home again...
For me there has to be a level of intimacy, even if it's only for the duration... Otherwise, I may as well peel one off the wrist, end save myself the expenses...
NSA can be leisurable and pleasurable... And I for one am all for it.... "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you have to be in Love to 'make love'?
One of my best ever meets was 8 hours of pure pleasurable slow and very orgasmic sex
With me though it totally depends what mood I'm in."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How many aubergines ?
Enough to make moussaka afterwards.... Unless II have to leave straight away....
Yukkkkky  "
Recipe for moussaka...
1.... Wash aubergines.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you have to be in Love to 'make love'?
I believe so
I was in Love with my ex. But we hardly ever made Love "
Well I suppose in a relationship you do explore more and go from quickies to making love, oh and it has to be a two way thing...make love not war  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many aubergines ?
Enough to make moussaka afterwards.... Unless II have to leave straight away....
Yukkkkky
Recipe for moussaka...
1.... Wash aubergines.... "
But they have been up someones bottom  Remind me never to come to yours for Moussaka  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How many aubergines ?
Enough to make moussaka afterwards.... Unless II have to leave straight away....
Yukkkkky
Recipe for moussaka...
1.... Wash aubergines....
But they have been up someones bottom Remind me never to come to yours for Moussaka "
Not a pleasant thought at this time in the morning...or ever come to think of it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you have to be in Love to 'make love'?
I believe so
I was in Love with my ex. But we hardly ever made Love
Well I suppose in a relationship you do explore more and go from quickies to making love, oh and it has to be a two way thing...make love not war "
You mean he never loved me back  |
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"How many aubergines ?
Enough to make moussaka afterwards.... Unless II have to leave straight away....
Yukkkkky
Recipe for moussaka...
1.... Wash aubergines.... "
Correction !
1. Remove aubergines ( slowly for Granny ) Without any due care for CutenSassy ...
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you have to be in Love to 'make love'?
I believe so
I was in Love with my ex. But we hardly ever made Love
Well I suppose in a relationship you do explore more and go from quickies to making love, oh and it has to be a two way thing...make love not war
You mean he never loved me back "
You are better off now I'll love you back |
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"Do you have to be in Love to 'make love'?
I believe so
I was in Love with my ex. But we hardly ever made Love
Well I suppose in a relationship you do explore more and go from quickies to making love, oh and it has to be a two way thing...make love not war
You mean he never loved me back "
He said your arse was quite nice |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I take it that slow and pleasurable does not exclude some rampant almost animalistic rutting but have to agree with OP.
It is nice to take time, be saucy, not impolite. This impression people (me included till recently when a very nice lady asked us back because we were not pushy) have that porn films set the standard is wrong. Soft swing only couples could testify at this point.
The holistic approach of polite chat, great social, amazing first play meet and continued fun without anyone feeling pressure is hopefully what its about. The only caveat is that's what we like.
S
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"Do you have to be in Love to 'make love'?
I believe so
I was in Love with my ex. But we hardly ever made Love
Well I suppose in a relationship you do explore more and go from quickies to making love, oh and it has to be a two way thing...make love not war
You mean he never loved me back
He said your arse was quite nice"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you have to be in Love to 'make love'?
I believe so
I was in Love with my ex. But we hardly ever made Love
Well I suppose in a relationship you do explore more and go from quickies to making love, oh and it has to be a two way thing...make love not war
You mean he never loved me back
You are better off now I'll love you back "
But I might get clingy |
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"I take it that slow and pleasurable does not exclude some rampant almost animalistic rutting but have to agree with OP.
It is nice to take time, be saucy, not impolite. This impression people (me included till recently when a very nice lady asked us back because we were not pushy) have that porn films set the standard is wrong. Soft swing only couples could testify at this point.
The holistic approach of polite chat, great social, amazing first play meet and continued fun without anyone feeling pressure is hopefully what its about. The only caveat is that's what we like.
S
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Another good point. Why do so many 'let porn set the scene?'
Some porn sex isn't even recognisable as sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you have to be in Love to 'make love'?
I believe so
I was in Love with my ex. But we hardly ever made Love
Well I suppose in a relationship you do explore more and go from quickies to making love, oh and it has to be a two way thing...make love not war
You mean he never loved me back
You are better off now I'll love you back
But I might get clingy "
Awwwwwww |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I need to have some mental connection and physical attraction with the gent for the sex to be pleasurable.
However, emotional attachment is a completely different ball game.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you have to be in Love to 'make love'?
I believe so
I was in Love with my ex. But we hardly ever made Love
Well I suppose in a relationship you do explore more and go from quickies to making love, oh and it has to be a two way thing...make love not war
You mean he never loved me back
You are better off now I'll love you back
But I might get clingy "
Oh yes cling on tightly |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like my depravity with a level of intimacy I've never yet managed to find on here.
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it's possible... It's amazing... But sometimes I miss early morning long sessions xxx |
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"Yeah i like just normal sex and the intimacy of kisses and cuddles now and again the filthy stuff is a treat. "
Never knock the filthy stuff  but if it becomes commonplace.... where do we go then ?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I take it that slow and pleasurable does not exclude some rampant almost animalistic rutting but have to agree with OP.
It is nice to take time, be saucy, not impolite. This impression people (me included till recently when a very nice lady asked us back because we were not pushy) have that porn films set the standard is wrong. Soft swing only couples could testify at this point.
The holistic approach of polite chat, great social, amazing first play meet and continued fun without anyone feeling pressure is hopefully what its about. The only caveat is that's what we like.
S
Another good point. Why do so many 'let porn set the scene?'
Some porn sex isn't even recognisable as sex."
Worst message we received recently was, i quote "where does she want my juices?"
In a tissue next to your lonely bed did not in down well.
I do think single guys are pressured to perform by the movies they may watch.
Its always nice to be nice and if T wants it a bit different she will say. |
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"Do you have to be in Love to 'make love'?
I believe so
I was in Love with my ex. But we hardly ever made Love
Well I suppose in a relationship you do explore more and go from quickies to making love, oh and it has to be a two way thing...make love not war
You mean he never loved me back
You are better off now I'll love you back
But I might get clingy
Awwwwwww "
Well I like to hold on tight  |
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"Yeah i like just normal sex and the intimacy of kisses and cuddles now and again the filthy stuff is a treat.
Never knock the filthy stuff but if it becomes commonplace.... where do we go then ?
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see I do filth with most people... But cuddles and intimacy are reserved for the elite. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Does it exist anymore ?
Seriously - All that seems to get posted here is ....
How can I get her to :-
Let me shove it up her ass?
Force huge things up her gaping vag?
Take my nine inch fat cock in her throat till she gags , chokes and cries?
Tie her tits with cable ties till they go blue ?
Let six guys fuck her one after the other?
Fake fancying a woman for me ?
Do it with her sister ?
Does anyone here actually like pleasure or is everyone so jaded they need something nasty ?"
I think this is what a lot of people think they should be on here for. I doubt very much this is what they do every meet.
I have a FB for passionate, languid, all-afternoon-into-evening sex. I've known him for years so it took us a while to get to that stage. Most of my others meets are to relieve horniness, and I don't need an 8 hour session to do that every time. Its nice, but it would be like eating lobster every day. Sometimes beans is all that is needed. |
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"How many aubergines ?
Enough to make moussaka afterwards.... Unless II have to leave straight away....
Yukkkkky
Recipe for moussaka...
1.... Wash aubergines....
But they have been up someones bottom Remind me never to come to yours for Moussaka "
Oh dear... Best not offer you my carrot and parsnip soup...
And as for the banana split.... |
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We have had some nice slow and sensuous meets, not many mind!
We had a meet with a single guy who had obviously been watching to much porn he got asked to stop doing what he was doing or leave!
Also we have had some mind blowing sensual slow passionate sex!
So no it's not all about banging away! |
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By *avindaWoman
over a year ago
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"Why does Swinging HAVE to be all about N.S.A? Why can't it be about finding good friends which whom to have great sex?
Why can't emotion play its part? Or Friendship. Or should everything be 'Fuck N Go' or its not swinging?
If you look up "Swinging" in the dictionary, you will find one of its definitions is "Contradictory states of Play"
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l totally agree with this post. For me, its because they are good friends that the sex is so good |
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"How many aubergines ?
Enough to make moussaka afterwards.... Unless II have to leave straight away....
Yukkkkky
Recipe for moussaka...
1.... Wash aubergines....
But they have been up someone's bottom Remind me never to come to yours for Moussaka
Oh dear... Best not offer you my carrot and parsnip soup...
And as for the banana split.... "
Ha ha I'm a Carnivore |
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"Why does Swinging HAVE to be all about N.S.A? Why can't it be about finding good friends which whom to have great sex?
Why can't emotion play its part? Or Friendship. Or should everything be 'Fuck N Go' or its not swinging?
If you look up "Swinging" in the dictionary, you will find one of its definitions is "Contradictory states of Play"
l totally agree with this post. For me, its because they are good friends that the sex is so good"
I have a particular good friend that I would love to have sex with, but its never going to happen.
And, for choice, I would always go for long, sensual, sensitive sex with lots of kissing, touching, massaging, eye contact etc. Not into the hard stuff. |
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"How many aubergines ?
Enough to make moussaka afterwards.... Unless II have to leave straight away....
Yukkkkky
Recipe for moussaka...
1.... Wash aubergines....
But they have been up someone's bottom Remind me never to come to yours for Moussaka
Oh dear... Best not offer you my carrot and parsnip soup...
And as for the banana split....
Ha ha I'm a Carnivore "
Toad in the hole anyone...? |
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That what I like about Fab. The diversity of people and subjects.
I prefer quality over quantity and don't meet much, so its never about wham bam sex. Its about making friends and having fun too. And that leads to overnighters or weekends away |
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"ive only ever had slow sensual encounters with men i had feelings for.. i enjoyed it and was probably the best but i think thats because strings were attached.
for me i doubt i could reach those heights of enjoyment without the emotional attachment and sexual chemistry."
I know what you mean.
I've only ever felt "complete" after having sex with my husband. Even boyfriends haven't hit that spot.
Whilst I enjoy strap on play etc playing with a group of people in a club setting, or one on one in a jacuzzi while others watch wouldn't do it for me either.
Therefore: horses for courses really. |
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"Does it exist anymore ?
Seriously - All that seems to get posted here is ....
How can I get her to :-
Let me shove it up her ass?
Force huge things up her gaping vag?
Take my nine inch fat cock in her throat till she gags , chokes and cries?
Tie her tits with cable ties till they go blue ?
Let six guys fuck her one after the other?
Fake fancying a woman for me ?
Do it with her sister ?
Does anyone here actually like pleasure or is everyone so jaded they need something nasty ?"
Cable ties on tits, hey Granny that is serious hardcore, we must be relatively vanilla cos we have only used cords leaves computer , goes to shed... digs out cable ties for next time |
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Gentle intimacy, is for Jay only, i can get the darker side of me complete from the guys on here.
Dirty, filthy sex can be just as fulfilling, plus i only do certain things with guys i know and trust. Also someone can be a right filty shag and still remain completely respectful.
To be honest i strugge with those that want intimacy (because i dont understand it) if they want then i cant see why they wouldn find a partner |
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"Gentle intimacy, is for Jay only, i can get the darker side of me complete from the guys on here.
Dirty, filthy sex can be just as fulfilling, plus i only do certain things with guys i know and trust. Also someone can be a right filty shag and still remain completely respectful.
To be honest i strugge with those that want intimacy (because i dont understand it) if they want then i cant see why they wouldn find a partner"
I did have a Husband for 24 years. And if was looking for a Partner I would leave Fab. The best thing about being on here and being selective who I meet is I don't have to cook their Dinner or wash their socks and I see them when I want |
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I agree there does seem to be more aggressive sex wanted, harder, faster, squirting, fisting, pinching, spanking, bruising. I regularly see new words on the forum describing quite violent sexual acts ie, sounding (I think), sticking metal rods down the penis.
Its either fantasy and people feeling they have to outdo each other with more bizarre things or I'm just boring. I am definitely a soft and sensual type rather than all this forceful stuff. |
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It’s interesting, the idea that squirting, fisting, pinching, spanking and what are perceived to be the ‘harder’ edge of sexual practices may be viewed as more aggressive.
Fisting (for example) is something that isn’t brutal – unless you WANT it to be. Fisting can feelings and sensations of such sexual pleasure that it strips away the layers and becomes an emotionally charged sexual experience – and when it’s over and the real world comes rushing in, often that emotion is raw and untamed, and in those moments you need to be held and to feel that connectedness to another human being. Often that goes for the fister, as well as the fistee. |
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"Why does Swinging HAVE to be all about N.S.A? Why can't it be about finding good friends which whom to have great sex?
Why can't emotion play its part? Or Friendship. Or should everything be 'Fuck N Go' or its not swinging?
If you look up "Swinging" in the dictionary, you will find one of its definitions is "Contradictory states of Play"
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"It’s interesting, the idea that squirting, fisting, pinching, spanking and what are perceived to be the ‘harder’ edge of sexual practices may be viewed as more aggressive.
Fisting (for example) is something that isn’t brutal – unless you WANT it to be. Fisting can feelings and sensations of such sexual pleasure that it strips away the layers and becomes an emotionally charged sexual experience – and when it’s over and the real world comes rushing in, often that emotion is raw and untamed, and in those moments you
need to be held and to feel that connectedness to another human being. Often that goes for the fister, as well as the fistee."
Or it could just be that someone wants to go that bit further, when fingers just aren't enough anymore, what will outdo the fist, sticking your head up there.
Admittedly I just don't get the fascination with extremes |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Following on from some similar replys I enjoy variety with couples and singles. Some meets are full on hardcore rumpy pumpy and that's what all parties have wanted... However, some meets with people where trust and bonding has developed over time has lead me to mix up sessions between sensual, passionate fun and hard to kinky fun with a twist or two..
It makes for satisfying pleasures for all.. |
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