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I quite often get fabbed by some bi lad far away from my location, so I assume I'm on his hotlist?
Do you have any people who will reliably fab, wink or message you, despite being nowhere near you?
Or are there people in the forum flirting with you so hard that you're convinced they must have hotlisted you too? |
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My on/off person (who usually sees them before I post them online!) always fabs my pics within 30 minutes of me uploading them 
There are a couple of local men who are regular with it too. Not sure I've noticed anyone from the forums who's on it with my pics. |
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By *uacksplat.Woman 7 hours ago
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"Nobody on the forum has me hotlisted.
But a few random men do consistently show my pics and videos love. "
well you're on my hotlist... does that mean im not allowed on the forum anymore? 😫 Px |
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"Nobody on the forum has me hotlisted.
But a few random men do consistently show my pics and videos love. "
I highly doubt that no one in the forum has you hotlisted, you are one of the forum stars
And no one lifts other men up like the gay/bi men on this site  |
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"Nobody on the forum has me hotlisted.
But a few random men do consistently show my pics and videos love.
well you're on my hotlist... does that mean im not allowed on the forum anymore? 😫 Px "
Ok I didn’t expect that 
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"My on/off person (who usually sees them before I post them online!) always fabs my pics within 30 minutes of me uploading them
There are a couple of local men who are regular with it too. Not sure I've noticed anyone from the forums who's on it with my pics."
It's good to show appreciation with fabs, especially if that person has given you the early access preview! |
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By *eliWoman 7 hours ago
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I don't think anyone does. And that's not in a woe is me kind of way, it's more realistic - I'm not looking for anything, my photos are sporadically updated and my status updates are normally me horndogging.
Probably Dave the Trucker's, if I had to say someone. |
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"Nobody on the forum has me hotlisted.
But a few random men do consistently show my pics and videos love.
I highly doubt that no one in the forum has you hotlisted, you are one of the forum stars
And no one lifts other men up like the gay/bi men on this site "
People like my threads but don’t think I’m hot
But yes, gay/bi men are the real mvps |
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"I quite often get fabbed by some bi lad far away from my location, so I assume I'm on his hotlist?
Do you have any people who will reliably fab, wink or message you, despite being nowhere near you?
That's a no
Or are there people in the forum flirting with you so hard that you're convinced they must have hotlisted you too?"
And that's a no as well. |
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"Nobody on the forum has me hotlisted.
But a few random men do consistently show my pics and videos love.
well you're on my hotlist... does that mean im not allowed on the forum anymore? 😫 Px
Ok I didn’t expect that
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Haha, see I told you  |
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"I wish fab would show who has me in their hotlist 
If they did that, women would never hotlist anyone because of the torrent of messages from guys assuming they want to fuck them"
Accurate.
I've had torrents of messages from guys when I fat fingered my phone and accidentally looked at their profile (before I knew hiding my views was a thing).
Some guys think even looking at a profile is a guaranteed shag. |
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"I don't think anyone does. And that's not in a woe is me kind of way, it's more realistic - I'm not looking for anything, my photos are sporadically updated and my status updates are normally me horndogging.
Probably Dave the Trucker's, if I had to say someone."
Come on Meli, you're not fooling anyone. You're a forum star, your erotic writing is unmatched and you've got huge cannons. You're on a ton of hotlists! |
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There’s a couple of guys who have stuck with my profile ever since I made it. They’re the most consistent men in my life. Never speaking, only liking my pictures. One’s in Scotland and one is East Midlands so could literally be anywhere in the world. Love you guys! (I have no idea if they read the forums or not. But if they do ♥️) |
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"Nobody on the forum has me hotlisted.
But a few random men do consistently show my pics and videos love.
I highly doubt that no one in the forum has you hotlisted, you are one of the forum stars
And no one lifts other men up like the gay/bi men on this site
People like my threads but don’t think I’m hot
But yes, gay/bi men are the real mvps "
They quietly work away behind the scenes, showing appreciation to profiles who have them blocked from messaging, tirelessly fabbing just in case our sexual preferences change one day. I respect the hustle. |
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"I quite often get fabbed by some bi lad far away from my location, so I assume I'm on his hotlist?
Do you have any people who will reliably fab, wink or message you, despite being nowhere near you?
That's a no
Or are there people in the forum flirting with you so hard that you're convinced they must have hotlisted you too?
And that's a no as well."
With those abs, you're definitely on some hotlists. I think most ladies here play it stealth and don't like to show their hand |
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"I wish fab would show who has me in their hotlist
If they did that, women would never hotlist anyone because of the torrent of messages from guys assuming they want to fuck them
Accurate.
I've had torrents of messages from guys when I fat fingered my phone and accidentally looked at their profile (before I knew hiding my views was a thing).
Some guys think even looking at a profile is a guaranteed shag."
In my early, clueless days on fab, I used to message women who looked at my profile I've since learned to see it for what it really means: nothing |
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By *zeroMan 7 hours ago
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I get the occasional fab from people I am friends with but regular fabs on photos and videos are too far and wide to notice if I'm on anyone's hotlist.
To be honest I probablt don't update my status or upload stuff enough. |
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"There’s a couple of guys who have stuck with my profile ever since I made it. They’re the most consistent men in my life. Never speaking, only liking my pictures. One’s in Scotland and one is East Midlands so could literally be anywhere in the world. Love you guys! (I have no idea if they read the forums or not. But if they do ♥️)"
This is the most wholesome thing I've seen on the forum in a long time |
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"I wish fab would show who has me in their hotlist
If they did that, women would never hotlist anyone because of the torrent of messages from guys assuming they want to fuck them
Accurate.
I've had torrents of messages from guys when I fat fingered my phone and accidentally looked at their profile (before I knew hiding my views was a thing).
Some guys think even looking at a profile is a guaranteed shag.
In my early, clueless days on fab, I used to message women who looked at my profile I've since learned to see it for what it really means: nothing"
I'm not bothered by the first message on the basis of looking. It's the second, fifth, tenth, and the presumption that I now owe them |
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We have a regular crowd that fab our pics as soon as they go on so maybe on their hotlist. No one from our friends list or the forums fab our pics (or maybe occasionally).
It’s nice we are on peoples hotlist - we’d like to add the hot people on our hotlist to friends.
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"No ones.. I don't really understand the need for it."
It's so you can save a profile for later when you don't have time to craft an incredible message, then forget about them for 6 months, then when you do go to message them they've left the site, hidden their profile or blocked you for a lame status you added when d*unk.
What's not to get? |
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"I would think not because who would add me, but I was at a club event yesterday and a random couple complimented my pics on here, so maybe I'm on theirs"
That's actually quite impressive. Your pics and username were memorable enough to someone for a real life compliment. Nice work! |
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"Nobody on the forum has me hotlisted.
But a few random men do consistently show my pics and videos love.
well you're on my hotlist... does that mean im not allowed on the forum anymore? 😫 Px
Ok I didn’t expect that
Haha, see I told you "
Quack is just a flirt |
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"We've not posted pictures in a while now but I was always nosey and checked who fabbed them and quite a few names always did. Forum people and non forum people. They clearly have good taste  "
Forumites are known for our impeccable taste |
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"We have a regular crowd that fab our pics as soon as they go on so maybe on their hotlist. No one from our friends list or the forums fab our pics (or maybe occasionally).
It’s nice we are on peoples hotlist - we’d like to add the hot people on our hotlist to friends.
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Maybe if you update your status saying as much, they will emerge from the shadows to claim their reward? |
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By *eliWoman 7 hours ago
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"I don't think anyone does. And that's not in a woe is me kind of way, it's more realistic - I'm not looking for anything, my photos are sporadically updated and my status updates are normally me horndogging.
Probably Dave the Trucker's, if I had to say someone.
Come on Meli, you're not fooling anyone. You're a forum star, your erotic writing is unmatched and you've got huge cannons. You're on a ton of hotlists!"
Oh Phil you're so very lovely. Not (only) because you've thoroughly massaged my insufferable ego but because you're making the time to actually reply to people and lift them up a little. I hope that you're on the hotlist of every woman you'd like to lose yourself in. 🩷 |
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"I don't think anyone does. And that's not in a woe is me kind of way, it's more realistic - I'm not looking for anything, my photos are sporadically updated and my status updates are normally me horndogging.
Probably Dave the Trucker's, if I had to say someone."
You are on mine Meli, not in expectation of anything other than the hope of a new pic. |
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"I don't think anyone does. And that's not in a woe is me kind of way, it's more realistic - I'm not looking for anything, my photos are sporadically updated and my status updates are normally me horndogging.
Probably Dave the Trucker's, if I had to say someone.
Come on Meli, you're not fooling anyone. You're a forum star, your erotic writing is unmatched and you've got huge cannons. You're on a ton of hotlists!
Oh Phil you're so very lovely. Not (only) because you've thoroughly massaged my insufferable ego but because you're making the time to actually reply to people and lift them up a little. I hope that you're on the hotlist of every woman you'd like to lose yourself in. 🩷"
I am genuinely touched by the fact that I commented on someone's "huge cannons" on the forum and they responded positively. Maybe there is a god  |
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From the posters here, Midnight, Meli, Miss Bella and Swingdress are on mine. Not because there’s I have any chance of meeting them, but because they’re interesting, cool (or hot, whatever the term is) and I want to know what they have to say. The occasional photo is the cherry on a pretty awesome cake. |
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"Can’t imagne lm on anyones lol
Maybe someone can surprise me… 
In the USA in the 1940s, a chicken once lived for 18 months without a head. I bet that suprised you!"
That’s nothing, in 2025 they put one in charge at the white house |
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"Can’t imagne lm on anyones lol
Maybe someone can surprise me…
In the USA in the 1940s, a chicken once lived for 18 months without a head. I bet that suprised you!
That’s nothing, in 2025 they put one in charge at the white house "
Nah, if so the price of eggs might have actually dropped in the USA, as promised |
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"No ones.. I don't really understand the need for it.
It's so you can save a profile for later when you don't have time to craft an incredible message, then forget about them for 6 months, then when you do go to message them they've left the site, hidden their profile or blocked you for a lame status you added when d*unk.
What's not to get?"
I get it, but think it's pointless. I guess we all have different opinions |
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Some people on my friend's list will generally Fab my pics. If it's for a photo challenge then other taking part will also Fab them. If anyone is willing to confess that I'm on their hotlist then I wouldn't be adverse to that |
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"Have no idea if we’re on anyone’s list. It’s rare we upload new photos, and when we do, the only people who fab them are the people we’re friends with. It could be anyone or no one  "
You were put on ours last night |
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Well all my pictures are awful and i rarely add new ones, so i very much doubt I've got any, or maybe a few men. If anybody can help me take more flattering pictures it would be appreciated.
I've got a few people on mine (mainly woman and couples) who i think upload amazing pictures, or i would love to get to know better, but i rarely message any of them as worried they'll block me and i wont get to see them anymore lol |
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There's a few here in mine, a few I'm lucky enough to be friends with too. As for me being on others hotlist, all depends on my frame of mind; some days I think "I bet I am and why aren't they messaging", other days I reckon I'm invisible!! |
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I've got lots of people on my hotlist. I add them if I really enjoy their photos/videos, cam in the chatroom or their banter in chat.
I'd like to think I'm on a few people's hotlists for similar reasons. If not it doesn't matter I have some great fab friends. |
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