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Do you ever look at "Who's looked at me"...
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"And wonder how they made it to your profile?
Verifications? Forum posts? They seem the obvious ones but some people I just see and I wonder how they managed to come across my profile 🤔"
I've often wondered this. I'm often tempted to message and ask how they found me.
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By *inderbox10Man 2 weeks ago
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"I like seeing who looked and do wonder how they found us. Sometimes I’ll look at their profile if they look interesting. "
..... and you have an aesthetically very pleasing profile and picture portfolio.. ✅✅ |
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The only part of the site I use is the forums so if someone looks at me I assume it's as a result of something I say here and yet when I look at who looked, I don't recognise any of them as forum contributors. |
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"And wonder how they made it to your profile?
Verifications? Forum posts? They seem the obvious ones but some people I just see and I wonder how they managed to come across my profile 🤔"
Yes I do and if I find them attractive I message/wink them. I have actually met quite a few women like that.
I do ask the women why didn't you message me ? And the replies are always the same "I was nervous!" |
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By *andTWoman 2 weeks ago
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"And wonder how they made it to your profile?
Verifications? Forum posts? They seem the obvious ones but some people I just see and I wonder how they managed to come across my profile 🤔"
Makes for a good read when passing the time |
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"The only part of the site I use is the forums so if someone looks at me I assume it's as a result of something I say here and yet when I look at who looked, I don't recognise any of them as forum contributors."
Suspect alot of people browse but never join in. I'm like that sometimes. Depends if I've got anything to say or not lol |
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"I quite often wonder why i get multiple views from some people where i clearly don't fit what they say they're after - like straight guys.. "
If it’s a couple account, there is definitely a chance the male is the one looking, doesn’t want to accept that yet |
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"And wonder how they made it to your profile?
Verifications? Forum posts? They seem the obvious ones but some people I just see and I wonder how they managed to come across my profile 🤔"
I'm just incredibly sexy |
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Yeah i glance through them.
Good thing too, thought I got ghosted mast week mid convo, but the guy logged out accidentally and couldn't remember his password. Admin closed the account and he created a new one. Reached out in his status |
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"I quite often wonder why i get multiple views from some people where i clearly don't fit what they say they're after - like straight guys..
If it’s a couple account, there is definitely a chance the male is the one looking, doesn’t want to accept that yet "
Usually just men. Rarely get couples or females view, unless they're all in stealth mode lol |
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"I quite often wonder why i get multiple views from some people where i clearly don't fit what they say they're after - like straight guys..
If it’s a couple account, there is definitely a chance the male is the one looking, doesn’t want to accept that yet
Usually just men. Rarely get couples or females view, unless they're all in stealth mode lol"
In that case you’ve definitely caught their eye, but they’re too scared to admit that  |
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"I quite often wonder why i get multiple views from some people where i clearly don't fit what they say they're after - like straight guys..
If it’s a couple account, there is definitely a chance the male is the one looking, doesn’t want to accept that yet
Usually just men. Rarely get couples or females view, unless they're all in stealth mode lol
In that case you’ve definitely caught their eye, but they’re too scared to admit that "
Think they might need a visit to specsavers then.... 😂😂 |
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Yeah I do check. It's rare and and catchers my attention. It's something to know I don't get totally ignored, even if it is mostly men. Mostly when I've posted a rare new pic. Even more flattering if one gets fab'ed, even if that's strictly men. |
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Far more men than women or couples.
Not sure if it’s just because there are more guys on fab than females or couples or just that I’m more appealing to gay guys and they see a straight guy as a challenge.
It has to be via forums.
People on fab seem to like window shopping. |
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"The only part of the site I use is the forums so if someone looks at me I assume it's as a result of something I say here and yet when I look at who looked, I don't recognise any of them as forum contributors."
Exaclty the same! But also relate to the comment that a new veri triggers a whole run of 'looked at yous' from that neck of the woods! |
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Always checked when I was a site supporter but it was generally always men looking.
Had two views today but obviously don't have a clue who... Which is bugging me enough to consider being a site supporter again 🤦🏻♂️🤣 |
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That's always where I start. They do usually seem to follow forum posts and most of them are obviously not looking to meet as they are either hundreds of miles away or I'm outside their age range. So just curious, I guess. |
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I have a quick run through for anything that looks a bit suss. I have an ex that likes to stalk me on here, under different profiles.
But it's always interesting when someone from miles away without any obvious link, views you when you haven't posted a new status, or added pictures / videos etc.
Who are you and where the fuck did you find me?!  |
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"Always check, interesting if it’s locally and you possibly know them lol x
That would literally be my worst nightmare  "
Our faces are on here and we’re pretty open about it so it happens a lot lol |
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It's hard not to look. The tally stares you straight in the face because it's on my default screen when I first log in.
I don't look at all the people who look at me but most are from the forums or those who have looked after I've posted a status update.
I am (pleasantly) bewildered by those who are from Ireland and Scotland, looking at my profile, wondering what on earth brought them here. |
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"It's hard not to look. The tally stares you straight in the face because it's on my default screen when I first log in.
I don't look at all the people who look at me but most are from the forums or those who have looked after I've posted a status update.
I am (pleasantly) bewildered by those who are from Ireland and Scotland, looking at my profile, wondering what on earth brought them here."
Because you pop up in the Irish forum silly billy |
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"It's hard not to look. The tally stares you straight in the face because it's on my default screen when I first log in.
I don't look at all the people who look at me but most are from the forums or those who have looked after I've posted a status update.
I am (pleasantly) bewildered by those who are from Ireland and Scotland, looking at my profile, wondering what on earth brought them here.
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Because you pop up in the Irish forum silly billy"
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You keep looking at my profile but your never message me. 🙂↕️ |
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"I have a quick run through for anything that looks a bit suss. I have an ex that likes to stalk me on here, under different profiles.
But it's always interesting when someone from miles away without any obvious link, views you when you haven't posted a new status, or added pictures / videos etc.
Who are you and where the fuck did you find me?! "
Sorry to hear that 😕 but I get what you mean about the views where there's no obvious link. That's set of what inspired the thread  |
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"It's hard not to look. The tally stares you straight in the face because it's on my default screen when I first log in.
I don't look at all the people who look at me but most are from the forums or those who have looked after I've posted a status update.
I am (pleasantly) bewildered by those who are from Ireland and Scotland, looking at my profile, wondering what on earth brought them here.
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Because you pop up in the Irish forum silly billy
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You keep looking at my profile but your never message me. 🙂↕️"
Nu uh I don't pay site supporter anymore so I'm a 🥷 now......👀 |
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"It's hard not to look. The tally stares you straight in the face because it's on my default screen when I first log in.
I don't look at all the people who look at me but most are from the forums or those who have looked after I've posted a status update.
I am (pleasantly) bewildered by those who are from Ireland and Scotland, looking at my profile, wondering what on earth brought them here.
Because you pop up in the Irish forum silly billy"
But I once contributed to the Australia forums abd no one from Australia has viewed me 🤔😭 |
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"It's hard not to look. The tally stares you straight in the face because it's on my default screen when I first log in.
I don't look at all the people who look at me but most are from the forums or those who have looked after I've posted a status update.
I am (pleasantly) bewildered by those who are from Ireland and Scotland, looking at my profile, wondering what on earth brought them here.
Because you pop up in the Irish forum silly billy
But I once contributed to the Australia forums abd no one from Australia has viewed me 🤔😭"
You should write a strongly worded letter.....to who I don't know, but someone |
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"It's hard not to look. The tally stares you straight in the face because it's on my default screen when I first log in.
I don't look at all the people who look at me but most are from the forums or those who have looked after I've posted a status update.
I am (pleasantly) bewildered by those who are from Ireland and Scotland, looking at my profile, wondering what on earth brought them here.
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Because you pop up in the Irish forum silly billy
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You keep looking at my profile but your never message me. 🙂↕️
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Nu uh I don't pay site supporter anymore so I'm a 🥷 now......👀"
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I'll email you instead. xx |
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"It's hard not to look. The tally stares you straight in the face because it's on my default screen when I first log in.
I don't look at all the people who look at me but most are from the forums or those who have looked after I've posted a status update.
I am (pleasantly) bewildered by those who are from Ireland and Scotland, looking at my profile, wondering what on earth brought them here.
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Because you pop up in the Irish forum silly billy
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You keep looking at my profile but your never message me. 🙂↕️
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Nu uh I don't pay site supporter anymore so I'm a 🥷 now......👀
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I'll email you instead. xx"
I'm not going to say what I want to because I'll be in trouble again🤣🤣 |
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By *fffunCouple 2 weeks ago
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Before we went on cam when we first joined hardley had any views, but now I know most of our views are from during cam either when we on together or me on my own. Saying that on my non cam days I have been loitering these forums esp thr games ones they keep me entertained , and I've had views followed on from that. If the profile pic grabs our attention we view to see if we are after the same thing, possibly leading to more...although That 'more' has yet to happen.  |
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"I have a quick run through for anything that looks a bit suss. I have an ex that likes to stalk me on here, under different profiles.
But it's always interesting when someone from miles away without any obvious link, views you when you haven't posted a new status, or added pictures / videos etc.
Who are you and where the fuck did you find me?!
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Sorry to hear that 😕 but I get what you mean about the views where there's no obvious link. That's set of what inspired the thread "
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There's always a link or a provenance...via forums (a topic, a thread, a swipe left/right game, etc), a tailored search, a local search from your home vicinity, a 'local' search when you're travelling, an "x degrees of separation" when looking at verifications and then the verifications of those who are giving them and verifications received and so forth...
Or something like that anyway. |
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