"Like it when a man goes down without being asked"
It all depends on what you're saying, if people have met before or are a regular l wouldn't imagine that would be the case but if only meeting for the 1st time..it all depends on the situation & those involved .. |
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I don't think it's a permission thing, per se, unless the woman has explicitly asked for this to be omitted from sex for whatever reason (which is totally fine).
In my experience things have been discussed quite early on, in regards to preferences or any sexual nuances, but I don't recall ever having to ask or be asked during foreplay because in the heat of the moment things occur naturally and instinctively when in the throes of passion.
If I have to ask then clearly I've chosen the wrong playmate (unless we're discussing something really unique like sex in a wardrobe with a feather duster!). |
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By *elloWoman 2 weeks ago
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"Like it when a man goes down without being asked"
Oh my god no! I'm paranoid about freshness, is my landscaping on fleck, are there any pimples, which knickers am I wearing etc.
If you want to go down on me then I need time to prepare and check, especially with a mirror, if you're going eye to bush with my body then I want to check what you're going to be faced with before you do. Please give me at least 5 minutes warning.
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"I don't think it's a permission thing, per se, unless the woman has explicitly asked for this to be omitted from sex for whatever reason (which is totally fine).
In my experience things have been discussed quite early on, in regards to preferences or any sexual nuances, but I don't recall ever having to ask or be asked during foreplay because in the heat of the moment things occur naturally and instinctively when in the throes of passion.
If I have to ask then clearly I've chosen the wrong playmate (unless we're discussing something really unique like sex in a wardrobe with a feather duster!)."
This ^^. Can’t remember ever asking or being asked in the heat of the moment |
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I do like when people head that way of their own volition.
But I don't particularly like people going down on me usually. And I'm more interested in their response to a no thanks when they head that way 💜 |
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Yep if the sexual interest nod has been given/discussed then I do not need or want to be asked … open those legs and get your face in there.
Same applies for sitting on your face … I’m going to tell you I’m doing it or just straddle those chops and enjoy myself 😁 |
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By *r TriomanMan 2 weeks ago
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"Like it when a man goes down without being asked
Oh my god no! I'm paranoid about freshness, is my landscaping on fleck, are there any pimples, which knickers am I wearing etc.
If you want to go down on me then I need time to prepare and check, especially with a mirror, if you're going eye to bush with my body then I want to check what you're going to be faced with before you do. Please give me at least 5 minutes warning.
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If it's an impromptu/unplanned meeting, I'd have the same anxieties (especially about my knickers). For a planned meeting, all of those things would be on-point. |
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"Probably not when she’s doing the weekly shop.
What about when she's reaching down into the freezer in Iceland? 
That’s why mum’s go to Iceland… apparently."
It must be why they're always smiling in the adverts.  |
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