my lady friend suggested last night
that she would like to wear a strap on and peg me
i am a little wary of this
only had the doctors finger up there !!!
do they do small size strap on cock ???
i have a slightly enlarged prostate too
is it safe
tia x |
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My advice would be to start smaller than any toy attached to a strap on. A finger or 2. Maybe a butt plug (small) and work up to a a strain, trusting etc.
No need to jump in the deep end right away |
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"my lady friend suggested last night
that she would like to wear a strap on and peg me
i am a little wary of this
only had the doctors finger up there !!!
do they do small size strap on cock ???
i have a slightly enlarged prostate too
is it safe
tia x"
yes you can get small sizes 5’ plenty of lube & tell your lady friend that you want to guide it in until you are comfortable enough for her to start to peg you |
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By *andTWoman 1 week ago
Altrincham |
"my lady friend suggested last night
that she would like to wear a strap on and peg me
i am a little wary of this
only had the doctors finger up there !!!
do they do small size strap on cock ???
i have a slightly enlarged prostate too
is it safe
tia x"
Start small, use lube, tell her to take it slowly, enjoy 😉 |
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I’m not going to advise on safety. I think that needs addressing by your gp.
Yes dildos come in all sorts of shapes and sizes. You can start as small as you want. However the advice above is correct, before moving straight to pegging try incorporating anal play into your sex lives first.
Also going to say that no matter how much the other person wants to give things a go, you need to want it too. Consent is key. |
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By *inkShyWoman 1 week ago
near Windsor |
"my lady friend suggested last night
that she would like to wear a strap on and peg me
i am a little wary of this
only had the doctors finger up there !!!
do they do small size strap on cock ???
i have a slightly enlarged prostate too
is it safe
tia x"
I have no idea, but I read that as a stream of consciousness and think you'd be good at poetry slam. |
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"my lady friend suggested last night
that she would like to wear a strap on and peg me
i am a little wary of this
only had the doctors finger up there !!!
do they do small size strap on cock ???
i have a slightly enlarged prostate too
is it safe
tia x"
But Doc, it's just a sore throat ... |
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By *cgmcgMan 1 week ago
kingston |
"my lady friend suggested last night
that she would like to wear a strap on and peg me
i am a little wary of this
only had the doctors finger up there !!!
do they do small size strap on cock ???
i have a slightly enlarged prostate too
is it safe
tia x"
Really happy to come up and she can demonstrate on me first, if that would help you. |
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"My advice would be to start smaller than any toy attached to a strap on. A finger or 2. Maybe a butt plug (small) and work up to a a strain, trusting etc.
No need to jump in the deep end right away"
This xx |
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If you are unhappy about asking your gp for 'is it safe advice" try your gum clinic, they are medical professionals.
Re dildos, I trained my sub with a anal training pack, which came with 5 anal dildos of different sizes and lengths and advice on which to use. Douching and plenty of lube is quite important, enjoy your researching  |
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By *andora2Woman 6 days ago
South somewhere |
Pegging can be extremely exciting for both parties but it has to be with mutual consent and a lot of trust.
Start small, lube, lube and more lube.
I’ve always found it best for first timers if they ease themselves at their own pace onto the dildo. So preferable sat astride the pegger.
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LUBE, small butt plug, LUBE, medium sized butt plug, LUBE, larger butt plug, LUBE, then work up to a small dildo, the most important thing is Lube lots and lots of lube, Liquid Silk is good.
Durex lube in my opinion is the worst lube.
Don't jump into pegging without some training.
LUBE LUBE |
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"did you start small ??"
I started with a 6 inch strap with the first girl who pegged me, though I'd definitely used toys back there previously but smaller than the dildo
The biggest I've had used on me was 8 and it was a challenge
Just relax, remember your partner is not put to hurt you and is probably more nervous than you because they have no tactile feeling
If you haven't maybe set up safe words
Don't rush, a little at a time
Try and "push out" as she's pushing in to open up
Remember you're both there to have fun and if you both end up laughing your asses off it's all good |
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