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do you get annoyed when your messages arent replied to straight away?
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"Why would it annoy you?
If it does then I would say it’s a huge red flag of what the person may be like off here if something like that annoys them "
Comes across as very needy or possessive in my eyes. |
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"Why would I get annoyed? People have lives you know. Reply when you like. "
This! It's not an instant messaging service. Even on other apps, I don't reply instantly, I'm allowed to be busy, and so are people I am chatting with. |
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Definitely doesn’t annoy me. The only exception to that rule is if we have a meet planned and they’re due to arrive when suddenly the messages stop coming.
Only time I get annoyed. Though it’s lets to do with the timing and more to do with leaving me hanging when I could be doing something (or someone) else |
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"Not at the only thing miffs me is when message been read but they mark as unread I'd rather see deleted or a no thanks "
To be fair, we do this if one of us has read the message and wants the other to remember to read it.
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"Not at the only thing miffs me is when message been read but they mark as unread I'd rather see deleted or a no thanks "
We do this especially if it’s Alex that has read it. He will mark it as unread so I can read it and decide how I want to proceed |
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"I get annoyed when they've clearly been deleted unread. Like, am I really so horrendous you can't even bear to read what I've written?"
To be honest I do that. I'm not going to open a message from a 20 year old something. |
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"I immediately delete sent messages so I don't know if they have been read/deleted etc. No point in obsessing over it."
Doesn’t this show up that u deleted your message? Could that possibly send the wrong impression? |
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"I immediately delete sent messages so I don't know if they have been read/deleted etc. No point in obsessing over it.
Doesn’t this show up that u deleted your message? Could that possibly send the wrong impression? "
You can't see that someone deleted a message they have sent. You can only see if the recipient deletes it.
Send and delete is always the best advice in a situation like this. |
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"I immediately delete sent messages so I don't know if they have been read/deleted etc. No point in obsessing over it.
Doesn’t this show up that u deleted your message? Could that possibly send the wrong impression?
You can't see that someone deleted a message they have sent. You can only see if the recipient deletes it.
Send and delete is always the best advice in a situation like this."
I didn’t realise that u know. |
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"Not at the only thing miffs me is when message been read but they mark as unread I'd rather see deleted or a no thanks "
Why on earth would this annoy you? Us reading a message then marking it as unread simply means that one of us has read it, is potentially interested in the sender, and has marked it as unread again for the other one to see when they log in.
Getting annoyed that someone has flagged your message to potentially reply to later, when they've both seen it and they have the time to give it the attention it deserves, is just weird  |
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By *JCRoseWoman 7 days ago
Caversham |
People have lives but also some women will have so many messages they can't keep up!! I have suddenly been inundated with 100s of messages within the last 48hour and I reply to some and more have come through. Ladies are out numbered and can be a headache to try and reply to every one. |
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When they message me and we are actively arrange a meet that is supposed to be happening within an hour or 2. Very much so. I can't arrange anything if they don't get back to me. Then they take 15 mins to reply then get inpatient when I haven't replied within 1 min. |
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On Fab only . Exchange messages. Then say I am asked question or more info. I reply .
Then wait for a reply. Even if see profile online say in couple days . Do not send another message. I move on . Their choice if want to reply or not. ? |
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"Not at the only thing miffs me is when message been read but they mark as unread I'd rather see deleted or a no thanks
I do this if I want to reply but don't have time at that moment "
I do this too |
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By *ornycracksMan 5 days ago
Limerick and around clare alot |
Hardly as women are harass to the heavens here. But I do laugh wen women complain about rude messages but don't have manners to reply to a polite chatty message I've sent. Manners costs nothing at all.goes both ways |
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