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Why do they stop replying?
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Maybe it was the thrill of the chase. Maybe someone else has caught their attention and it's new and exciting. Maybe after so long chatting they friend zoned you. Maybe lots of other reasons. Just think it was good while it lasted and move on.
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I feel like I've called their bluff a few times with the meeting thing.
If they give an excuse to not meet the first time I offer, maybe I give them the benefit of the doubt? But the second time? that's my fault for hanging on where I'm not wanted. |
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Almost all of the women on here… and im not generalising  are here just for either sex, companionship and sex, a relationship… and sex, conversation… and sex -
I for one am sick of being tricked into having sex with them after a bit of a chat…
it seems there are a few also who are here just to play chase me and when they get the shallow affirmation of someone agreeing to meet them they just move onto another meaningless chase. Its ruined fab for everyone genuine  |
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"Almost all of the women on here… and im not generalising are here just for either sex, companionship and sex, a relationship… and sex, conversation… and sex -
I for one am sick of being tricked into having sex with them after a bit of a chat…
it seems there are a few also who are here just to play chase me and when they get the shallow affirmation of someone agreeing to meet them they just move onto another meaningless chase. Its ruined fab for everyone genuine "
It must be a real bind for ya.  |
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"Almost all of the women on here… and im not generalising are here just for either sex, companionship and sex, a relationship… and sex, conversation… and sex -
I for one am sick of being tricked into having sex with them after a bit of a chat…
it seems there are a few also who are here just to play chase me and when they get the shallow affirmation of someone agreeing to meet them they just move onto another meaningless chase. Its ruined fab for everyone genuine
It must be a real bind for ya. "
I wish!!! I think most women on here see me as unattainable and out of their league in every dept. So they save themselves from potential rejection by not contacting me… the ones who feel they can’t trust themselves in a moment of weakness not to contact me - they block me - just in case!! |
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As a couple then we know a lot of singles are only looking for singles.
For gents - a lot don’t want to meet couples - they want the lady of the couple by herself so prefer the hotwife experience or just want a single woman.
For ladies - whilst they get the best of both worlds, if they are bi, so as a couple we are appealing, they also have single guys, other couples and probably single women chasing them, so it’s harder for them to become invested.
FAB is a sweet shop so it’s easy to get your head turned to all the flavours out there…
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"Almost all of the women on here… and im not generalising are here just for either sex, companionship and sex, a relationship… and sex, conversation… and sex -
I for one am sick of being tricked into having sex with them after a bit of a chat…
it seems there are a few also who are here just to play chase me and when they get the shallow affirmation of someone agreeing to meet them they just move onto another meaningless chase. Its ruined fab for everyone genuine
It must be a real bind for ya.
I wish!!! I think most women on here see me as unattainable and out of their league in every dept. So they save themselves from potential rejection by not contacting me… the ones who feel they can’t trust themselves in a moment of weakness not to contact me - they block me - just in case!! "
That almost deserves a pity fuck. |
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By *andTWoman 2 weeks ago
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"They spend months asking to meet and when you finally say ‘go on then’ they disappear- don’t open your message and ghost you?
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They've decided for what ever reason that they don't want to pursue the connection |
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"Almost all of the women on here… and im not generalising are here just for either sex, companionship and sex, a relationship… and sex, conversation… and sex -
I for one am sick of being tricked into having sex with them after a bit of a chat…
it seems there are a few also who are here just to play chase me and when they get the shallow affirmation of someone agreeing to meet them they just move onto another meaningless chase. Its ruined fab for everyone genuine
It must be a real bind for ya.
I wish!!! I think most women on here see me as unattainable and out of their league in every dept. So they save themselves from potential rejection by not contacting me… the ones who feel they can’t trust themselves in a moment of weakness not to contact me - they block me - just in case!!
That almost deserves a pity fuck."
I’ll take that!! |
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Speaking for months is the issue. Never do that. It builds up too much anticipation and allows both parties to create personas that they then feel they won’t be able to live up to in person.
Meeting relatively fast is the only way. The more time that passes, the less chance you’ll meet. |
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