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It’s no secret a lot of us of younger and mid age gents have desires for a cougars and older women.
I’m a tradesman and was recently working in a ladies house 20+ years my senior, we exchanged numbers for work reasons. Work related texts then changed to casual texts and then to a more flirtatious nature with the potential of a meet when works are complete.
I’m interested to know if many of you have met cougars/older women away from fab and apps such as tinder etc in real life, with it leading to anything?
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"Yes……long before Fab, and pre-internet days.
Nightclubs had many a cougar on the prowl, looking for the young men. I was one of those men a few times. "
Our regular cougar hunting establishment was Flares Nightclub….you stick to the flashing multicoloured dance floor….but what a bloody place!!!  |
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In my mid 20s I used to drive to 30-40 companies a day, the amount of female,middle aged women was extraordinary, most I saw 5 days a week for a couple of years. I had a few fun experiences with a couple of them but the most fun was their flirting, there's a lot to be said for the more experienced lady.
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"In my mid 20s I used to drive to 30-40 companies a day, the amount of female,middle aged women was extraordinary, most I saw 5 days a week for a couple of years. I had a few fun experiences with a couple of them but the most fun was their flirting, there's a lot to be said for the more experienced lady.
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"In my mid 20s I used to drive to 30-40 companies a day, the amount of female,middle aged women was extraordinary, most I saw 5 days a week for a couple of years. I had a few fun experiences with a couple of them but the most fun was their flirting, there's a lot to be said for the more experienced lady.
I bet you miss that job! "
Some days, a bit, lol, it was a laugh and I met some unbelievably funny,clever, attractive women, went to some great office parties. When I started there I was promised "all the bored housewives I could eat" that statement has stuck with me for 3 and a bit decades |
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"In my day it was called 'grab a granny night'. 
Roxys on a Thursday. Loved it   "
The Ritz in Manchester had a grab a granny night.
I have been approached by much younger men on nights out. They are very confident |
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"In my day it was called 'grab a granny night'.
Roxys on a Thursday. Loved it
The Ritz in Manchester had a grab a granny night.
I have been approached by much younger men on nights out. They are very confident"
I can't see why they would  |
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"In my day it was called 'grab a granny night'.
Roxys on a Thursday. Loved it
The Ritz in Manchester had a grab a granny night.
I have been approached by much younger men on nights out. They are very confident
I can't see why they would "
I’m usually doing silly dances with friends … so always happens near the end of the night, so you know last chance saloon 🤣 |
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By *ony MannMan 7 days ago
Lagos, Portugal/ Ilfracombe Devon/ Anoover |
"It’s no secret a lot of us of younger and mid age gents have desires for a cougars and older women.
I’m a tradesman and was recently working in a ladies house 20+ years my senior, we exchanged numbers for work reasons. Work related texts then changed to casual texts and then to a more flirtatious nature with the potential of a meet when works are complete.
I’m interested to know if many of you have met cougars/older women away from fab and apps such as tinder etc in real life, with it leading to anything?
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If you like her, and no one is going to get hurt, have the meet. |
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"In my day it was called 'grab a granny night'.
Roxys on a Thursday. Loved it
The Ritz in Manchester had a grab a granny night.
I have been approached by much younger men on nights out. They are very confident
I can't see why they would
I’m usually doing silly dances with friends … so always happens near the end of the night, so you know last chance saloon 🤣"
Come into my saloon. The chair is ready, the chat is cheesy and the drinks on me |
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"It’s no secret a lot of us of younger and mid age gents have desires for a cougars and older women.
I’m a tradesman and was recently working in a ladies house 20+ years my senior, we exchanged numbers for work reasons. Work related texts then changed to casual texts and then to a more flirtatious nature with the potential of a meet when works are complete.
I’m interested to know if many of you have met cougars/older women away from fab and apps such as tinder etc in real life, with it leading to anything?
If you like her, and no one is going to get hurt, have the meet."
My thoughts exactly! |
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"In my day it was called 'grab a granny night'. "
I was a glass collector at the 'grab a granny' night. It was literally called that, there wasn't a neon sign or anything but that's what everyone called it.
Most in there were my mates mum's, they may have been grannys too I guess.
My memories are lipstick smeared glasses filled with cigarettes, being groped multiple times a night and developing a trauma response to various 70s/80s disco songs.
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"In my day it was called 'grab a granny night'.
I was a glass collector at the 'grab a granny' night. It was literally called that, there wasn't a neon sign or anything but that's what everyone called it.
Most in there were my mates mum's, they may have been grannys too I guess.
My memories are lipstick smeared glasses filled with cigarettes, being groped multiple times a night and developing a trauma response to various 70s/80s disco songs.
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Yeah I wasn't joking.
Those women were old enough to know better but sadly didn't |
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"In my day it was called 'grab a granny night'.
I was a glass collector at the 'grab a granny' night. It was literally called that, there wasn't a neon sign or anything but that's what everyone called it.
Most in there were my mates mum's, they may have been grannys too I guess.
My memories are lipstick smeared glasses filled with cigarettes, being groped multiple times a night and developing a trauma response to various 70s/80s disco songs.
Yeah I wasn't joking.
Those women were old enough to know better but sadly didn't"
Wow, they need to bring this back |
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By *ornycougaWoman 7 days ago
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"In my day it was called 'grab a granny night'. "
This. They were far less glamorous back when I was young tho. When I was young they mainly came with mobility scooters and shopping trolleys! |
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"In my day it was called 'grab a granny night'.
I was a glass collector at the 'grab a granny' night. It was literally called that, there wasn't a neon sign or anything but that's what everyone called it.
Most in there were my mates mum's, they may have been grannys too I guess.
My memories are lipstick smeared glasses filled with cigarettes, being groped multiple times a night and developing a trauma response to various 70s/80s disco songs.
Yeah I wasn't joking.
Those women were old enough to know better but sadly didn't"
Yeah it's not a pleasant experience going to work at 14 wondering how many times you will get sexually assaulted to Dancing Queen tonight. No minimum wage then either so the money was awful too.
They were just 'having fun' though and it's 'part of the job'.
I did cry a few times at first thinking I've just been assaulted, publicly humiliated by you in front of your friends, people who I know, whilst they laugh and now I am having to clean your lippy off your glass and pick out your stinking mess of ciggie butts, which smells almost as bad as your breath. |
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"In my day it was called 'grab a granny night'.
This. They were far less glamorous back when I was young tho. When I was young they mainly came with mobility scooters and shopping trolleys! "
Haha brilliant! |
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"In my day it was called 'grab a granny night'.
I was a glass collector at the 'grab a granny' night. It was literally called that, there wasn't a neon sign or anything but that's what everyone called it.
Most in there were my mates mum's, they may have been grannys too I guess.
My memories are lipstick smeared glasses filled with cigarettes, being groped multiple times a night and developing a trauma response to various 70s/80s disco songs.
Yeah I wasn't joking.
Those women were old enough to know better but sadly didn't
Yeah it's not a pleasant experience going to work at 14 wondering how many times you will get sexually assaulted to Dancing Queen tonight. No minimum wage then either so the money was awful too.
They were just 'having fun' though and it's 'part of the job'.
I did cry a few times at first thinking I've just been assaulted, publicly humiliated by you in front of your friends, people who I know, whilst they laugh and now I am having to clean your lippy off your glass and pick out your stinking mess of ciggie butts, which smells almost as bad as your breath."
Gross and inexcusable. |
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"In my day it was called 'grab a granny night'.
I was a glass collector at the 'grab a granny' night. It was literally called that, there wasn't a neon sign or anything but that's what everyone called it.
Most in there were my mates mum's, they may have been grannys too I guess.
My memories are lipstick smeared glasses filled with cigarettes, being groped multiple times a night and developing a trauma response to various 70s/80s disco songs.
Yeah I wasn't joking.
Those women were old enough to know better but sadly didn't
Wow, they need to bring this back "
They really don't |
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"In my day it was called 'grab a granny night'.
I was a glass collector at the 'grab a granny' night. It was literally called that, there wasn't a neon sign or anything but that's what everyone called it.
Most in there were my mates mum's, they may have been grannys too I guess.
My memories are lipstick smeared glasses filled with cigarettes, being groped multiple times a night and developing a trauma response to various 70s/80s disco songs.
Yeah I wasn't joking.
Those women were old enough to know better but sadly didn't
Wow, they need to bring this back
They really don't "
Not the non consensual ofc, I’m referring to the nights specific for younger men and older women |
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"In my day it was called 'grab a granny night'.
I was a glass collector at the 'grab a granny' night. It was literally called that, there wasn't a neon sign or anything but that's what everyone called it.
Most in there were my mates mum's, they may have been grannys too I guess.
My memories are lipstick smeared glasses filled with cigarettes, being groped multiple times a night and developing a trauma response to various 70s/80s disco songs.
Yeah I wasn't joking.
Those women were old enough to know better but sadly didn't
Wow, they need to bring this back
They really don't
Not the non consensual ofc, I’m referring to the nights specific for younger men and older women "
Cubs and cougars nights at clubs |
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"It’s no secret a lot of us of younger and mid age gents have desires for a cougars and older women.
I’m a tradesman and was recently working in a ladies house 20+ years my senior, we exchanged numbers for work reasons. Work related texts then changed to casual texts and then to a more flirtatious nature with the potential of a meet when works are complete.
I’m interested to know if many of you have met cougars/older women away from fab and apps such as tinder etc in real life, with it leading to anything?
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I hate the term 'cougar', it's just  , but to answer your question, I've met men younger than me away from here on more mainstream apps which has resulted in 'dating' and more |
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"In my day it was called 'grab a granny night'.
Roxys on a Thursday. Loved it
The Ritz in Manchester had a grab a granny night.
I have been approached by much younger men on nights out. They are very confident"
Oh yes the Ritz on a thursday was a top night back in the day! |
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By *on_21Man 4 days ago
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I met my gf on an internet chat room. It wasn’t a dating site or a kink site. She is about 20 years older than me. It all just happened and we don’t think about the age difference. We get on so well that it doesn’t play on our minds. I guess it also helps that I wasn’t looking for older and she wasn’t looking for younger so it isn’t the focus in any way in us being together |
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"It’s no secret a lot of us of younger and mid age gents have desires for a cougars and older women.
I’m a tradesman and was recently working in a ladies house 20+ years my senior, we exchanged numbers for work reasons. Work related texts then changed to casual texts and then to a more flirtatious nature with the potential of a meet when works are complete.
I’m interested to know if many of you have met cougars/older women away from fab and apps such as tinder etc in real life, with it leading to anything?
I hate the term 'cougar', it's just , but to answer your question, I've met men younger than me away from here on more mainstream apps which has resulted in 'dating' and more "
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