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"I thought you didn't cast a reflection in a mirror pickle?😛😛😛
 this isn’t about me
But you’re right I don’t. I’m not even a real person let alone an attractive one. "
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"Is it arrogant to look in the mirror and feel that you’re attractive? "
More of a shock, personally
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Is loving yourself arrogant?
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I feel like these are two separate questions. You can love yourself and not feel attractive. For me, at least, living myself is about self acceptance and finally being happy in my skin.
We should all strive to love ourselves a little bit.
Bit deep for a Tuesday morning. |
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This is why we have so many mental health issues, people putting others down and making them feel insecure about themselves. Look in the mirror and celebrate who you are , you are an amazing one of a kind individual, you can be certain there is only you who is like you. |
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"Narcissistic??
Is that what you’d say it is?
It's a possibility yes NPD ? "
I’m really not sure about this. Narcs are built on insecurity that they are hiding. Usually from events between 5-7 years old. They need others to believe the facade. That’s why they control narratives.
Loving yourself can be an act of gratitude or self respect.
Accepting our flaws and learning to love ourselves as a whole is growth. |
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It’s a scale - having self confidence and being happy with what you seen the mirror is a good thing.
Taken too far (in either direction: positively or negatively) is bad. That leads to excessive doubt or infatuation, both of which will cause you issues. |
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I honestly don't like what I see in a mirror so all I can say is that it's probably not. Liking yourself and how you look can lead to a better life and acceptance. However it can be taken too far into loving yourself and narcissism. |
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"I thought you didn't cast a reflection in a mirror pickle?😛😛😛
this isn’t about me
But you’re right I don’t. I’m not even a real person let alone an attractive one.
You're just an AI algorithm aren't you "
I am Allen Iverson regen yes |
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"This is why we have so many mental health issues, people putting others down and making them feel insecure about themselves. Look in the mirror and celebrate who you are , you are an amazing one of a kind individual, you can be certain there is only you who is like you. "
This |
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"Is it arrogant to look in the mirror and feel that you’re attractive?
More of a shock, personally
Is loving yourself arrogant?
I feel like these are two separate questions. You can love yourself and not feel attractive. For me, at least, living myself is about self acceptance and finally being happy in my skin.
We should all strive to love ourselves a little bit.
Bit deep for a Tuesday morning."
Not too deep. I think it’s real and I enjoyed reading your thoughts. |
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"This is why we have so many mental health issues, people putting others down and making them feel insecure about themselves. Look in the mirror and celebrate who you are , you are an amazing one of a kind individual, you can be certain there is only you who is like you. "
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"It’s a scale - having self confidence and being happy with what you seen the mirror is a good thing.
Taken too far (in either direction: positively or negatively) is bad. That leads to excessive doubt or infatuation, both of which will cause you issues."
Of course |
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"I honestly don't like what I see in a mirror so all I can say is that it's probably not. Liking yourself and how you look can lead to a better life and acceptance. However it can be taken too far into loving yourself and narcissism."
It’s a journey. I hope you get there x |
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"No because if you don't love yourself then how do you except others to love you?
#Deep.
So very true though
And I don't mean that I think I'm attractive,i just accept who I am "
But you are defo attractive foxy … |
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"No because if you don't love yourself then how do you except others to love you?
#Deep.
So very true though
And I don't mean that I think I'm attractive,i just accept who I am
But you are defo attractive foxy … "
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"No because if you don't love yourself then how do you except others to love you?
#Deep.
So very true though
And I don't mean that I think I'm attractive,i just accept who I am
But you are defo attractive foxy …
Thank you "
You are welcome foxy … |
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Not arrogant at all, its important to feel good about yourself but not to let that be the definition of you or your mindset.
Arrogant is thinking that others think the same thing when they look at you and imposing your self love upon them.
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It's not arrogant to find yourself attractive in a
mirror. However it is to think that everyone else sees you that way. Even worse is tell everyone else that you are attractive/handsome/beautiful. That's just self concieted. Eye of the beholder and all that. |
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"There was a whole thread the other day about people looking at themselves in a mirror whilst wanking, if that's not vanity I don't know what is?"
Meats been attributed by psychologists as more akin to real life porn that men like seeing cumshots in porn and seeing Reflection in mirror of own cock spunking is more disembodied viewing of that aspect |
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If you were looking at yourself and saying "God I'm the handsomest man that ever lived. Everyone else is an ugly meff by comparison and they should think themselves lucky just to be able to gaze upon my glorious form" then maybe.
Otherwise no. |
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"There was a whole thread the other day about people looking at themselves in a mirror whilst wanking, if that's not vanity I don't know what is?
Meats been attributed by psychologists as more akin to real life porn that men like seeing cumshots in porn and seeing Reflection in mirror of own cock spunking is more disembodied viewing of that aspect "
Wow that's heavy  |
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Feeling good about yourself is important for your own mental health.
You don't have to be a trump esq narcissist. You can be confident in your own skin, without having to put others down.
So pickle in answer no, it's important to think of yourself as at least reasonably attractive. It gives you a base to work from. |
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"Feeling good about yourself is important for your own mental health.
You don't have to be a trump esq narcissist. You can be confident in your own skin, without having to put others down.
So pickle in answer no, it's important to think of yourself as at least reasonably attractive. It gives you a base to work from."
I think I’m attractive. And I thank God every day that I feel that way. 🫶🏾 |
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"Feeling good about yourself is important for your own mental health.
You don't have to be a trump esq narcissist. You can be confident in your own skin, without having to put others down.
So pickle in answer no, it's important to think of yourself as at least reasonably attractive. It gives you a base to work from.
I think I’m attractive. And I thank God every day that I feel that way. 🫶🏾"
I haven’t always. That’s why I’m grateful for the feeling. |
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Nope but you may have crossed a line if you drill a hole in it to fuck yourself.
Seriously tho, we never question the days when we view ourself as looking like crap, why not celebrate the moments when we feel like fit fit fitties. |
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"Nope but you may have crossed a line if you drill a hole in it to fuck yourself.
Seriously tho, we never question the days when we view ourself as looking like crap, why not celebrate the moments when we feel like fit fit fitties. "
Oooooo……an idea forms I’m my tiny warped mind……. |
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"Nope but you may have crossed a line if you drill a hole in it to fuck yourself.
Seriously tho, we never question the days when we view ourself as looking like crap, why not celebrate the moments when we feel like fit fit fitties.
Oooooo……an idea forms I’m my tiny warped mind……."
Flesh light glued to the otherside |
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"Feeling good about yourself is important for your own mental health.
You don't have to be a trump esq narcissist. You can be confident in your own skin, without having to put others down.
So pickle in answer no, it's important to think of yourself as at least reasonably attractive. It gives you a base to work from.
I think I’m attractive. And I thank God every day that I feel that way. 🫶🏾
I haven’t always. That’s why I’m grateful for the feeling. "
Yes I had that impression of you tbh, I was also not very confident in my youth too. It changed with experience and knowledge. The important thing is that you can learn to become confident, it's not something people are born with. We can all learn to believe in ourselves. |
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"Nope but you may have crossed a line if you drill a hole in it to fuck yourself.
Seriously tho, we never question the days when we view ourself as looking like crap, why not celebrate the moments when we feel like fit fit fitties.
Oooooo……an idea forms I’m my tiny warped mind…….
Flesh light glued to the otherside"
I’m not that flush for cash.
It’ll have to be a tin of Spam with the hole bored into it. |
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Bring on the self lovin' .......
So, so important. Also one thing I'm trying to do more of too. I think when you truly self love then you'll love you for your strengths and flaws!! It would be arrogant/narcissist to think you were flawless...... |
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"Is it arrogant to look in the mirror and feel that you’re attractive?
Is loving yourself arrogant?
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I don’t think it’s arrogant no, it’s Possibly a sign of very low self-esteem or a little bit narcissistic maybe to be so focused on yourself
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I think there is no harm in liking/ loving yourself.
The way I see it if you can't like/love yourself then what hope do you have of anyone else liking/loving you?
I'm not saying to be a rude or arrogant arsehole but you should always be ok with feeling good about yourself. |
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"I honestly don't like what I see in a mirror so all I can say is that it's probably not. Liking yourself and how you look can lead to a better life and acceptance. However it can be taken too far into loving yourself and narcissism.
It’s a journey. I hope you get there x"
Thanks man, appreciate it. I'm trying, I really am. |
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No, I'd say arrogance is where you expect people to treat you differently because of your self perceived attractiveness and you become entitled.
Thinking you look good and feeling good about yourself isn't arrogant. |
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"No, I'd say arrogance is where you expect people to treat you differently because of your self perceived attractiveness and you become entitled.
Thinking you look good and feeling good about yourself isn't arrogant. "
I'd agree with that.
Andrew Tate is arrogant.
Donald Trump is too.
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"The myth of Narcissus is literally someone who fell in love with themselves."
There's a difference between having some self worth and self confidence in your appearance, vs being so self absorbed to be narcissistic. |
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To be honest I've never really liked whats looking back at me in the mirror.
Not sure if it's a female thing or just me but I've always been ultra critical, even when others have said I look fine.
Would like to say I thought I looked attractive and for those that do I don't think it's arrogance rather being highly self aware and I'd think it was a good thing,
Mrs x |
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This is all just my opinion, in society we are constantly being bombarded with the idea that we are simply not good enough. Low self esteem is at an all time high, you know who benefits from that, the cosmetics industry, just looking around you'll see a lot more people that have "had work done".
There is nothing wrong with feeling good about yourself, there is a big difference between, "I think I look good today" and "I'm God's gift to humanity". |
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