Ruling out that swinging is for couples only and that if you’re not a couple you can’t swing do you think that there is a misunderstanding of this site?
That people see it more of an instashag whereas swinging is more or as equally about building up a rapport and connection for something that is normally more than a one off?
What is your honest opinion and what experience of this site and what do you use it for? |
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I think we put ourselves into broader categories to get what we want sometimes.
Am I a swinger? I don't know. But Fab "ethical non monogamy without romantic feelings with a possibility of group sex" probably isn't a viable business model. |
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I consider it for myself as making friendships, and nice connections along the way, with some shagging thrown in.
I'm not on a dating site as I'm not looking to specifically date. I'm not on Tinder because I'm not looking specifically for just a shag.
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I don’t know, I don’t think about it ! I just use the site inna way that works for me.
But you are wrong about swinging being building rapport for things that are normally more than a one off. That’s just how you see things, if others don’t it doesn’t mean they are misunderstanding. Lots of swinging is just one-off wife swapping
Swinging , traditionally was just else swapping for fun.
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By *a LunaWoman 6 days ago
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"I mostly view it as a casual sex site.
The mechanics of how that happens is up to those participating "
This. I’ve been on other casual sex sites and Fab is just the same as those, except “Swingers” is in the title. |
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I've always used it to meet people for sex but not in an instashag way.
I've had sex with less than 10 percent of those I've met across 4 different profiles and 9 years and that has been by choice.
I've never claimed to be a swinger as I'm not here as a lifestyle choice. It has only ever been a hobby.
In saying that, my closest friends are people I've met through fab. |
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I think there's room for both.
I can't be arsed with building relationships or chasing people over protracted periods.
I don't want it. It doesn't appeal to me.
The thought of chatting / flirting with someone for months on end, I find tiresome before it even starts
I know I'll bore of it before it has legs
That said, I've always done OK on here - I guess that could be down to being willing to meet blokes on their own
If I wanted to meet women exclusively, I think Fab would be well behind me now |
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