I have several Fab friends that give me the most amazing massages. I love being massaged and J loves to see me enjoying myself before we all join in the fun. We are always looking for new friends who are good at massaging, unfortunately so many say they are good at massaging but they have not got a massage table or any massage oils. We did once go on a visit to a hotel where I was expected to be massaged on the bed, this is Definitely not good for a relaxing massage. Am I being too picky or am I right insisting that having a good relaxing massage needs to be done on a massage table? |
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By *asseurMan 2 days ago
Shrewsbury England not Wales |
As a qualified Massage Therapist, offering massage from Professional to Tantric, a massage couch is essential for giving massage, no matter the type of massage. A bed is not the ideal height for either the client or Therapist. |
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Depends on the person tbf, there is no right or wrong, just personal choices...
We prefer a bed as I find tables uncomfortable for my big tits, also I bind him to the bed whilst crafting a lingham massage on him  |
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By *1bttmMan 1 day ago
Shoreditch east London |
"I have several Fab friends that give me the most amazing massages. I love being massaged and J loves to see me enjoying myself before we all join in the fun. We are always looking for new friends who are good at massaging, unfortunately so many say they are good at massaging but they have not got a massage table or any massage oils. We did once go on a visit to a hotel where I was expected to be massaged on the bed, this is Definitely not good for a relaxing massage. Am I being too picky or am I right insisting that having a good relaxing massage needs to be done on a massage table?"
As a qualified massage therapist I'd just like to say yr spot on regards having the right equipment but also the right skills. There is often a massive difference between someone saying they are good at massage to someone who knows what they are doing.
In terms of knowing what yr doing, a sequence or a technique depends on the level of training. There are currently 3 levels to become a qualified therapist with many hours of studying anatomy and physiology. Just knowing what to massage and when to massage, contraindications to massage makes a big difference to what you are trying to achieve by doing it. It's not always a simple as someone just lying there and receiving a massage. A professional therapist will actually go through a medical questionnaire to ensure they don't exacerbate any current medical issues the person might have. There are actually quite a few conditions were massage is not appropriate.
Although I do disagree with u saying massage needs to be done with oil and a table to be relaxing. Floor work is common in many countries and quite the norm and an experienced therapist who does this will do so without the need for a table. The client might lay on a thin mattress enough for them to be comfortable. Done properly it will be as relaxing as one done on a table. As long as the area is firm so there is no rebound which is exactly what u get from lying on a bed.
Oil is another contention here as many experienced therapists don't use oil at all. I use a wax or a physio cream, both provide enough glide to ensure there's no drag on the skin and the correct depth of pressure can be achieved. Knowing what's appropriate to use is another thing that is learnt from doing a professional course. So not all qualified therapists would use oil but would probably choose something appropriate for the type of massage they are giving and what they prefer to use. |
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"I have several Fab friends that give me the most amazing massages. I love being massaged and J loves to see me enjoying myself before we all join in the fun. We are always looking for new friends who are good at massaging, unfortunately so many say they are good at massaging but they have not got a massage table or any massage oils. We did once go on a visit to a hotel where I was expected to be massaged on the bed, this is Definitely not good for a relaxing massage. Am I being too picky or am I right insisting that having a good relaxing massage needs to be done on a massage table?"
No a table makes it a lot easier to give a massarge and portable tables are good now.
And makes it better to adjust the pressure.
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By *ripfillMan 4 hours ago
Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant |
Please pop into my profile … absolutely massage couch is needed to effect the right outcome.
If a massage is wanted or needed compared to just stroking or rubbing !
Even just going though the massage with the person first is import to establish any potential issues such as disorders skin or other issues etc
If I tantric Yoni massage, then I only use edible oils such as almond oil which has skin benefits too
It’s a trained profession not a rub and see!
I am very particular and very giving but it’s about the communication
In restrained forced orgasm situations the massage couch may not be too useful, a bed is ideal for that because of the restraints needed to effect a very positive outcome
Leave massage to the trained professionals,
But enjoy touching and stroking ..
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