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Hiding, Im just lonely
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Id say I'm here because of sex, but recently I think I'm kidding myself and really I'm just bored, lonely when actual I'm just missing talking, no friends(have friends but not like it use to be all grown up meet once a month for a catch up and half of them it's just habit bloody boring) miss having debates and discussions where you you think and views.) something but just and no way to meet make friends accept the pub maybe and even then not really my kinda ppl. And I hate typing with my dyslexic stupidness. Takes me 15mins to write this. And I've still probably made no sense. Sending messages to ppl that will never reply doesn't matter feel like I'm talking to someone. Well that's depressing. What's everyone's favourite holiday |
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Its difficult to make connections as we get older. Easy to stay in tbh.
Defo get to some social clubs or take up a new hobby. I've met people through a fantastic divorce group.
I've done several night classes and met people through this. Once you start doing something and meeting new ppl, you will be less lonely.
Sorry you are feeling like this btw xx |
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This is so sad to read and I understand exactly how you feel. I moved to Scotland from England and left my family and friends. Even though it's 400 miles away it may as well be the other side of the world. Luckily I have a couple of good friends and when I'm feeling a bit down I reach out to them, if you have FB you may find a social group on there that meet for drinks etc. I really hope you try out some clubs/social groups and don't suffer in silence. Big hugs OP |
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Just a mid life crisis bloody hope it is if I'm not half way then the world really is unfair, 12 to 14 hours a day push in a kitchen, sleeping days off wishing for time off, bloody miserable
but was fun, almoste killed me change love it and I'm happy but bored. |
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A good way to make friends yhat have domilar interests in to join clubs or classes or some sort of activities. Lots of people feel lonely even in the company of others. As was said above, having a good friend that you know are there if you need them is great. Hopefully you make some soon if you don't have any. As gor the dyslexia, so what. Take your time, your message was veatifully written anyway raising a serous point but including a bit of humour too. My favourite holidays are little city breaks as I don't prepare much and often based around good food, lots of coffee and cake stops and the odd surprise  . All the best  |
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I'm okay I know bad sad times, I'm not at risk. Really nice to see I'm not alone or at least understudy. I don't even know what I really would enjoy. Quite enjoy my self watch movies and TV 80% of the time but Its not healthy has like a slow negative effect. I can get a way with it with my job. But I didn't shower and mostly wore same cloths for like 4/5days I think waste really keeping track, because is like what's the point I'm not seeing any people wasting water l, had to have a word with myself! |
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Believe it or not I do know how you feel dude. Shame your at the other end of the country. I'd invite you to some of the board game groups. At least then there's some socialising in a low pressure environment. |
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Find a few local munches then you can have deep and meaningful debates with people you get to meet there.
(A munch is a group social held in a pub by people involved in the kink/bdsm community)
On a completely unrelated subject, anyone else think the OP looks like Pedro pascal? |
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I know you’re worried about the dyslexia. Don’t be too hard on yourself. Your profile is better written than 90% on here.
Anyone with an ounce of kindness , will read around any mistakes. If they don’t - then who wants that negativity.
The lounge is a good place to interact.
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Yeah can very much relate it can feel like a slot machine at an amusements on here of unknowns. Living rurally and in new area as well this seemed a way to get back out there post lockdown. Whenever you go out everybody's in groups or on their phone now and factor in being older. RL stuff is the way forward deff.
Fav holiday was Antigua |
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