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FAB versus the ‘average guy’
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By (user no longer on site) OP 4 weeks ago
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Hands up, who here is an average guy? I’m talking, non gym goers, chubsters, guys who aren’t particularly tall, guys who are not very well endowed.
Now, how many of you receive replies here? Or have a message drop into your inbox from an interested party? Or have even had successful meets?
I’m aware that perhaps I might not win any popularity contests by this topic and I’m equally prepared for the backlash but I wanna test a theory here… |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 4 weeks ago
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"Haha believe me mate being 6ft+ and muscular makes absolutely fuck all difference here so don’t put self down it’s just thee sheer numbers of men to women here "
Interesting. I only post this topic because (honest truth) most women/couples within 20 miles of myself, actually state that they will only meet tall, ‘in shape’ men |
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"Haha believe me mate being 6ft+ and muscular makes absolutely fuck all difference here so don’t put self down it’s just thee sheer numbers of men to women here
Interesting. I only post this topic because (honest truth) most women/couples within 20 miles of myself, actually state that they will only meet tall, ‘in shape’ men"
I suspect that's not true, and it would be pretty easy to validate that as well. One moment. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 4 weeks ago
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"Haha believe me mate being 6ft+ and muscular makes absolutely fuck all difference here so don’t put self down it’s just thee sheer numbers of men to women here
Interesting. I only post this topic because (honest truth) most women/couples within 20 miles of myself, actually state that they will only meet tall, ‘in shape’ men
I suspect that's not true, and it would be pretty easy to validate that as well. One moment."
Go for it. Cut it down to 5 or 10 miles in my area. I’ll tell you now, many women & couples within that distance of my area only interested in meeting either tall, in shape, hung or bbc |
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Of 30 Women, MF Couples, age 21 to 50, who want to meet a man (excluding those who block single guys) within 20 miles of a Carshalton postcode:
19 express no preference for height, build, ethnicity or penis size
9 did (e.g "only black men" or "only rugby build")
1 preferred white men only
1 deleted their profile in the time between me running the search and opening their profile
This pretty much matches my experience of the site tbh. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 4 weeks ago
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"Of 30 Women, MF Couples, age 21 to 50, who want to meet a man (excluding those who block single guys) within 20 miles of a Carshalton postcode:
19 express no preference for height, build, ethnicity or penis size
9 did (e.g "only black men" or "only rugby build")
1 preferred white men only
1 deleted their profile in the time between me running the search and opening their profile
This pretty much matches my experience of the site tbh."
So you’ve honestly read 30 profiles fully within a matter of minutes? Find that hard to believe but ok, if you insist. If that’s true, then that is just based on the current moment and the members who have logged on recently.
I use Fab daily and it’s something I see on a daily basis |
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"Of 30 Women, MF Couples, age 21 to 50, who want to meet a man (excluding those who block single guys) within 20 miles of a Carshalton postcode:
19 express no preference for height, build, ethnicity or penis size
9 did (e.g "only black men" or "only rugby build")
1 preferred white men only
1 deleted their profile in the time between me running the search and opening their profile
This pretty much matches my experience of the site tbh.
So you’ve honestly read 30 profiles fully within a matter of minutes? Find that hard to believe but ok, if you insist. If that’s true, then that is just based on the current moment and the members who have logged on recently.
I use Fab daily and it’s something I see on a daily basis "
I see things daily that would make your skin crawl. I don't say that it ruins my experience of Fab  |
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"So you’ve honestly read 30 profiles fully within a matter of minutes? Find that hard to believe but ok, if you insist."
In about 10 minutes, yes. But then, I'm not your average guy 😎
"If that’s true, then that is just based on the current moment and the members who have logged on recently."
Sure, but it is data instead of just an anecdote.
"I use Fab daily and it’s something I see on a daily basis "
Oh, I mean, yes, you'll definitely see it. Those four preferences between them are relatively popular. But that's different from "most women/couples", right.
I suppose what I might be tempted to think is that you've noticed the people who rule you out (based on your height/body type/etc), but not noticed the people who don't. A sort of confirmation bias, essentially. |
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"So you’ve honestly read 30 profiles fully within a matter of minutes? Find that hard to believe but ok, if you insist.
In about 10 minutes, yes. But then, I'm not your average guy 😎
If that’s true, then that is just based on the current moment and the members who have logged on recently.
Sure, but it is data instead of just an anecdote.
I use Fab daily and it’s something I see on a daily basis
Oh, I mean, yes, you'll definitely see it. Those four preferences between them are relatively popular. But that's different from "most women/couples", right.
I suppose what I might be tempted to think is that you've noticed the people who rule you out (based on your height/body type/etc), but not noticed the people who don't. A sort of confirmation bias, essentially."
Another alternative is that people assume why people say no.
I get a message. This isn't a specific person, it's a type. I'm paraphrasing
"Hey bb bet u wanna piece of dis!"
Ten pictures of his penis in surround sound. Body shot.
I do not, in fact, want a piece of this.
Next message: it's just because I don't have abs of steel!
(I don't actually say this) No, it's because you messaged me like a bellend 🤷♀️ |
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I have been on Fab for many years I am 5'8" always been fairly overweight, prematurely grey haired and have an average cock size. Despite this I have indeed have many responses and even had women approach me first.
I think the big issues for guys that get ignored, blocked regularly and never get a response is. Poor quality of profile, with little or no writing and have either no photos, bad/cock only photos. Additionally sending low quality messages and including cock pics in the messages.
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"I have been on Fab for many years I am 5'8" always been fairly overweight, prematurely grey haired and have an average cock size. Despite this I have indeed have many responses and even had women approach me first."
Yeh, pretty much same. I wouldn't want to judge or assume how someone else is running their profile but, trust me, the problem isn't that you're not tall, gym-fit, with a big dick. |
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Well I'm not one of unbelievably hot guys that hung like a horse either. I'd say slightly above average but I make up for it with passion and enthusiasm and love of eating pussy for an hour straight  |
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By *AYENCouple 4 weeks ago
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There are threads nearly every day with guys complaining that they can't get a meet because they're white, black, Asian, short, tall, fat, thin, bald, blah. blah, blah.
Most times it's pretty obvious why they're not getting any meets (as it is in your case OP) but it's easier to blame something they feel they have no control over, rather than accept it's actually because of them. |
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"Hands up, who here is an average guy? I’m talking, non gym goers, chubsters, guys who aren’t particularly tall, guys who are not very well endowed.
Now, how many of you receive replies here? Or have a message drop into your inbox from an interested party? Or have even had successful meets?
I’m aware that perhaps I might not win any popularity contests by this topic and I’m equally prepared for the backlash but I wanna test a theory here…"
most women in life want average thats why there is so many single guys in here of your description and all the average men are on here as a couple simple maths really lol |
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Every conversation I've had in the last 5 years has been started by a woman making first contact with me.
I'm outside some people's age range, I'm not over 6 feet tall, I'm not hung, I'm not the right ethnicity, I haven't set foot in a gym in 10 years and don't work out but something encouraged all those women to get in touch.
I saw myself as average all of my life but the day I signed up here I made the decision not to refer to myself as average ever again so I chose the athletic option despite not being able to run the length of myself.
As already said above there are threads here most days from old men who claim to be outside every woman's age range, men of below average height who say that no woman in a 50 mile radius wants to meet because they have messaged them all and know for sure that's the reason and those who think that the hundreds of women and couples they contacted didn't reply because they don't have a gymfit body.
At the same time, all us old, under 6 feet dadbods who aren't having any any of these issues are looking for the positives rather than the perceived but non existent negatives. |
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"Ive probably had about 20+ meets off fab but never any of the unbelievably hot women. I find complimenting who ever your messaging but it has to be sincere. look for an ice breaker from their profile, it shows that you have taken the time to read the profile, and that both your preferences are compatible. I need meets that are 420 friendly because I love the wild sex I have on devil's dandruff
"But never any of the unbelievably hot women..." - I'm sure your meets would be delighted to read that 😂"
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"Ive probably had about 20+ meets off fab but never any of the unbelievably hot women. I find complimenting who ever your messaging but it has to be sincere. look for an ice breaker from their profile, it shows that you have taken the time to read the profile, and that both your preferences are compatible. I need meets that are 420 friendly because I love the wild sex I have on devil's dandruff
"But never any of the unbelievably hot women..." - I'm sure your meets would be delighted to read that 😂"
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By *sWyldWoman 4 weeks ago
Edinburgh |
Is this really just a dig at people for having preferences that might not be you?
I meet people I click with, I'm attracted to and who turn me on.
It's nothing to do with height or how often they go to the gym. It's everything to do with attitude... |
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