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Exact moment you realised you are a swinger
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When I was asked that my now ex boyfriend's boss wanted me as his birthday present. I was asked by the boss's wife. The fact that I discussed it with my then boyfriend, planned and went through with it defined me as a swinger. This was more than 30 years ago.
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During our first club visit when I quite literally had a taste of a couple of people.
Talking about it and deciding to go was fun but it was about exploring so I didn't end up resenting another marriage.
I knew from that first club visit this was not going to be a short term experiment |
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I'd known for a while. But it was confirmed when my ex confessed he loved dogging and my eyes lit up. Not that I want to go dogging but I thought it signified he might be.. open-minded, shall we say?
Turns out he thought having sex in the car was dogging.  |
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"I'd known for a while. But it was confirmed when my ex confessed he loved dogging and my eyes lit up. Not that I want to go dogging but I thought it signified he might be.. open-minded, shall we say?
Turns out he thought having sex in the car was dogging. "
But what we all want to know was, did you in fact then go dogging? 🤔 |
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We started going to The Gatehouse just to give me somewhere safe to dress & socialise.
After a few months we ended up with another couple.
Morning after we looked at each other with a big grin & said "are we swingers now?" |
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"I'd known for a while. But it was confirmed when my ex confessed he loved dogging and my eyes lit up. Not that I want to go dogging but I thought it signified he might be.. open-minded, shall we say?
Turns out he thought having sex in the car was dogging.
But what we all want to know was, did you in fact then go dogging? 🤔"
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"I'd known for a while. But it was confirmed when my ex confessed he loved dogging and my eyes lit up. Not that I want to go dogging but I thought it signified he might be.. open-minded, shall we say?
Turns out he thought having sex in the car was dogging.
But what we all want to know was, did you in fact then go dogging? 🤔
No "
Guess you don’t like sex in the car hahaha 🤣 |
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"I'd known for a while. But it was confirmed when my ex confessed he loved dogging and my eyes lit up. Not that I want to go dogging but I thought it signified he might be.. open-minded, shall we say?
Turns out he thought having sex in the car was dogging.
But what we all want to know was, did you in fact then go dogging? 🤔
No
Guess you don’t like sex in the car hahaha 🤣"
No, I need room man |
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I was, and still can be very naive so try not to laugh too much.
It was about 3 months after my first ganbang. Started with a fwb. Then a meet with a married couple. They introduced me to swinging before I realised. Meeting them, then adding another man. Suddenly I was in a hotel room with more guys than I could count.
And even then it didn't quite sink in. It was months later I asked how they set all this up and I finally joined fab  |
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"I'd known for a while. But it was confirmed when my ex confessed he loved dogging and my eyes lit up. Not that I want to go dogging but I thought it signified he might be.. open-minded, shall we say?
Turns out he thought having sex in the car was dogging.
But what we all want to know was, did you in fact then go dogging? 🤔
No
Guess you don’t like sex in the car hahaha 🤣
No, I need room man "
Well I wasn’t offering to throw you around just yet Bella 🖤 |
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By *orcsmatMan 2 weeks ago
Kidderminster |
"What’s the exact moment you realised you are deviant by normal society norms and are interested in the swinger lifestyle "
1972 when I fucked my girlfriend's friend while her husband fucked my girlfriend.
No internet so never met other couples as the process was long winded and expensive.
Had we able to meet other couples online I suspect my life would have been very different. |
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My ex gf was always talking about wanting a threesome and one night she said she knows a guy that's always asking her out for a drink .so I said why don't we all go out together for a drink anyway after a few drinks we started chatting about sex and could tell ex gf was getting turned on and we both started kissing her and asked him home with us best night of our lifes that night .to this day am the guys best mate and nip out for a odd drink with him and chat about the good times when we were younger.never looked back on the swinging life style .even when I was married me and the wife enjoyed the life style together |
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By *andSxxCouple 2 weeks ago
Birmingham |
"When a FWB took me to a swingers club, I agreed to go and jusr observe. Ended up immersed.
That’s a common thing I guess .: go in as a voyeur and come out a swinger "
That's exactly what happened to us.😅 |
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By *ony MannMan 2 weeks ago
Lagos, Portugal/ Ilfracombe Devon/ Anoover |
It could have been when a part time lover turned up with her cousin or when I joined another site, but it was probably at my first club. A man invited me to fuck his wife in front of him and three other men, I did. |
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By *sWyldWoman 2 weeks ago
Edinburgh |
I'm not a swinger, I'm not a deviant. I quite like the concept of some societal norms.
However I also quite like the possibilities here can bring.
Not sure what that makes me but I've been this way since about 2011 |
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I think the amount of actual swinger's on here is pretty minimal.
For the most part it seems to be full of people cheating on their partner or singles looking for a quick fuck because they assume swinger's are easy.
Then you get the group who like to live vicariously through others exploits.
So asking seems a tad pointless when genuine swinger's seem a bit thin on the ground. |
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"When I was asked that my now ex boyfriend's boss wanted me as his birthday present. I was asked by the boss's wife. The fact that I discussed it with my then boyfriend, planned and went through with it defined me as a swinger. This was more than 30 years ago.
Mrs"
More than 30 years ago ? |
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It was a dark and misty morning. Sunbeams flickered like dancing flames though his wiry black hair. I left the bagwash and followed him down the jigger where I earned my 50p for the driers....... best not to tell the kids when I pick them up from school I thought to myself cos they will only tell their Dad.....
So .... I guess it was early December circa 1996 at approx 2.45 p.m. |
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We’ve always been filthy deviants, and started talking about fucking other people whilst we were fucking. The key moment was when we started talking about threesomes, foursomes and moresomes when we weren’t horny and fucking each other x |
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I'm going to be honest. I'm not sure if i would he classed as a swinger as i havent had a 3sum(yet) been to a club or anything like that.
But what i did realise that i didnt want to be monogamous, it was march last year i had been seperated 9 months was looking for a fwb. Ended up meeting a couple of guys of tinder, and thay was then it hit me. One of them recommended this site amd this has been my main source of meeting guys since. I just enjoy being ENM.
I know i will have thay 3sum at aomepoint and probably go to club. But when im ready. So you guys can decide if i am a swinger or not. |
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Having a threesome isn't necessary to be a swinger. Nor is going to a club.
Funny really - it's talked about a lot but no one seems to know what it means.
I'd just say i'm non monogamous the rest doesn't matter. |
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"When I was asked that my now ex boyfriend's boss wanted me as his birthday present. I was asked by the boss's wife. The fact that I discussed it with my then boyfriend, planned and went through with it defined me as a swinger. This was more than 30 years ago.
Mrs
More than 30 years ago ? "
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Many, many years ago innocently fucking in the car in a quiet car park.. and notice a guy openly watching... she got very turned on by it and after I shouted to the fella in a friendly manner “your a ballsy sod”, he replied “ well it is a dogging site” and we all got chatting ... he told us about the dogging scene, clubs, etc.... and after the first club visit where there was a swimming pool full of naked people playing, we were hooked... |
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