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* Why you decided to join the site?
* Is it all that you thought it would be?
Only ask as it seems a daily post on these forums of a single bloke moaning they don't get meets/no messages etc so I'm presuming a lot thought this site would be similar to your "dating apps" and a little effort = sex on tap and then are disappointed when they find it it's not.
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"* Why you decided to join the site?"
For friendship, socials and sexual trysts.
"* Is it all that you thought it would be?"
Yes, and much more. Some loving, some loathing, some good, some not-so-good and some indifference.
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I'm not on any dating apps. I have no reason or warrant to moan. I do just fine. 💙 |
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I was going through a very difficult time in my life when I joined nearly 7 years ago.
And the experiences/people I’ve met through this site has surpassed my wildest dreams. 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
Some ecstatic and delicious times.
Like in all social settings, you need to find your tribe, even if that is reduced to just a couple of people. |
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The organisers at the club I go to run VIP lists through the forums. That was it initially.
I've had a good amount of messages but only one has ended up in a meet so far.
I'm trying to do more in the forums but I'm not really into online dating anyway so I just kind of reply to messages but don't go looking. Club nights are plenty lol |
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Was here as a single, then on the scene as a married couple more around 8 years and enjoy the experience very much. The site is good, clubs amazing and the dynamic suits as I now enjoy being single. |
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I've never been on dating apps.
I joined almost 9 years ago with very little sexual experience.
I'd had a couple of overlapping life changing and life affirming experiences just before turning 50 and wanted to explore the unexplored but had no idea how to until I stumbled across this site.
I've never been like a child in a sweet shop and always done it my way and remained extremely fussy despite lots of pressure to meet and do it the way others felt I should.
I've never been that type of person so I've said no much more than I've said yes and I've found that people respect me more for not following the herd.
I had zero expectations when joining and have no regrets over any decision I've made here even when a couple of those turned out badly. |
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I initially joined because I was around my friends gaff and his missus was half initiating, I thought it was a wind up then see this site in his phone. So registered to find their profile, he lied about his height lol I have found a few people who I know but would never let them know. Now I mostly browse, I've accepted you have to be gay or bi to get a meet on here as a male. |
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Neither of us have been on dating apps. We definitely wanted to chat with like-minded people. We're enjoying the social side and learning about others, ourselves, and eachother. What we have now works for us, we like it. We have our first social of anykind next month too, so chatting to others that are going too is nice. I'd say it's going very well, better than expected (atm) tbh  |
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My fuck buddy at the time suggested it, as I was looking to complete some bucket list role plays.
I found all of that and so much more on here and happily stopped looking 18 months ago, as I've all I ever want and more 
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"* Why you decided to join the site?
* Is it all that you thought it would be?
Only ask as it seems a daily post on these forums of a single bloke moaning they don't get meets/no messages etc so I'm presuming a lot thought this site would be similar to your "dating apps" and a little effort = sex on tap and then are disappointed when they find it it's not.
C xoxo"
Why? Mainly for greater opportunities to have some of the sexual experiences others took for granted that I struggled to experience when I was younger, and to be seen as an object of sexual desire rather than be that ‘safe’ guy (and therefore unexciting in bed) that people assumed I was and therefore only wanted sex with me when they wanted to settle down and start a family. It was a horrible existence, to be honest, not to mention an unexpected burden on my self-esteem — I just wanted to feel sexually desirable from a recreational perspective rather than a procreational one.
Is it all that I thought it would be? Yes and no. I always knew I was a very small fish in a massive ocean, so that never changed from dating life, but the end goal was ultimately different. It's taken me a long time to get to where I am now, and it's had its fair share of ups and downs, but it's been worth it so far. I've met some great people who see me as a sexual creature rather than as a status symbol so that's a big win for me, especially for my self-esteem, and I feel I'm in a better place mentally now.
Apologies for my waffling. |
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This site has been amazing, i was recommended to sign up and my sex life has been very busy lol.
This site is heaven for a masseuse. I’ve made so many genuine friends here which i did not expect.
Still have things i want to try so i’ll be on here a little while longer. |
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A Twitter follower suggested it, saying I’d “clean up” on here.
I may have misconstrued what she said.
A number of factors have meant that I very much have not “cleaned up” on here. But it’s been fun. |
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Originally joined the site with my wife, we wanted to spice things up which we did for over 20 years, due to ill health though she has had to stop, ive hung around cause I like to chat with old friends we’ve met over the years. |
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. It's entertaining looking for it though 
