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The advice given to single men who ask what pics and videos women like to see is that they should focus on what they like rather than what others like.
The same principle applies to everyone. Don't concern yourself with what others want to see and put your effort into what you like but just don't have them all too samey.
It gives a much better picture of your own personality rather than a box ticking approach.
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Depends if they are all of the same thing, like 20 pics of your face, 30 pics of the same cock, 10 pics of the same ass, those can be a bit repetitive. If the variety is there, quantity isn’t a problem. But how many public pics does anyone really need to attract attention, probably not as many as you think. |
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I’d say do what you like, show what you like, and as many as you like.
If it puts someone of, it’s a them problem, not yours. You probably wouldn’t be compatible if trivial things like that bothered them. |
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I’d always say you do you. If you like taking them, if you like posting them, then do it.
I hide most of mine because I have loads, I change around what I show to suit my mood, or maybe a challenge or theme.
Find what works for you, don’t worry about others. If they are bothered, they’re probably not worth bothering about |
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"No, I think your pics and vids are pretty spot on. Its refreshing to look through a profile and not be bombarded by pics more suited to a gynaecological study."
I agree with this, up close and personal....no thanks. Puts me off a profile if there is tbh. |
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You have a good balance of Dan, Karla and together. So consider to get that balance you’re already gonna 3x what a single needs to get variety. Plus if you enjoy it then keep going! Or get a bottle of wine and you both get x number of photo pics the rest go to friends only, make a game of it. Or caption photos. Basically enjoy it, and don’t be concerned about how many. |
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Just looked at your gallery, OP.  😍😍😍😍😍
You are both so gorgeous- a very rare ocurrence on this site with couples- that both halves are really hot! 🔥 🔥 🔥
Keep all the photos I say! 😍
Got my coffee now to enjoy the videos  |
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By *ornycougaWoman 2 weeks ago
MADERIA Wherever I lay my hat |
Funny I was thinking the same thing and should delete my older stuff. I love your gallery OP. Great content and so refreshing to see hubby not just the Mrs on a couples profile. Keep up the good work!
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We have a ton of photos. We admire those that fab them all. We like seeing lots of photos on profiles gives you a better idea of personalities. Although ten photos of the same thing in a row isn’t great. |
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Personally, I only ever look at the first page. After the 35 most recent it goes onto multiple pages. So I tend to keep my numbers under 35 and delete the oldest, since the most recent is a fairer representation of how I look today. I also chuck out anything over a year old.
I always find it weird when people have pictures from over a decade ago. To me there's just no point in that 💜 |
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It's a bit like the comments guys get... how many dick pics do you need. If everything on a profile is boobs, pussy, lingerie or an arse in a short skirt it gets a bit samey. Mix them up and it's fine but some are just gym pics, fully dressed lounge pics, emojis over bits pics. |
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"Funny I was thinking the same thing and should delete my older stuff. I love your gallery OP. Great content and so refreshing to see hubby not just the Mrs on a couples profile. Keep up the good work!
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Thank you, we try to have a balance of both of us. We are here as a couple after all and it's important to show both! Hate profiles where we can't see both if it's a couple. |
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"Just looked at your gallery, OP. 😍😍😍😍😍
You are both so gorgeous- a very rare ocurrence on this site with couples- that both halves are really hot! 🔥 🔥 🔥
Keep all the photos I say! 😍
Got my coffee now to enjoy the videos "
Thank you! |
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By *ornycougaWoman 2 weeks ago
MADERIA Wherever I lay my hat |
"Funny I was thinking the same thing and should delete my older stuff. I love your gallery OP. Great content and so refreshing to see hubby not just the Mrs on a couples profile. Keep up the good work!
Thank you, we try to have a balance of both of us. We are here as a couple after all and it's important to show both! Hate profiles where we can't see both if it's a couple. "
I totally agree. If it is hotwife only and just looking for guys then fair enough. But ridiculous if looking for women and couples and for Mr to join in |
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Too many? well, nobody's making you look at them all...
But in many 'couples' profiles there aren't any photos of the man; probably some of his dick. Ms L2L gets a bit grumpy about this, quite often a request from her for a full body shot will result in no reply, or in one case us being blocked; this after some message conversation had been occurring. Doesn't seem unreasonable that a woman might want to know what to expect when we meet another couple. |
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"How many is too many? Would it put you off a profile that has alot? We feel we have too many and maybe we should concentrate on ones people like?
But the other side of us loves showing off  "
We’ve been in a similar boat to yourselves, so we cut ours right down now, we did have over 200, but most people wouldn’t look after the first page we got told, so we took loads off. |
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On reflection I suppose the more you have the better idea you get about someone and if you'd be into them, rather than trying to be all and everything.
If you like cosplay, if you like boobs, spreading, spanking or showing off in expensive restaurants ... there's no point having one of each in the hope you'll appeal to all, you want to appeal to those with similar interest. |
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We used to have hundreds up but we found that only the first two pages were getting views and fabbed.
Our pics (in our opinion) aren’t samey.
I’d say put as many as you want up - suit yourself and not others but if the pics don’t have variety then there might be little point adding more.
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Quite happy to see just a small handful of photos - I want to know a woman has a body that I find attractive, if a couple, I want to confirm her husband/partner’s not a mad axe-murderer (I know, looks can be deceptive!) and then once chatting, I like to see a face pic or two and maybe a full body shot (clothed is fine). Hopefully, we’ll then enjoy a conversation, or many more, and arrange to meet up.
I certainly don’t want to see a host of (cliched) wannabe-porn-star poses; that’s generally a turn-off for me - I’m here to meet people, not for the porn.
But each to their own. |
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By *ythenMan 2 weeks ago
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"How many is too many? Would it put you off a profile that has alot? We feel we have too many and maybe we should concentrate on ones people like?
But the other side of us loves showing off "
Don’t be worried about too many pics and what others think.. it’s yer profile and ye enjoy showing yourselves to your fellow fabbers keep them coming 😈😈 |
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"How many is too many? Would it put you off a profile that has alot? We feel we have too many and maybe we should concentrate on ones people like?
But the other side of us loves showing off "
You should do Fab the way you want to do it.
Great pics |
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"How many is too many? Would it put you off a profile that has alot? We feel we have too many and maybe we should concentrate on ones people like?
But the other side of us loves showing off "
We feel in a similar boat. Now and again we have a purge - try the old "less is more" approach....
Although from what we can see theres absolutely nothing wrong with your content, it's fantastic stuff 🔥 |
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We're probably going to out some of the older pics, especially towards the warmer weather when getting naked outside is more doable.
Our exhibitionist side is thinking about more beach and outdoor nudity this year! |
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"How many is too many? Would it put you off a profile that has alot? We feel we have too many and maybe we should concentrate on ones people like?
But the other side of us loves showing off "
You should definitely have more 😂😍😍😍 it’s never too much |
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By *bi HaiveMan 2 weeks ago
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"How many is too many? Would it put you off a profile that has alot? We feel we have too many and maybe we should concentrate on ones people like?
But the other side of us loves showing off "
I have an allowance of 1600 apparently. I'll never get close to filling that, but I'll add what I want, when I want.
As long as there's variety you can never have too many photos/vids in my mind. It's when the majority look identical that i ask what's the point?
People like visuals. If you make them interesting then it will only benefit you. Make them full and repetitive and you'll achieve the opposite.
But the nature of, and quality of photos are a very useful filter in decision making processes. |
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