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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Disagree ! We have never been stood up as of yet
Neither have I in the six years I've been doing this."
We have had cancellations one was 10 minutes before we were supposed to meet by a local single guy, other than that loads that keep chatting and back out even though that is very annoying and a waste of our time, we don't call them timewasters just call them too stupid to realise what they are missing out on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ur opinion"
You have been a member for 4 months yet you don't have any verifications. Personally if I received a message from you I would regard you as a time waster. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"ur opinion
You have been a member for 4 months yet you don't have any verifications. Personally if I received a message from you I would regard you as a time waster."
upto u ur free to think u like
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ur opinion
You have been a member for 4 months yet you don't have any verifications. Personally if I received a message from you I would regard you as a time waster."
Why ? Sometimes people like to take their time about getting a meet, it is especially hard for single guys but that doesn't make them a time waster. Also just because someone doesn't have veris up the ying yang , they may be having the time of their lives on here just don't need to tell the whole site about it. |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
Been stood up once in 18 or so months - that to me is a timewaster...had a couple of last minute cancellations where the reason for cancellation seemed to me like something off dodgyexcuses.com, but that's been where I've made it clear that I'm coming for a social meet and nothing else is promised. Have had cancellations from folk I've already met which are quite valid, and I've had to cancel meets myself for valid reasons - life does get in the way sometimes! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't really accept that timewasters exist unless you let them. Every one will cat asses decide to continue or bin someone at multiple stages through a conversation string over days or weeks. Just because someone at some stage on the time-line someone says they are out its a decision based on facts not stringing someone along. Its like everything you have to put in and you won't get to meet everyone you chat to. Chilling out going with the flow is the best direction and accept people will drop off as you progress through your swinging experience. |
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"Been stood up once in 18 or so months - that to me is a timewaster...had a couple of last minute cancellations where the reason for cancellation seemed to me like something off dodgyexcuses.com, but that's been where I've made it clear that I'm coming for a social meet and nothing else is promised. Have had cancellations from folk I've already met
which are quite valid, and I've had to
cancel meets myself for valid reasons
- life does get in the way
sometimes!"
I can't believe anyone in their right mind would cancel a social meet for no good reason, especially with you. This isnt a shag anyone site after all. A social is just that with no expectations. |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
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"ur opinion
You have been a member for 4 months yet you don't have any verifications. Personally if I received a message from you I would regard you as a time waster."
psssttt he is verified!  |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
"Been stood up once in 18 or so months - that to me is a timewaster...had a couple of last minute cancellations where the reason for cancellation seemed to me like something off dodgyexcuses.com, but that's been where I've made it clear that I'm coming for a social meet and nothing else is promised. Have had cancellations from folk I've already met
which are quite valid, and I've had to
cancel meets myself for valid reasons
- life does get in the way
sometimes!
I can't believe anyone in their right mind would cancel a social meet for no good reason, especially with you. This isnt a shag anyone site after all. A social is just that with no expectations. "
I know, and I did have the cable ties and rohypnol ready just in case I did fancy them...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have had loads of time wasters, you get chatting, arrange a meet then half an hour before they are due to turn up we get a text to say they cant make it, then within an hour they are off the site, had this happen to the last 5 people we have been chatting to........really pisses us off |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
"Hey Caz, are you saying even though it was a social you fancied the guy and would have had sex with him anyway? Or what? "
Missed out the one word Steve..."IF" I fancied him, then I'd have had sex with him whether he wanted to or not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's relatively easy to spot the time wasters.
The majority are guys who have been on the site for at least a few months but still do not have any verifications. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's relatively easy to spot the time wasters.
The majority are guys who have been on the site for at least a few months but still do not have any verifications."
As a young single guy new to the site, I'm honestly not expecting to get a meet any time soon tbh. I imagine the couples / single ladies on here get a shit load of messages each day, and being honest, I suck at trying to make myself seem interesting in a message. I'm hopeful I will get a meet, but I'm not expecting it to be anytime soon, but don't like the idea of that making me look like a time waster x |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"It's relatively easy to spot the time wasters.
The majority are guys who have been on the site for at least a few months but still do not have any verifications."
I think they tend to be unlucky, not timewasters. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's relatively easy to spot the time wasters.
The majority are guys who have been on the site for at least a few months but still do not have any verifications."
Considering how hard it is for guys to get a meet - I'd actually say time wasters are more likely to be women who've been on the site for a few months with no varifications ... I'm always suspicious when I'm contacted by these profiles.
Single women 25, can accom, age range 18-99 ...been on site 4months ...NO verifications ...hmmm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One persons time wasting is another persons careful cautious planning, taking all things into consideration. For some on here, the act of introducing a third party into a relationship, is a very serious business. Even though its all about being "sexually liberated" etc. ,for some this doesn't come as easily as choosing a new shirt or dress, and neither should it in our humble opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's relatively easy to spot the time wasters.
The majority are guys who have been on the site for at least a few months but still do not have any verifications.
Considering how hard it is for guys to get a meet - I'd actually say time wasters are more likely to be women who've been on the site for a few months with no varifications ... I'm always suspicious when I'm contacted by these profiles.
Single women 25, can accom, age range 18-99 ...been on site 4months ...NO verifications ...hmmm"
Thats cause most the single women here are men...easy to spot from a profile at times and the a couple messages in you usually get the idea....move on to someone verified and no time wasted |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd actually say time wasters are more likely to be women who've been on the site for a few months with no varifications ... I'm always suspicious when I'm contacted by these profiles.
Single women 25, can accom, age range 18-99 ...been on site 4months ...NO verifications ...hmmm"
Hmmm..... that could be because they are possibly.... shock! horror! .... Men.
With the huge mismatch of numbers on here between single guys and single women (some claim it is as much as 100-1), ANY 'woman' on here who has NO veris after just 3 months starts to become 'questionable'.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Disagree ! We have never been stood up as of yet
Neither have I in the six years I've been doing this.
We have had cancellations one was 10 minutes before we were supposed to meet by a local single guy, other than that loads that keep chatting and back out even though that is very annoying and a waste of our time, we don't call them timewasters just call them too stupid to realise what they are missing out on "
I had one that cancelled a hour before. All the chat beforehand is timewasting if they are going to meet, everyone's time is precious and annoying to those who got to fit round responsibilities too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ooooohhhh a timewaster thread first thing on a monday!
So someone had a crap weekend talking to men masquerading as women (Hot blonde, slim, probably aged 20-30 who "wants cock now", luuurves anal and can accom) who promised a hot encounter yet somehow never showed up so he spent Friday and Saturday nights wanking over the keyboard and felt he had to moan that it's not his fault but someone elses?
Anywhere near the mark?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ooooohhhh a timewaster thread first thing on a monday!
So someone had a crap weekend talking to men masquerading as women (Hot blonde, slim, probably aged 20-30 who "wants cock now", luuurves anal and can accom) who promised a hot encounter yet somehow never showed up so he spent Friday and Saturday nights wanking over the keyboard and felt he had to moan that it's not his fault but someone elses?
Anywhere near the mark??"
No. He probably overshot the keyboard and hit the screen... |
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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago
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We have been on here nearly 2 years and have never had a 'timewaster'. Had 1 couple cancel the day before and we have had to cancel a meet on the day.
But I guess it all depends on what your definition of a timewaster is !?
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