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Where's your self confidence at...
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"today?
(low) 1 - 10 (high)
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Mine is a bit low at the moment.
Normally I am ok with self confidence but since Covid I have put weight on and I have STILL NOT. Managed to shift it off. In like pretty much two years!
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My self confidence is usually pretty high and remains constant.
I would be interested to find out what knocks people's confidence. Both on and off Fab.
On Fab, if you get a knock back surely you go again and again. My presumption would be that constant knock back may dent it. Particularly if you are a woman (purely, only because it's fairly standard as a man given the numbers etc) |
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Personal is high, probably an 8 and as high as it has been for years!
Newly single and a new pad, new car on order, promotion at work in a job I enjoy, 4 holidays booked and a penis that still works like new.  |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS 3 weeks ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
Sky high, as last Saturday night I was chatting to a sober woman and it was only after 5 minutes when I mentioned that my balls were freezing, that she realised I wasn't fully female.
Seems unbelievable, but it means a lot to us TG folk stuff like this.  |
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"Personal is high, probably an 8 and as high as it has been for years!
Newly single and a new pad, new car on order, promotion at work in a job I enjoy, 4 holidays booked and a penis that still works like new. "
Life is good then !! |
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Some honest answers there; great to see so many 8's & 9's, sorry to anyone who's kicking about with the 2's, 3's & 4's...
Inside, I'm with you today, a miserly 4. But outside, the 'me' people see; still a good solid 9!
Fake It Til You Make It 😎 |
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"Personal is high, probably an 8 and as high as it has been for years!
Newly single and a new pad, new car on order, promotion at work in a job I enjoy, 4 holidays booked and a penis that still works like new.
Life is good then !!"
Yes thank you, I'm optimistic for the years ahead! |
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By *929Man 3 weeks ago
bedlington |
It’s ok maybe a 6, had lost a bit weight through eating less over Christmas hold and was looking scrawny which absolutely hammers my confidence but size and vascularity has been back last few days so very happy |
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By *YDB75Man 3 weeks ago
East Yorkie |
It vary rarely gets any higher than 3/4.
Its amazing that things said to you as a teen in school changing rooms/showers and play grounds by other teens always stay in your conscience and come back to hurt you all over again |
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"It vary rarely gets any higher than 3/4.
Its amazing that things said to you as a teen in school changing rooms/showers and play grounds by other teens always stay in your conscience and come back to hurt you all over again "
Unfortunately very true |
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Been at a 1 all week. Then I remembered I can literally walk on fire, present workshops in front of 200 people with 45 mins notice and decided fuck it, I'm still alive and kicking, so now it's at a 7. |
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By *rtyIanMan 3 weeks ago
Gateway to the Beacons |
"Been at a 1 all week. Then I remembered I can literally walk on fire, present workshops in front of 200 people with 45 mins notice and decided fuck it, I'm still alive and kicking, so now it's at a 7."
Good for you lovely x |
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"Been at a 1 all week. Then I remembered I can literally walk on fire, present workshops in front of 200 people with 45 mins notice and decided fuck it, I'm still alive and kicking, so now it's at a 7."
Sounds like you are rocking it!! |
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By (user no longer on site) 3 weeks ago
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About a 5 at the moment. Feel good because I've lost weights, but also feel shit because I've had to say goodbye to someone I was getting along really well with.
(Not from here, as those tend to not bother saying bye lol. |
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This forum definately hit home with me. As I'm getting older and with my lumps, bumps, anxiety and mental health issues I am struggling more with my confidence and hence struggling to approach new ppl, especially in the clubs. I miss all signals if anyone is interested or not 😂
Actually I'm wondering if this new event Xtasia have asked me and my husband to host stating 'we are a perfect fit' would help anyone. It's going to be aimed at building ppls confidence and helping ppl meet and interact with new ppl that believe they have imperfections. I believe nobody is perfect and we should all embrace all the positives things we have to offer others and ourselves xx
The event happening at Xtasia on Saturday 8th March called Perfect Imperfections.
Feel free to have a look:
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/events/1678402
Hopefully see some of you there.
Tabby x |
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