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By *eanB31 OP Man 3 weeks ago
Birmingham |
So I've been approached in public by wife's, girlfriend's, fiancé's and even friends of the person ive linked up with from here, calling me out for being a terrible person.
Should I feel shame and regret or should the blame land on the person ive linked up with.
Cause sometimes I don't feel anything and other times I feel sick to my stomach.
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"And are you a terrible person?
Nah I like to think I'm a good person and I'm not the one cheating, if they mgs me should I just outright blank it or let it happen"
I don't know who you're meeting, but something isn't right
I've met literally hundreds of people over the years and not once have I had to deal with a partner, spouse or friend of one of them
As far as I'm concerned, whatever goes on between me and someone I chat with or meet, is strictly between us - it's no one else's business
So, yeah, maybe some discretion on who you are engaging with is needed
Filters are there to be used
If you're chatting with or meeting with guys who can't keep things to themselves and this is happening consistently, then you need to shoulder some of the responsibility |
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By *eanB31 OP Man 3 weeks ago
Birmingham |
"And are you a terrible person?
Nah I like to think I'm a good person and I'm not the one cheating, if they mgs me should I just outright blank it or let it happen
I don't know who you're meeting, but something isn't right
I've met literally hundreds of people over the years and not once have I had to deal with a partner, spouse or friend of one of them
As far as I'm concerned, whatever goes on between me and someone I chat with or meet, is strictly between us - it's no one else's business
So, yeah, maybe some discretion on who you are engaging with is needed
Filters are there to be used
If you're chatting with or meeting with guys who can't keep things to themselves and this is happening consistently, then you need to shoulder some of the responsibility "
Yeah I get what your saying I should be more careful who I'm meeting. Thanks |
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By *eanB31 OP Man 3 weeks ago
Birmingham |
"I think if you're knowingly meeting attached people, then you do have to accept that this will have consequences.Ie partners finding out and being angry, as you're very identifiable on here. "
True |
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You're an adult and you can do what you want with other consenting adults.
If you're knowingly assisting someone in hurting and betraying another, it's not unreasonable that sometimes that will come back on you.
It's a choice you make. |
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