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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have noticed on a couple of threads the disrespect that some men have for the ladies. When saying someone of the fuller figure was fat. Hairy pussies are nasty well I'm sorry but this is lowering the tone don't you think. Yes I know each to there own and people have ways of saying things. Respect is all I am saying think about what is written or how it's written.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think some people find it offensive, and some will find it quite ok to say it as its honest ....
Its down to what the individual perceives as ok I guess
I call myself fat all the time however if I see it on here I do tend to jump on the defensive side !!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Reality check we are all here i assume to meet folk and fuck what people call me dont worry me. I have become goid friends away from fab with my meets so lucky i suppose. |
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"rude wording is often just being honest  "
Not always. Depends on the intent behind it. Often the intent in here is to offend.
Take the Alison Moyet thread. One poster out she was a 'huge fat waff' (not really sure what a waff is) if the poster wanted to be honest he should have just said 'I remember she was a fat lady' by adding the extra words he made it offensive |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"rude wording is often just being honest
Not always. Depends on the intent behind it. Often the intent in here is to offend.
Take the Alison Moyet thread. One poster out she was a 'huge fat waff' (not really sure what a waff is) if the poster wanted to be honest he should have just said 'I remember she was a fat lady' by adding the extra words he made it offensive"
sure but also who posts it... male, female... regular, not regular, what subject and the motives behind it.
many times you see outrage from people, who then go on and post similar |
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"I have noticed on a couple of threads the disrespect that some men have for the ladies. When saying someone of the fuller figure was fat. Hairy pussies are nasty well I'm sorry but this is lowering the tone don't you think. Yes I know each to there own and people have ways of saying things. Respect is all I am saying think about what is written or how it's written.
Rant over "
personally i would take more offence to being called cuddle chunky big etc etc! i am FAT it's not a insualt it is a fact |
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"rude wording is often just being honest
Not always. Depends on the intent behind it. Often the intent in here is to offend.
Take the Alison Moyet thread. One poster out she was a 'huge fat waff' (not really sure what a waff is) if the poster wanted to be honest he should have just said 'I remember she was a fat lady' by adding the extra words he made it offensive"
Yet you don't actually know the meaning of one of the words you say made it offensive....... interesting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Generally people are only offended because they want to be....... it gives them something to bitch about after all."
Definitely...and think sometimes people are quick to take offence on someone else's behalf |
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"I have noticed on a couple of threads the disrespect that some men have for the ladies. When saying someone of the fuller figure was fat. Hairy pussies are nasty well I'm sorry but this is lowering the tone don't you think. Yes I know each to there own and people have ways of saying things. Respect is all I am saying think about what is written or how it's written.
Rant over "
To be correct, he did't say the fuller figured woman is fat. He said Alison Moyet was a fat maff or miff whatever the ff word was.
She may not be a maffmiff .... but she WAS F.A.T. |
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waff (wf, wäf) Scots
v. waffed, waff·ing, waffs
intr. & tr.v.
To wave or flutter or to cause to do so.
n.
1. A waving or fluttering motion.
2. A gust of air; a waft.
[Middle English waffen, to wave, alteration of waven; see wave.]
Now I'm confused.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would rather have people calling a spade a spade than to pussy-foot around and be PC.
I am fat and old, and a Chink.
You are non of those Pearl. Unless you've changed drastically. "
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"Generally people are only offended because they want to be....... it gives them something to bitch about after all.
Definitely...and think sometimes people are quick to take offence on someone else's behalf"
Yep, usually those that think it'll somehow gain them brownie points: the ubiquitous White Knights. |
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"I would rather have people calling a spade a spade than to pussy-foot around and be PC.
I am fat and old, and a Chink.
You are non of those Pearl. Unless you've changed drastically.
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Eh? I am Chinese!!! "
Correct. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would rather have people calling a spade a spade than to pussy-foot around and be PC.
I am fat and old, and a Chink.
you missed out a lovely bundle of fun "
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You are too kind. However, I doubt if everyone agrees with you! |
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"Next Christmas can we have a campaign to get ‘Hey Fattie Bum Bum’ to number 1 in the charts?
No, Joe Tex: Ain't Gonna Bump No More With A Big Fat Woman "
I like that one...... Big Girls you Are Beautiful ..... Curly headed bloke. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Next Christmas can we have a campaign to get ‘Hey Fattie Bum Bum’ to number 1 in the charts?
No, Joe Tex: Ain't Gonna Bump No More With A Big Fat Woman
I like that one...... Big Girls you Are Beautiful ..... Curly headed bloke."
Mika. Good song. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Next Christmas can we have a campaign to get ‘Hey Fattie Bum Bum’ to number 1 in the charts?
No, Joe Tex: Ain't Gonna Bump No More With A Big Fat Woman "
How about Fat Bottomed girls by Queen |
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"rude wording is often just being honest
Not always. Depends on the intent behind it. Often the intent in here is to offend.
Take the Alison Moyet thread. One poster out she was a 'huge fat waff' (not really sure what a waff is) if the poster wanted to be honest he should have just said 'I remember she was a fat lady' by adding the extra words he made it offensive
Yet you don't actually know the meaning of one of the words you say made it offensive....... interesting."
well i wasnt the only one to think it wasnt a nice word but f you like i'll wait for the peron who posted it to clarify the meaning and report back. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok lip up fatty by bad manners for number one if that's the case. And I was not trying to be PC or brownie points before I lost a stone and a half I was fat and hated being referred to as fat. Personal choice I know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well i wasnt the only one to think it wasnt a nice word ....
And that's the perfect example of people 'choosing' to be offended."
I thought it was funny not offensive. I'd quite like to be a waff, it sounds fun. |
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well i wasnt the only one to think it wasnt a nice word ....
And that's the perfect example of people 'choosing' to be offended.
I thought it was funny not offensive. I'd quite like to be a waff, it sounds fun. "
I think it would be a good name for one of those not quite silent farts where you hear the gas without a rasp. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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well i wasnt the only one to think it wasnt a nice word ....
And that's the perfect example of people 'choosing' to be offended.
I thought it was funny not offensive. I'd quite like to be a waff, it sounds fun.
I think it would be a good name for one of those not quite silent farts where you hear the gas without a rasp."
Silent but deadly... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Calling someone fat when they are fat isn't rude.
Going out of your way to make them feel bad for being so however is rude and unkind.
There's a BIG difference between the two."
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think a lot of the issue on here is that we only read words, and interporate them the way we want to. The way we interporate the words will differ depending on our mood at the time.
We aren't aways able to appreciate the tone being used in another person's style of writing. |
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"I think a lot of the issue on here is that we only read words, and interporate them the way we want to. The way we interporate the words will differ depending on our mood at the time.
We aren't aways able to appreciate the tone being used in another person's style of writing. "
Now that's RUDE ! |
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