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I suppose I have a few questions here as I realised that I don't actually what what I find attractive in a face, I generally just see and know!
Do you know what to look for in a face that attracts you and is it more or less important than attraction to a body for you?
Bonus question for those who do know, what is it for you? |
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Interesting on the eyes (and smile) as the front runner, but do you know what sort of eyes attract you and what sort of smile attracts you? I appreciate I'm going into the minutiae here, but that's something I found I didn't know. |
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"Interesting on the eyes (and smile) as the front runner, but do you know what sort of eyes attract you and what sort of smile attracts you? I appreciate I'm going into the minutiae here, but that's something I found I didn't know."
It’s the expression behind them that makes them beautiful. Some peoples eyes make you feel warmth. It’s hard to explain I just say kind eyes. If you’re wondering, yes you have very kind eyes |
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Yeah I have a facial type that I tend to wander to 98% of the time. I like a rounder shaped face, eyes that flash with depth when their emotions change, a generous big smile with lots of laughter crinkle lines. I like a lot of eye contact, so if he captures my gaze then my intentions will be clear
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"I know what I don't like
I guess that means that everything else is on the table "
I should also say that, physically, the face will always win out over anything else
I'm not massively bothered by body shape, fitness levels, cock size, boob size, arse shape etc
If I like their face, we get on OK and I fit their criteria, we can make it happen |
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For me, some people "sparkle". Not in an aura way or any of that malarky but when you see them, they just appear to "Sparkle". They enhance your life, make you smile, make you excited to see them. Sparkle, its the only word i've ever been able to describe whatever it is. |
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"Interesting on the eyes (and smile) as the front runner, but do you know what sort of eyes attract you and what sort of smile attracts you? I appreciate I'm going into the minutiae here, but that's something I found I didn't know."
I love eyes with a glint, with dark eyebrows
I like thick kissable lips |
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"Dunno, I just find some faces attractive and others not. There doesn't seem to be any specific consistent features between people so I'm obviously just totally random."
I was the same! I do find a certain feature ver attractive but it's never been a one size fits all sort of thing. |
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"Honestly i personally find people's personality more attractive over physical features. "
I find a lot of people can say that until they come across someone they don't find attractive. Can personality make someone more attractive to you? |
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"I suppose I have a few questions here as I realised that I don't actually what what I find attractive in a face, I generally just see and know!
Do you know what to look for in a face that attracts you and is it more or less important than attraction to a body for you?
Bonus question for those who do know, what is it for you?"
Got to be attracted to a face... Eyes and smile are my favourites |
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"Interesting on the eyes (and smile) as the front runner, but do you know what sort of eyes attract you and what sort of smile attracts you? I appreciate I'm going into the minutiae here, but that's something I found I didn't know.
It’s the expression behind them that makes them beautiful. Some peoples eyes make you feel warmth. It’s hard to explain I just say kind eyes. If you’re wondering, yes you have very kind eyes "
Ahhh thank you Jamie ♥️
And I get what you mean, sometimes it is just that feeling of knowing how someone looks at you that makes you feel better. |
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By *opeyXWoman 3 weeks ago
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"Honestly i personally find people's personality more attractive over physical features.
I find a lot of people can say that until they come across someone they don't find attractive. Can personality make someone more attractive to you?"
One million percent. Also a not one look fits all. I generally can't decide if I'm attracted to someone until I've met them and spoke to them. Probs why social events work better for me than online chatting. |
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"Honestly i personally find people's personality more attractive over physical features.
I find a lot of people can say that until they come across someone they don't find attractive. Can personality make someone more attractive to you?
One million percent. Also a not one look fits all. I generally can't decide if I'm attracted to someone until I've met them and spoke to them. Probs why social events work better for me than online chatting. "
This is true for me too...
I've definitely ruled people out from a picture them met them and been attracted. And vice versa. I prefer to meet for a coffee and chat without seeing a picture otherwise I'll pre judge. |
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"Yeah I have a facial type that I tend to wander to 98% of the time. I like a rounder shaped face, eyes that flash with depth when their emotions change, a generous big smile with lots of laughter crinkle lines. I like a lot of eye contact, so if he captures my gaze then my intentions will be clear
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That's the sort of answer that I find interesting! Just the exact details of what you know you find attractive. Would you say that's a hard and fast rule or have you gone slightly further from that? |
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By *a LunaWoman 3 weeks ago
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The body is never the attraction to me. Face and humour is what does it for me.
I like a lived in face, that is quick to smile and kind twinkly eyes. Humour and a generally positive “can do” attitude for the win.
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"I know what I don't like
I guess that means that everything else is on the table
Very interesting! What is it that you don't like?"
Sorry Joe, I'm conscious that if I start getting detailed, it may play into someones insecurities and I don't think that's the spirit of this thread  |
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"I know what I don't like
I guess that means that everything else is on the table
Very interesting! What is it that you don't like?
Sorry Joe, I'm conscious that if I start getting detailed, it may play into someones insecurities and I don't think that's the spirit of this thread "
Ahhh that hadn't occurred to me but you're very right and that's very admirable  |
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Honestly I don't think I could describe what or why I like in a face.
Other than it's more a case of simply how a face works as a whole.
Often I've felt I don't like x feature or love y feature yet been surprised to see it flipped because of the rest of the face. I've found myself attracted to the usual suspects but also the unconventional to most.
Similar to you, op, I just sort of know what I like when I see it. |
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It's in the eyes and the smile. Sparkling eyes, or the kind of eyes that draw you in and you get lost in.
A beaming smile goes a long way, everyone should wear one.
Definitely more important than body shape too. Someone could have an amazing body but if they didn't smile then nahhh, not for us. |
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Eyes. I’m a sucker for a naughty twinkle and puppy dog eyes. If they can pull off a good smoulder too then all the better
Lips…. I need to want to kiss them. I can’t tell you what the magic ingredient is as I’ve no idea. I do like lip biters though
Smile. Genuine warm smiles and cheeky grins please |
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find a cheeky smile and playful eyes quite attractive. Great facial bone structure and a well-shaped head also make a person stand out to me, especially if they have a well-groomed beard and beautiful hair."
But her prefer voice and the way they speak can tell if the person interesting or boring in such a short period. Her |
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"I have no particular preferences, I don't think. How a person's face is animated by their thoughts and feelings is what attracts me rather than cold aesthetics. That sounds wanky, doesn't it?  "
That sounds really wanky but the good kind of wanky. The descriptive wanky that helps put words to our thoughts. I said ‘kind eyes’ but tbh this is what I meant! |
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"I have no particular preferences, I don't think. How a person's face is animated by their thoughts and feelings is what attracts me rather than cold aesthetics. That sounds wanky, doesn't it?
That sounds really wanky but the good kind of wanky. The descriptive wanky that helps put words to our thoughts. I said ‘kind eyes’ but tbh this is what I meant! "
Oh, phew! I'll take being the "good" kind of wanky |
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I couldn't go by a photo. I've met people because I thought I was attracted to their pic but there wasn't attraction in person. Weird isn't it?
I met a guy who'd laugh and his whole face would light up and id think phwoar! Someone else who'd wink at me, especially when someone else was talking to me, I found it so sexy. Someone else who'd lick there lip and talk with their hands. The list goes on.
My friend's would probably say I have a type. I'm not sold.. |
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I don't look so deeply. I see and I am attracted. It could be for a variety of reasons. The one constant is that I have to find a face attractive to be attracted. Regardless of personality or tits/ass etc. |
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Certain facial features do attract me but it will be the overall package. And when you're with someone we deduce personality attributes too. I can be fully deterred by a face or really sold on someone by it. The wrong personality can kill things too. |
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"I suppose I have a few questions here as I realised that I don't actually what what I find attractive in a face, I generally just see and know!
Do you know what to look for in a face that attracts you and is it more or less important than attraction to a body for you?
Bonus question for those who do know, what is it for you?"
Yes, a face Is nice, we all have them, lips for me. But someone's attitude towards it all is far more important, relaxed and confident is a real winner. |
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"Being attracted to their face is important, yet I don’t know how to put into words what it is that I find attractive, I just do.
This was really unhelpful, I know! "
Oh it isn't, it's actually quite affirming to know others feel that way too and it's not just me 😅 |
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Largely a 'know it when I see it', but generally speaking big eyes, nicely shaped lips.
For me a face probably is more important than someone's body. If I don't find someone's face attractive, I won't get as far as knowing what their body looks like without clothes on. |
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Whilst the eyes and teeth are the main facial attraction. It's not always that simple.
There's something about the facial structure, contours and features eg beard or clean shaven, laughter lines etc.
Pictures give an indication yet are flat because you don't have the personality coming through. |
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For me it's facial attraction first above anything else. If I don't find you facially attractive I don't go any further into personality etc but I couldn't tell you down to specifics what i like in a face, I just sort of know it when I see it |
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I must be weird, I don't really look at faces and it's rare I find one attractive?? For me I'm drawn to positive energy... and an intensity in the eyes that tells me they are interested [in me]. Throw in a bit of intelligence and I'm drafting my wedding vows  |
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By *ags73Man 3 weeks ago
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"I must be weird, I don't really look at faces and it's rare I find one attractive?? For me I'm drawn to positive energy... and an intensity in the eyes that tells me they are interested [in me]. Throw in a bit of intelligence and I'm drafting my wedding vows "
I sort of understand that. Seeing someone in front of you and the eyes sort of convey everything and that’s something a photograph can’t get over |
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"I must be weird, I don't really look at faces and it's rare I find one attractive?? For me I'm drawn to positive energy... and an intensity in the eyes that tells me they are interested [in me]. Throw in a bit of intelligence and I'm drafting my wedding vows "
*McLovin generates superman esq lasers from his eyes directed at midnight*
I have an IQ of 150, I'm also a fibber
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"I must be weird, I don't really look at faces and it's rare I find one attractive?? For me I'm drawn to positive energy... and an intensity in the eyes that tells me they are interested [in me]. Throw in a bit of intelligence and I'm drafting my wedding vows "
Ahh intelligence is something underrated |
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"I must be weird, I don't really look at faces and it's rare I find one attractive?? For me I'm drawn to positive energy... and an intensity in the eyes that tells me they are interested [in me]. Throw in a bit of intelligence and I'm drafting my wedding vows
Ahh intelligence is something underrated "
You want intelligence and big hands? Now you're just getting greedy darling |
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"I must be weird, I don't really look at faces and it's rare I find one attractive?? For me I'm drawn to positive energy... and an intensity in the eyes that tells me they are interested [in me]. Throw in a bit of intelligence and I'm drafting my wedding vows
Ahh intelligence is something underrated
You want intelligence and big hands? Now you're just getting greedy darling "
Yes…. Your point is?  |
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"I must be weird, I don't really look at faces and it's rare I find one attractive?? For me I'm drawn to positive energy... and an intensity in the eyes that tells me they are interested [in me]. Throw in a bit of intelligence and I'm drafting my wedding vows
Ahh intelligence is something underrated
You want intelligence and big hands? Now you're just getting greedy darling
Yes…. Your point is? "
You're hot and demanding 
I get the impression you are dossing on here like me. Although I'm technically working from home. |
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"I must be weird, I don't really look at faces and it's rare I find one attractive?? For me I'm drawn to positive energy... and an intensity in the eyes that tells me they are interested [in me]. Throw in a bit of intelligence and I'm drafting my wedding vows
Ahh intelligence is something underrated
You want intelligence and big hands? Now you're just getting greedy darling
Yes…. Your point is?
You're hot and demanding
I get the impression you are dossing on here like me. Although I'm technically working from home. "
I’m house sitting today and catching up on the family backlog of laundry I’ve brought with me. |
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Eyes and mouth … the lips and the way a mouth moves really draws me in. Their smize and how it lights up their face. But no hard fast rule as to the rest as those I have found attractive have not always followed my “on paper” likes and have varied due to there just being “something” about them 🤷🏻♀️ |
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I am absolutely attracted to a face more than anything else. Body doesn't really matter to me so much if I like their face and their personality. It's not about specific physical attributes either, I like all different looking faces, but when you know you just know 🤷🏻♀️ it's hard to put into words. Sorry that isn't helpful 😂 |
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By *riel13Woman 3 weeks ago
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I am stumped by what, facially, I find attractive but physically it is the most important thing for me. If I like your face and your personality and we are a good match and localish then I am happy... It's harder to find than unicorn shite tho, unfortunately... But no I couldn't pin point why I fancy some n not others... Being pretty is definitely not enough tho |
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"I am stumped by what, facially, I find attractive but physically it is the most important thing for me. If I like your face and your personality and we are a good match and localish then I am happy... It's harder to find than unicorn shite tho, unfortunately... But no I couldn't pin point why I fancy some n not others... Being pretty is definitely not enough tho"
I like this face |
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"I’m just here to promote my face, Joe.
Please give me feedback on my face, everyone. "
Mate, Careful what you ask for on your face around here 
You might get more than you bargained for. This is fab after all. |
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"I’m just here to promote my face, Joe.
Please give me feedback on my face, everyone.
Mate, Careful what you ask for on your face around here
You might get more than you bargained for. This is fab after all. "
Would you cum on my pretty face?  |
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"I’m just here to promote my face, Joe.
Please give me feedback on my face, everyone.
Mate, Careful what you ask for on your face around here
You might get more than you bargained for. This is fab after all.
Would you cum on my pretty face? "
Hell no, my semen is strictly for females only. |
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"I’m just here to promote my face, Joe.
Please give me feedback on my face, everyone.
Mate, Careful what you ask for on your face around here
You might get more than you bargained for. This is fab after all.
Would you cum on my pretty face?
Hell no, my semen is strictly for females only."
All the DL guys say that |
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By *HUSH-Man 3 weeks ago
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I definitely need to like someone’s face in order to be attracted to them. What is deemed as conventionally “good looking” can do nothing for me.
I do notice that I pick up on facial symmetry quite quickly and I’m more drawn towards that type of facial structure. |
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"I’m just here to promote my face, Joe.
Please give me feedback on my face, everyone.
Shameless 😂
Hello, you
oh dear
I know what you’d do to my face.
Put a mask on it
You, me, everyone 😷"
God I love you. |
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"No particular feature.. sexy is just sexy innit.
That’s what I try tell the mandem. Not everyone can be me. "
You're humble though Steve, that's all that counts. |
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By *eliWoman 3 weeks ago
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I don't know, no. I know that I have a soft spot for twinkly eyes but in terms of how it actually looks? No. A face is more important to me than a body, by a considerable amount (obviously personality most important, yadda yadda clichéd statement etc). I've been disappointed when I've seen someone's face but never their body. Quite often there can be an erm... difference between the face and the body.
I think once I'm attracted to someone, their face becomes even more attractive to me. All those little features bring an extra element of charm. And when that attraction goes, sometimes I can think what the hell did I see in them? Or, gosh, they're not aging well. |
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Idk what makes a face attractive to me, but it's my favourite part. My attraction to people is so varied, so there's not one, or even a few things. I do find people more physically attractive once I like their personality, starting with the face |
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By *mf123Man 3 weeks ago
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I find this hard to answer this as i know exactly what the answer is for me
So il generalise a lil bit
It normally starts with her eyes and how expressive they are can i sense what shes imagioning when i drop certain words and suggestive thoughts into conversation and general flirtiness of them
Also how they react to my intense eye contact touch and stroking of her hand arm or shoulder
Also that first nervous smile i catch her do while we chat
but mainly its the energy are my instincts telling me i need to have this girl pinned to a wall before this day is finished and do her eyes tell me she needs that too
Then and only then i might think about it
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